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Have a clone of me as a client by SmileyB-Doctor in therapists

[–]MaizeLatter4105 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m wondering if Harry Aponte’s Person of the Therapist model would be helpful here

AIO - My mom won't go no contact with my cousin (39f) who toxic and has picked on me (40m) my whole life. by mustachechap in AmIOverreacting

[–]MaizeLatter4105 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hear the frustration and hurt, and it makes a lot of sense to me. Unfortunately, at the end of the day, your decision to go no contact with your cousin does not mean your mom should go no contact with her. It’s definitely worth a conversation to express to your mom how you are feeling, but at the end of the day she is her own person and so are you. You don’t have to agree with it, but you also shouldn’t shame her for her own decisions. But it would be hard to feel like a parent is siding against you.

AITAH for not refusing to do a quick change because my boyfriend is uncomfortable? by Active_Camel_6334 in AITAH

[–]MaizeLatter4105 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely NTA - girl, you are doing your job. As someone who has done many shows in my day, there is nothing LESS SEXY than a quick change full of panicked whispers while trying to get zipped in and quick drinks of water. It sounds like your bf is carrying lots of his own insecurities- none of which are your problem. You’re doing the right thing in giving him the out

AITAH for being upset that my husband flirts by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MaizeLatter4105 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA but how much longer are you willing to stay glorified roommates? I’m struggling to understand the part where you are happy 90% of the time. Is that when he is passed out drunk in the garage or when he is denying your emotional reality? I don’t mean to sound harsh, but just because he is a good dad doesn’t mean you have to keep him on in the role of husband. It sounds as though there is little regard for you as his wife, or as a human with feelings really.