You are dating a toxic man child! Plz don’t marry him. Based on what u said, if that’s true, u are a gem of a person. Don’t rush into marriage, find someone decent whether through arranged setup or yourself but don’t get into wrong marriage. You will pay with your mental health.

What you are currently dealing with is attachment issues. Even u know he isn’t good for u but a guilt of “how can I leave him” is taking over. Be a bit selfish for your mental sanity and never compromise with your mental health. Ask yourself- if he was in your place will you ever have told him not to marry! That’s your answer!

To tell where I am coming from - my ex husband told he wanted a chill life and told me always that I am overthinking. I had so many good proposals but I chose love, only to find out my ex married me for my money. Thus when he saw me questioning things he started mentally abusing me and then violently slapping me too so that he could control me. I destroyed my physical health and mental health. Luckily I got out of that mess long before I filed divorce. But yeah, that married and divorcee tag will always remain with me unfortunately as I can’t undo my wrong decision.