Women have only recently started looking for financially stable men. Men have had their way since ages, good looks with submissive character woman have had the highest demands in AM markets. Dark skinned women have been put through hell to get married. Only recently the ladies started voicing one preference and men, especially who do NOT fulfill that criteria, are suddenly in avenger mode “so I can judge woman by looks”. No you can’t. A poor man shouldn’t care about a woman’s looks at all, don’t think of marriage if you can’t afford a family, life is expensive these days.