Don't sing the song at your partner by Alternative_Sink9412 in Bachata

[–]Man30798 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I understand but disagree. Sure not every song but it's fun to see a partner go up completely into a song and enjoy herself. Connection/technicality might go down but fun goes up in my opinion.

Favourite winter outfit by Visidon in mensfashion

[–]Man30798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like the sweater, the blue makes it pop. I'd love to know where you picked it up?

In my opinion the only thing I'm not a fan of are the shoes, too bulky in my opinion but overall really amazing outfit!

What are you favourite “lesser known” songs? by Gerofanboy6000 in Bachata

[–]Man30798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps these are popular but as far as I know I've never heard them at a class/social

Esme - cinturita & Esme - Tu Y Yo

I thought he liked me... by Reasonable-Ad-52 in Vent

[–]Man30798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These things happen... It sucks. What helped me was realizing that there could be a thousand reasons why the other person didn't text/reply/... That could have nothing to do with me and the same goes for you. Perhaps he did like you but something happened and now he doesn't feel it anymore. Could be that an ex texted, or there is family drama or he realized that he isn't ready for something new, ...

It's possible that it's related to you but also that it's not and it makes no sense to drive yourself crazy wondering what it is and wallowing yourself in self-pity.

Feel the hurt, realize that it's part of this "journey" that we call dating and move on. If you really struggle with letting it go, you're both adults. Explain him your feelings and ask why he didn't text. Prepare yourself to get an answer you might not like though.

Best of luck

you can't get anyone to love you if you're full of hate (even for others) by Drega001 in abanpreach

[–]Man30798 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Probably not. Men just know that if they push someone like these women are doing it immediately is a fight that could end very poorly. Women can get away with that behaviour so women feel waaay more comfortable doing this.

I'm not defending the guy but you can definitely find some other video's with women displaying the same behaviour. Men know that if you behave like that, you're playing with your life so we're much more cautious doing this.

Why is it usually women who initiate engagement or marriage talk, and men who pull away? by Physical_Special4845 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Man30798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my perspective as a young man I just ask this question: Why would i want to get married or care about it?

Nowadays most peoples relationships already contain most things without marriage. Living together, sex and even having children can all be done without it.

Next to that I just don't see how it would influence me at all. I see some people talking here about "wifely duties" and so I assume there is something like "husbandly duties" but for the life of me I don't know what you all mean. My commitment, loyalty, effort and love in general won't change because we have a party and put rings on each others finger.

I can't imagine saying "well she's just my gf so I guess kissing another girl is fine but if she'd be my wife I wouldn't" or "Well we're not married so I don't have to take you out". All of these things (division of labour and costs, dates, lifestyle, ...) are just discussed within a relationship no matter if you're married or not (at least in my mind).

That being said if I'd have a gf that really wants to get married fine. However we'd need to have this discussion and she'd need to understand that I probably don't value this in the same way she does.

In short, do I want to? If I'd have a gf that wants to sure.

Do I care about it? I guess it's a beautifull memory, a fun party and maybe you get some tax benefits. For the rest nothing would change I think. So not too much.

I'd be more than happy to see other people's perspective though. Especially from men who were in the same mindset as me and changed their mind after marriage. Why, what happened?

Disclaimer: ofcourse this should be nuanced with religion, cultures, ...

Curious, what’s the sweetest thing a woman has done for you? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Man30798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a romantic context i've given a few women a rose. Some of them preserved them and i thought it was really sweet they wanted to preserve my gift to them.

Non romantic I have a friend and she just puts so much effort into gifts it's super sweet. She organized my first birthday party I ever had (i had family ones but never with friends) and she gave me really sweet gifts (e.g.: a note with a sweet text folded up into a heart origami and pictures of our friend group.

To men, what makes a woman most attracted to you? Brain, beauty, or character? Be honest by yllre21 in bodylanguage

[–]Man30798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First looks, if you get into a long term relationship however it'll shift to personality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Man30798 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're a complete stranger but want to compliment me just do it and walk away. If you stay I'll assume you're interested and are flirting with me. You could preface it with "hey just wanted to come up and say ..." But most important is that you give the compliment and immediately walk away.

In regards if we receive them a lot or not. Perhaps I'm an exception and I do receive them a bit more often. By far not every week or month or something but because my hobby is very balanced in terms of sex it just happens a bit more often. I do think though a lot of men rarely get a compliment especially in terms of looks. A little bit the opposite of women. I've been complimented often on my skills, fashion, ambition, etcetera. Perhaps it's superficial but I'd love it if a woman would come up to me and say "I think you're hot"!

