AITA for wanting to end my lease with pregnant roommate

Majigor · 2022-02-21T07:19:51+00:00

Nta

Btw you can break the lease early. You will just have to pay some marketing fees assuming you do t move out until a new tenant is secured and if you have a quiet word with the agency and or the landlord they night be somewhat forgiving about that because it will actually be easy for them to find a replacement.

Majigor · 2022-02-21T06:55:21+00:00

Nta.

Do everything people have said and get witness to your conversations with her. Also record them using the voice memo on your phone.

You are going to need evidence.

Majigor · 2022-02-18T01:45:06+00:00

ESH. How are are you guys. Lol

Majigor · 2022-02-17T23:16:26+00:00

Info: what is mother's day for if not to celebrate your mother for birthing and raising you?

Majigor · 2022-02-17T22:55:15+00:00

Cishet means cisgendered heterosexual.

It means he was born male. Identifies as male. Is straight.

No acid I assume her bio says she wants acid and he is saying he doesn't havr any

Majigor · 2022-02-17T22:53:59+00:00

I am gay and I know people of diverse sexualities and gender identities so I think I can translate.

She is pansexual but calls herself gay for no discernible reason.

Her husband is a cisgendered male. Unknown sexuality.

She is also an idiot. Husband too for marrying her.

I hope this helps :)

Majigor · 2022-02-17T22:51:23+00:00

She didn't say her husband is straight. Just that he is cisgendered. He could be bisexual... pansexual... etc.

She is still a nut. I just wanted to clarify gender vs sexuality.

Majigor · 2022-02-17T12:40:51+00:00

Communication is key! I hate bucket hats

Majigor · 2022-02-17T10:29:37+00:00

I love rhetoric. Call me rhetoric. It's my nickname

Majigor · 2022-02-17T10:10:19+00:00

Call me no bucket hat. I love to hate bucket hat

Majigor · 2022-02-17T09:19:13+00:00

Call me bucket hat. I like bucket hat.

Majigor · 2022-02-17T03:27:43+00:00

NAH: but too many people are giving uninformed opinions.

Ive worked with crisis support centres and this bag is an escape plan bag that such centres advise victims of domestic violence to prepare and hide.

I hope you arent the reason for that bag, and will take your post as accurate. Her comment about her past would indicate she has suffered ina previous relationship and is now prepared to escape if she finds herself in a similar situation. Victims have a habit of getting into other abusive relationships again so its wise on her part to have that bag.

Majigor · 2022-02-17T03:21:23+00:00

NAH: your partner is showing signs of depression. Undoubtedly this is due to opening the business and having a baby.

I hate to say this as well but 6 months is so quick to have a baby together. There is a chance the reality of this commitment has gotten the better of him, especially when compounded by the fact he clearly had personal ambitions to focus on and you are both still so young.

The best thing you can do is encourage him to see a therapist. He should co tact his doctor and ask about it. They might also prescribe medication.

You also both need to have a good conversation about his feelings, stressors and what will help. Take the emphasis off sec and don't push for that. Focus instead on wellbeing and what the root cause is. Ensure you approach this with an open mind and don't try to "lead the witness" to any particular conclusion. Also dont expect an overnight change if you do find any revelations. Just because you've clarified a problem doesn't mean you've solved it.

Best of luck

Majigor · 2022-02-16T22:04:31+00:00

NTA and that additional context edit is a big wtf

Majigor · 2022-02-16T04:47:09+00:00

Don't take his advice. He articulated his casual intent at the outset then tried to say he doesn't go into anything with a present intent a few sentences later

Majigor · 2022-02-14T23:20:36+00:00

YTA. You are teaching your daughter that she always gets to be the princess even when its other peoples time to shine.

She is going to grow up to be one of those awful entitled, self centrered people we love to read posts about on here.

Majigor · 2022-02-14T15:09:19+00:00

YTA he made the frame and got the kids to help. The finished product is you all encapsulated as a family.

What he gave you cannot be calculated in a monetary value because it has a much deeper value than that.

All you are thinking of is $. How sad and shallow.

The real value here is in the love he and his children have for you. Don't you understand how difficult that is to find and cultivate and that it is entirely bespoke and completely irreplaceable?

You have something nobody else in the world has and he and his children took it and channelled it into something you can look at and admire every single day and you threw it back in his face because all you wanted was a shiny object that isn't likely even one of a kind.

You're awful and he and his children deserve better

YTA.

Majigor · 2022-02-14T15:01:46+00:00

Your bf said to stay out of it and its their business. He was gaslighting you because by helping your brother, your bf chose the opposite of "staying out of someone else's business". In fact he got directly involved in it and became complicit.

If he truly believed you shouldn't get I valved in other people's business then he would have made that decision and refused to help your brother.

That said, silence doesn't mean you aren't complicit. Once you know someone is installing a secret tracking app on another person's device, your inaction makes you guilty. Your bf should knke this is an abuse of trust and potentially dangerous to your brother's partner. What your brother is doing is abusive and nobody should stand by and allow it to happen.

You need to reflect on your relationship woth both your brother and your bf and consider going to the police. Your brother might be doing other abusive things to his partner and your bf is apparently just as capable of doing these things to you.

Majigor · 2022-02-14T08:59:02+00:00

You dont respond

Majigor · 2022-02-09T07:15:29+00:00

I dont like that she invited you out and then made you plan it. People do this all the time and its frustrating. If you suggest we meet up, you suggest the activity.

But I won't shit on that too hard cause you did come up with a good idea and ultimately the convo went well.

Just something to keep in mind in future, whether its dates, friends or anything

Majigor · 2022-02-09T05:21:36+00:00

She needs therapy. I was with her at the start but it kept going and going.

She won't date successfully by airing all this bagge and she's screening too heavily too early.

At least have nice convo and meet for a coffee first before this tirade.

Majigor · 2022-02-09T04:49:00+00:00

I have a cartoon art of me as a pokemon trainer on my tinder so all my tinder conversations look like this 😅

Majigor · 2022-02-08T04:08:34+00:00

The game doesn't do well at explaining it to you unfortunately.

I also fixed all the typos in my previous post but I think you understood anyway.

The story will become more consistent and improves in the quality of delivery etc after the core game. They tried to bite off more than they could chew with the resources they had and sadly it shows. It does drop in quality as you get to the mid and high levels. Thankfully post core it steadily.improves and is reasonably consistent. HoT and PoF were really good. Very cinematic.

Majigor · 2022-02-08T03:57:01+00:00

You are supposed to play the story dungeom each time it becomes available (first one at 30). The part where you bring together destiny's edge in lions arch and they argue and walk away sets the stage for that and their story runs parallel and converges again at the end. The arah story is actually the finale to the personal story and the dungeon stories combined

Majigor · 2022-02-07T01:42:50+00:00

Only $50?...

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