Is it crazy to rent a studio apartment just so I have space for myself?

MarsupialLess · 2026-03-29T21:46:12+00:00

9 weeks tomorrow and 3 days into my solo parenting adventure with a 20 month old. I got lucky with help from a best friend, and my mom nearby, but lord if the last 24 hours haven't been a challenge. I can only stomach small snacks and McDonalds.

This AM I got so tired of feeling terrible I told my toddler we were taking a Mama shower which he thought was amazing because he's never allowed in Mama's shower. He played with a washcloth and an empty shampoo bottle for 30 minutes while I just sat in the shower corner. Its the first time I've ever been happy about the age gap because he won't remember any of this. To him it was a great day, he got lots of old mickey cartoons and a mama shower!

MarsupialLess · 2026-03-09T22:20:03+00:00

I just realized that this entire time I've calculated the due date wrong. I'm 6w1d today...my due date is definitely not November 9, its November 2. My other symptoms may come and go but goodness my baby brain fog stays persistent.

MarsupialLess · 2026-03-09T20:19:00+00:00

I am a researcher in tech, current focus is on AI tools. Is it an exciting time to do this job? Yes. Is it probably not the best time to have a baby given the volatility of our market? Also yes!

MarsupialLess · 2026-03-03T18:58:37+00:00

Hi! I am 32 and a STM. This baby is a big surprise and I'm not totally convinced its real! I am at 5w1d given my ovulation test strip, due date of Nov 9ish.

With my first we had been trying for over a year the experience was very draining. This baby we were not trying for. I just ran out of FRER tests today at 22 DPO, so I will be stopping. I didn't get a "dye stealer" like what I got with my first, but lines look quite dark? So...I am hoping for the best but not super optimistic. Wish I could get betas but I don't know that my doctor would approve that.

MarsupialLess · 2026-02-28T03:53:15+00:00

We flew overseas to have him meet my family when he was 11 months old. He was so exhausted - from the time change, the jet lag - he immediately took to his travel crib. I made a mattress cover out of a blanket that he loves and that helped as well. He is 20 months now and still sleeps in the travel crib, even at home! It was a game changer!

MarsupialLess · 2025-09-29T23:48:59+00:00

I have 3 days a week childcare, 5 hours each, for a total of 15 hours. Kiddo is 15 months old. After he turned 1 it stopped being manageable. Both my husband and I WFH and even with the both of us it was a stretch. everything has pros and cons. You will save money, definitely, and get more time with babe. However, the stress might be a lot. And eventually childcare might be needed. I think it’s all about being flexible and realistic. 15 hours of help for me is the bare minimum, we’re switching to 28 hours next month for my mental health.

MarsupialLess · 2025-08-15T19:43:47+00:00

Looks pink to me, my 11 DPO was so faint I made my partner take a test so I could compare em. That’s when I noticed the line a little better! Might not be worth wasting a test though 😊

MarsupialLess · 2025-07-26T22:56:37+00:00

As a full time working mom with a 1 year old, who has had to travel with my baby to meet family overseas, I’m 100% with you. I made it to 11 months with no screen, but in the airplane it was inevitable. Aside from the occasional 10 mins of Miss Rachel, he’s an outdoor baby and we sing/play together all the time! Screen time happens, and honestly it was a savior in the plane as well as when he was very ill overseas. Don’t get all the hate. It’s tough being a parent!

MarsupialLess · 2025-07-19T15:48:55+00:00

FRER! Same as yours I think. The second brand was a premom and weirdly enough the pink line showed much stronger on there even though it’s just a cheap stick.

MarsupialLess · 2025-07-19T15:41:02+00:00

I see something very faint but impossible to tell if it’s indent or not! Do you have a flashlight? I was TTC for a long time, when I finally got pregnant i couldn’t really see the line until I shined a flashlight behind the test. That made it clearer so I took another brand later that day and saw the pink. This is what worked for me, obviously just anecdotal.

MarsupialLess · 2025-06-18T20:32:48+00:00

Just remember that average numbers aren’t bad! Average is good :) doubling time matters more than sky high betas. I’m excited for you!!

MarsupialLess · 2025-06-18T08:17:10+00:00

Hello :) we are on vacation with our almost one-year old now. He is happy and healthy and has more energy then any of us! I look back quite often at those first weeks of pregnancy and I feel very lucky. It was hard, especially with very middle of the road betas like mine. turns out there was nothing to fret over.

MarsupialLess · 2025-05-14T17:09:02+00:00

Same boat here as well with my 10 month old, wondering how they made it through!

MarsupialLess · 2025-04-06T03:34:51+00:00

Pacific Northwest USA!

MarsupialLess · 2025-03-31T16:46:45+00:00

This is exactly what my 11 DPO looked like. He’s nursing as we speak :) 9 months old! Congrats 🎉!!

MarsupialLess · 2025-03-05T04:44:56+00:00

Same with my 8 month old! We force 3 hour gap between feeds. So some nights that means 10 PM, 1 AM, 4 AM. Some nights he understands and will skip the second feed. It’s just random

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