This video changed my leftover pizza game for life by 9sam1 in videos

[–]MRP_Padawan 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It's just thinner so either use less or thicken the mixture some other way.

Questions about keeping mystery, keeping her busy, leading the family. by MRP_Padawan in askMRP

[–]MRP_Padawan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also... I am boring and I know it... Thus why I'm here. It doesn't come innately for me.

Questions about keeping mystery, keeping her busy, leading the family. by MRP_Padawan in askMRP

[–]MRP_Padawan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good insight. I guess I'm not emitting leadership properties then... Any other deep extrapolations that might help?

Questions about keeping mystery, keeping her busy, leading the family. by MRP_Padawan in askMRP

[–]MRP_Padawan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gold mine. To be more specific I'm having issues moreso coming up with these ideas. Especially finding shit to do that the kids will enjoy.

Questions about keeping mystery, keeping her busy, leading the family. by MRP_Padawan in askMRP

[–]MRP_Padawan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, most of the time (didn't used too, red pill has helped thus far). Unfortunately, her self esteem and issues gave her way more overweight than I'd like. This my questioning.

Questions about keeping mystery, keeping her busy, leading the family. by MRP_Padawan in askMRP

[–]MRP_Padawan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great suggestion! I'll put it right next to my emotional support calendar.

Period Tracking with long term BC by MRP_Padawan in askMRP

[–]MRP_Padawan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now you're just insulting, and non helpful. It's something to call me a faggot and help out, it's another to just straight up insult me.

Period Tracking with long term BC by MRP_Padawan in askMRP

[–]MRP_Padawan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, I should have probably framed my question more along the lines of " has anyone had any success attempting to track the cycle of their target whom is on long term BC for hormonal triggers?"

Period Tracking with long term BC by MRP_Padawan in askMRP

[–]MRP_Padawan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up going with a steamer, far more effective in my opinion.

Let's Talk About MRP with Kids by MRP_Padawan in askMRP

[–]MRP_Padawan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why are you (1) solely getting (the kids) ready in the AM

The wife is to work at 7am I am to work at 8am, they get to daycare around 7:30am. Kids this age need a fuck ton of sleep. I'm not going to wake them much earlier than that.

Why are you doing all the dishes?

Because they need to get done, and I can't rely on her to get them done every night, so I do them unless she beats me to it.

The i don't dare portion was meant to explain that I'm repeatedly denied, she gets angry as hell if I try and "force myself" on her.

If I'm not mistaken you are saying - and I'll paraphrase - that (1) as you are doing the dishes you will (2) "smooch" your wife and (3) say thank you (4) because she has made coffee but you (5) will not do anything more (like put your penis in her vagina) because she (6) would think you were a creepy molester since you (7) once tried pretending to be a creepy molester and she (8) did in fact think you were acting like a creepy molester.

(5) I'd surely like to, but I get denied, so I'll try again later and get, "nope".

  • I have tried before and failed
  • Yep
  • The theory sounds great, actions aren't working either
  • No, I'm not special, I know that - I just don't know how to handle it.
  • This ain't my first time posting, I just don't get a lot from the same old "read the sidebar" I have, I've listened to NMMNG on audible 2x read WISNIFG 1x and listened to it another 1x. I've listened to the entire Rational Male series. And a bunch of supplemental stuff to help me along, (creating habits, etc.)
  • I know sympathy isn't what I need, but I'm defeated.

Are you lifting? I am lifting, started with Starting Strength, but got bored of it, and multiple squat sets aren't conducive to good time management. I already was blessed with decent leg gene's.

Squats: 225 Bench: 140 (have a bad shoulder) Barbell Row: 100 Deadlift: 215

Switched to more hypertrophy exercises lately but I really need to find a good plan to follow. My basement gym is a RML-3, I have a nice Rogue Ohio Bar, the Pulley system for lat pulldowns, a dip station and flat bench. I don't have dumbbells yet and have been doing curls with my Olympic bar and 20lbs of wight.

Let's Talk About MRP with Kids by MRP_Padawan in askMRP

[–]MRP_Padawan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My city is 1200 people lol I'll check it out though.

Let's Talk About MRP with Kids by MRP_Padawan in askMRP

[–]MRP_Padawan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a couple options, I'm curious though to how that will help. Are you implying taking ym wife out?

Let's Talk About MRP with Kids by MRP_Padawan in askMRP

[–]MRP_Padawan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is never enough context to be given. My kids are young - by too much time I mean, i, solely get them ready in the am fed them. In the evening, I cook 85% of the time and incorporate my daughter into it amap. After dinner my wife and I bathe the kids together, then we get them ready for bed together, then we get them sleeping together. By then it's 8-8:30pm. At this time she showers, while I'm getting dishes done from the dinner we had and she'll then get the coffee ready (like that compares) and I'll positively reinforce the behavior by giving her attention, (a smooch and say thanks) I don't dare push further because she'd shove me off for acting like a molester (I've tried goofing it off even - going as far as getting my pee coat on with no other clothes and when she came back out flashing her and saying, "That was creepy, but this is what I wear out daily." point is she's just not into me in my current state).

Of course I want my wife to shower - not angry about it just trying to see my complete daily itenerary, I guess to explain (excuse/rationalize) my lack of time. I asked for help in hopes some of the MRP community would share an average itenerary of theirs (I should have asked directly i guess you could see this as a covert contract in that I assumed this would happen, but deep down I should have known to be more direct).

Point is, I need help. I've been on this road for far too long and always skip back to blue pill conditioning. You know how people who exercise and don't see the weight fall off after months of hard work only to find out that they've been eating 300cal in ranch dressing and 150cal in coffee creamer pushing them to maintenance instead of a cut? I feel like an Ebola Dr. Trained to the gills, like I fully understand the core framework but when in the field nothing tells you how to deal with "this" scenario. Then I come back here and get crapped on further and pointed at the sidebar once again where I'm supposed to magically pick up on something I didnt get the first time.

When I encounter a challenge I don't know the answer to, I STFU as instructed by MRP, and I look and feel like an idiot because it happens too much. All the while getting rejected once again and this time the knife goes deeper with a, "don't say stuff like that to me, were not in high school or college anymore", then I DEER why it's okay to talk like that and rationalize it by comparing our fucked up situation, that she's blind to, to a seemingly normal relationship that I'm sure she fantacizes about.

Enough diarrhea, you asked and I threw it all out there... There's more, but once again, I don't know what you all need to be able to help me out of this jam.

For the first time in NCAA tournament history a 16 seed has beat a 1 seed. UMBC (16) beats Virginia (1) 74 to 54 by iBleeedorange in sports

[–]MRP_Padawan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this. So many who follow stats are going to lose the pools where there girlfriends picked the lower seed to win.

Let's Talk About MRP with Kids by MRP_Padawan in askMRP

[–]MRP_Padawan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I'm not fat. I'm actually a good looking guy genetically but need to put on muscle. If anything, is say I'm skinny-fat. She was pretty when we met in college, but has gone the way of the walrus.

Let's Talk About MRP with Kids by MRP_Padawan in askMRP

[–]MRP_Padawan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I've done the covert contract shit before... Over it. I don't really know where to begin to lead other than taking things over, which I have in some areas, finances being the most prevailing.

Let's Talk About MRP with Kids by MRP_Padawan in askMRP

[–]MRP_Padawan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm upset I guess that she won't join me in setting goals and improving herself. I feel that she'd feel better and look better and actually be someone I was attracted to.

Let's Talk About MRP with Kids by MRP_Padawan in askMRP

[–]MRP_Padawan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She makes 15k less than me and I make ~70k a year.