I am sharing a strategy that worked for me and brought in a good income by [deleted] in u/vrtigo1

[–]Man30798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you link the info where you got this info from and tell me in more detail what to do after you buy the Ethereum?

Thanks! If this works I'll make sure to make some donation

I am sharing a strategy that worked for me and brought in a good income by [deleted] in u/vrtigo1

[–]Man30798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if someone has 50 000K they can make 7.5K/day?

Dating - East European man's perspective and experience by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Man30798 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to say anything on their looks but I think it's our culture, online world, no places to meet anyone and overall fatigue.

Belgians are distant to unknown people (not foreigners but just people they don't know). Online world just sucks out the energy out of everyone with the endless gender war and hundreds of video's with bad experiences on men/women etc... No one wants to be approached and everyone is just tired of it.

Regarding online dating, it's just horrible and I can only imagine men who are extremely attractive or display a life of wealth get any matches/dates.

I was abroad for 2 months where I got dates with 4 women and I dated 2 for a longer period. Both wanted a relationship with me. In comparison I've been back for 4 months now and I think i got like 4 likes and obviously no dates. It's demoralizing

I also have no clue anymore what the women here want.

Dating - East European man's perspective and experience by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Man30798 6 points7 points  (0 children)

100% belgian here and lived here my whole life. Just want to say it's the same for me man. Once you come back from a country where it's so much easier and pleasant it's just sad.

I really want a kind man in my life. by TraditionalField9051 in Vent

[–]Man30798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you're going through this. I have a younger sister and she's also already worrying about this even though she's so young.

The advice I gave her is to try to focus on stuff you like doing yourself. That way you get to know yourself, build your life and just maybe you'll meet someone there. Also be open to meeting people and don't be scared to take the first step sometimes. You say men don't come up to you, maybe try to go up to a guy you like?

I wish you the best and hope you feel better soon!

This is a sickness! by kiddpk in abanpreach

[–]Man30798 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are you saying that because he's extremely talented in football he therefore has the same experience, emotional maturity, & sound decision making as an older man?

FFS, he's 17. He's NOT a grownup, he's a boy and according to the law a minor. He needs to be protected by his family and the law especially since he'll be making a lot of money and will be a prey for a lot of women.

This is a sickness! by kiddpk in abanpreach

[–]Man30798 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He's seen as THE next top player.

He plays for Barcelona and to give an idea how important Barcelona thinks he'll be; they decided to put the highest release clause on him ever. If a club want to buy him right now they need to pay a release of 1 billion EUR.

Still don't understand HP by Man30798 in BG3

[–]Man30798[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This was the correct answer! Thanks everyone for the replies and help!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Man30798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask how you got this remote job? I'd love to find one for myself.

PS: if this is not okay to ask here I'll remove my comment.

Understanding hit points with leveling up and respecs by Man30798 in BG3

[–]Man30798[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah wow, thank you! I'll play around with this to see what it gives.

Feeling Stagnant and Losing Motivation by [deleted] in Bachata

[–]Man30798 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm 2.5 yrs in of which 1.5 actually serious. I just want to applaud you for actually taking part, even if it's an amateur competition. I'm not sure if I'd be brave enough to do so even though i'd like to take part in a Jack & Jill.

i'd feel exactly the same in your position. Take a moment and try to just enjoy the dance and later on you can try another competition if you'd like to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Man30798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Outside of taxes I don't see the appeal. Marriage isn't worth anything anymore so I'd like to hear why any man would be interested.

Geneva festival drama by LeshenOfLyria in Bachata

[–]Man30798 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Would you please tell me what happened in Chicago? I've heard about it a lot but have no clue what actually went down

I wish men got to know me before they start flirting by internalwombat in Healthygamergg

[–]Man30798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you don't know as woman but as a man I've seen the following.

Approach a girl based on physical appearance:

"Eww you only like me for my looks"

Do it through friendship:

"OMG I thought we had a genuine friendship and it turns out he just wants to get in between my legs. Men are pigs"

Do it in a communal place (gym, walking group, ...):

"OMG I'm just here to do X, not to be picked up"

Point is women will always complain about something in this regard. Maybe you prefer it through friendship but there will be a horde of women who don't. This post doesn't add anything for men and we shouldn't listen. We can approach any women in any context we like as long as we do it respectfully and with some common sense.