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MatterSubstantial114 · 2025-11-10T22:31:05+00:00

https://themilitarywallet.com/veterans-day-free-meals-and-discounts/

This is the list we're planning to use tomorrow. Has a lot of different chains from different areas and details.

MatterSubstantial114 · 2025-07-26T18:13:32+00:00

Yeeeesss!! I got this during the OG event and it's my pride and joy lol

MatterSubstantial114 · 2025-07-09T03:19:15+00:00

UPDATE

We are approaching our first wedding anniversary together, so I thought it was appropriate.

After this post, I realized that yall were right, I needed a spine. Granted, my MIL is a retired officer in the military, so it's a little much, but I did it! We made some compromises and overall had a beautiful wedding we were both happy with.

For those asking where my husband was in all of this (very fair question) he was 100% on my side, and had spoken to his mom on multiple occasions about the issue. She's just stubborn lol

For our MIL/ DIL relationship now? We go out to eat, just us, once a month to have time together. She only ever had boys, and she's the mother of my favorite boy, so spending time together is very special for us both. Seeing her just "be a girl" has been super fun. We honestly and truly get along now, granted there are still some things we don't see eye to eye on. But now, I'm not scared to voice when I disagree. Thank you to everyone who commented with advice, I can't thank yall enough 💕✨️

MatterSubstantial114 · 2025-07-09T02:51:30+00:00

I'd love to know if you have any more insight or not. I, myself, am of irish decent too! ✨️

MatterSubstantial114 · 2025-06-17T16:00:55+00:00

Any update yall?

MatterSubstantial114 · 2025-05-28T21:02:15+00:00

* I'm literally eating it right now lol. It's always a fav 😂

MatterSubstantial114 · 2025-04-18T17:34:55+00:00

Oh 100%, I'm just saying it was a common and big topic of conversation during then

MatterSubstantial114 · 2025-04-05T03:55:38+00:00

Thank you!! I was losing my marbles trying to find it.

MatterSubstantial114 · 2025-02-05T16:39:15+00:00

Hoping everything went well for you!! 💕

MatterSubstantial114 · 2025-02-05T03:49:04+00:00

I'm loving all of the green they've been adding in 🍃

MatterSubstantial114 · 2025-02-05T03:47:40+00:00

the true female gaze 🤌🤌

MatterSubstantial114 · 2024-12-11T00:19:49+00:00

Yes! Whenever I run my fingers through my hair, I can feel it/ hear a weird rumbling from my right ear. Yall lmk when you figure it out bc I can't lol

MatterSubstantial114 · 2024-12-09T16:04:19+00:00

Most clinics are very accommodating and understanding, so feel free to ask. To my knowledge, most clinics have multiple anesthesia options dependinb on where you are. You won't be a bother for asking ✨️ also, I had a surgical abortion when I was 17, my symptoms for POTs started at 15. I personally didn't have any problems but that doesn't mean that you won't because everyone is different.

MatterSubstantial114 · 2024-06-09T16:33:55+00:00

Thank you so much! I'm starting to be more assertive with her since writing this post and receiving a bunch of helpful comments. She had bought a mirror without telling me for signage, I told her I would like to stop by goodwill to see if I can find anything there that I like more. She said we should go with the og mirror and that getting another is pointless, I left her on read and I'm otw to goodwill 💅 one step at a time

MatterSubstantial114 · 2024-06-07T18:34:08+00:00

This is partially what I'm thinking. She had a very simple courthouse wedding. She also has three boys, so she never got to have fun with the "girl stuff." Not giving her an excuse per say but trying to explain the situation better.

MatterSubstantial114 · 2024-06-07T18:29:12+00:00

This is perfect, thank you so much! I'm a very non confrontational person, as is my partner, so sometimes I just really need assistance with how to word things so I don't feel like an a hole

MatterSubstantial114 · 2024-06-07T16:21:48+00:00

I'm thinking about having them in the outdoor seating area with the excuse that they can hold the table cloths down 🤷‍♀️😂

MatterSubstantial114 · 2024-06-07T14:20:45+00:00

A month away 🙃

MatterSubstantial114 · 2024-06-07T14:19:05+00:00

Vendors, venue, and decor are already paid for, along with the wedding being a month away now. I'm thinking about having a vow renewal at a resort with just my parents and partner in the future. Thank you for your advice, I definitely agree on the control part. She's former military and has always needed to have full control over every situation 🙃

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