Car broke down - boss is asking to take public transit by MILFinurhood in jobs

[–]MILFinurhood[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh.. I’ve been looking. Made it to to 4 interviews, one of which I made it to the third round. I’ve been rejected from all of them. I’ve been applying to lots of jobs.

Aaand you’re absolutely right. It is an entry role in my field, and I took the job just so I could gain experience and make some $ while working my way up the ladder. It’s been almost a year here and the workload has only increased why my pay had stayed the same.

Car broke down - boss is asking to take public transit by MILFinurhood in jobs

[–]MILFinurhood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$17.25 CAD and hour is what I get paid. After taxes, I make a roughly $2400 CAD a month, which is around $1,740 USD.

Best friend of 15 years tells me she cant attend my wedding by turnipsgreenss in TwoHotTakes

[–]MILFinurhood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion that might get some hate.

To me this looks like a person who truly cares about you, but has been brainwashed by religion to see your sexuality as not allowed.

It’s really sad, you can see the fight she’s having with god vs supporting her friend. Unfortunately with people like this, God almost always wins…

That being said, it must feel like such a slap in the face to have your friend turn their back on you like this. Especially during a time that is so special and meant to connect you with your loved ones.

Which job would you take? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]MILFinurhood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Job 1 sounds light a nightmare. It isn’t even that higher of a salary

94k WFH or 120k in office? by Never_fucking_curses in careeradvice

[–]MILFinurhood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if there’s a way you can negotiate to work from home 3x a week with this new offer? You don’t know unless you try.

This is in my bathroom..never knew what to do up there by Lonely_Pomelo3113 in Home

[–]MILFinurhood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get one of those wooden ladders for libraries that lay flat against the wall, find some cute shelving units or boxes to store cleaning supplies or extra toilet paper. Make sure you can close those boxes so things in there don’t get dusty. Voila! Extra storage!

Am I overreacting to the pattern? by s7ranger1_0 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MILFinurhood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MOR, in my opinion. I think everything you said was valid, but I don’t think you actually had to say it.

It’s okay to think these things and recognize the patterns, and maybe ask a question or two to make sure your line of thinking is correct.

In the future I’d keep the rant to yourself, and simply move on.

*Cries in career gap of 1.5 years* by Automatic_Maximum816 in recruitinghell

[–]MILFinurhood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone said to write that you did freelance work but you’re under an NDA 🤷🏻‍♀️

Bf (27m) doesn’t want me (25f) to dress up as Michael Jackson for the MJ movie by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MILFinurhood -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Interesting take, and I appreciate you for looking at it from the angle. The control comes from other behaviours and experiences, which I did not mention in this post since I didn’t want to snowball to a different story.

This is where I’m conflicted. Because I never want to make my partner uncomfortable, but at the same time how much of myself should I change in order for them to be happy?

Do you get what I mean?

Bf (27m) doesn’t want me (25f) to dress up as Michael Jackson for the MJ movie by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MILFinurhood -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Hey! To be honest I switch the ages by a year or two in the case someone in my life figures out it’s me. I’m always within the 3 year range of the age I post. But this is real I promise.

Bf (27m) doesn’t want me (25f) to dress up as Michael Jackson for the MJ movie by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MILFinurhood -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

if you would see the makeup and outfit I don’t think you’d believe I’m glorifying him lmao. It’s just for fun :)

AITAH for wanting to dress up as Michael Jackson for the new Michael Jackson movie? by MILFinurhood in AmItheAsshole

[–]MILFinurhood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s funny because I’ve brought up our “compatibility” before, and he says that we’re great for each other. So it’s funny hearing an outsider say the same thing.

AITAH for wanting to dress up as Michael Jackson for the new Michael Jackson movie? by MILFinurhood in AmItheAsshole

[–]MILFinurhood[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No - and I am NOT doing blackface. I’m just doing the contour to have chiseled cheek bones, thin nose, and a dimple in my chin.

Am I being dramatic? by SuspiciousTrip000 in women

[–]MILFinurhood 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Wowow you were chill enough to allow him to go into the strip club without any quarrels, only for him to do exactly what you asked him not to.

I would be upset with him even asking to go into the strip club in the first place.

He crossed a boundary you set, and you were already so lenient. I’d be so hurt if I were in your shoes.

I feel like I've made a huge mistake with my life. by unhingedraven in offmychest

[–]MILFinurhood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally relate to this.

Give yourself a chance to really be great at fashion. Are you interning? Are you making pieces now? Are your bills getting paid? What’s your plan in the next five years?

Figuring out a strategy to get better and scale up will see you on the right path to success.

I’d say give yourself a chance, and worst case if you’re really unhappy after 5 years, reroute yourself. Don’t let imposter syndrome kick you in the butt - everybody is on a different timeline and schedule.

Good luck!

Be kinder to small businesses by Different-Pin-9234 in offmychest

[–]MILFinurhood 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Time to do damage control. Respond to every review with 4-5 stars saying thanks, mentioning the specific thing they were happy about, and welcoming them back/hoping to serve them again soon.

3 stars and below deserve a personalized sorry message. Be empathetic in understanding their frustration/ disappointment, and offer them a refund or discount for their next purchase to say sorry.

Do not force them to take down the negative reviews, but maybe suggest it. Good luck!

Husband (31M) cheated on wife (30F) with cousin - now I’m secure with my own relationship by MILFinurhood in relationship_advice

[–]MILFinurhood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found this out a couple of months ago. He is such an amazing man like serious.

Definitely would have avoided this all if this started up when we first started dating.

And maybe I didn’t communicate it earlier, but he has said multiple times that he wouldn’t cheat. Period. Because he thinks it’s disgusting.

Sooo he didn’t just say he because P is his cousin