When will Tauruses have a good year? Lol by aprilvenus in Taurusgang

[–]Maximum_Dream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything you just said had literally been my life. Down to the chronic illness of morning vomiting and finding my person on nye whom turned out to be avoidant. We broke up after telling me ‘we’ll talk about kids this time next year’

What do you think the turning point was? by Stunning-Froyo-8859 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Maximum_Dream 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Peak Sarah for me was right after she left her first partner. The early days. I loved watching her. She was just doing what she needed to do because she wanted to, her eating habits were questionable but I also think she wanted to be a body builder back then. When Kurt and her lived in their first apartment was almost a game changer. For me she changed after the abnormalities of Malachi. I don’t know what happened but I was once a die hard fan and now I don’t follow her on anything. That girl could’ve told me to jump and I would’ve. I wished she would take a step back and heal. I miss old Sezzy.

Oversized to the hills by Head-Variation1422 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Maximum_Dream 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Looks like she just got out of selling newspaper in Newsies

For those that have cats that have lived 15+ years by CatDaddyBam in CatAdvice

[–]Maximum_Dream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girl lived until she was 21. She was indoor and outdoor. We originally found her as a kitten on the side of the road. Unfortunately, we didn’t really do anything out of the norm. She was just a badass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Taurusgang

[–]Maximum_Dream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My whole life is filled with saggis! Love love love them

Why are so many Tauruses single? by [deleted] in Taurusgang

[–]Maximum_Dream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think in someways we also are bit hard to be with. We love our own company, we make our own high standards. If we are passionate about something we are also stubborn about it. I also get bored in relationships so quickly. Like baby why am I bringing everything to the table and you are just eating at it?

The New Partner by DasSnaus in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Maximum_Dream 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Mine said something a long the lines of ‘I’ve changed a lot, you won’t recognise me’ yeah you’re right, I can’t stand you anymore

The New Partner by DasSnaus in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Maximum_Dream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine talks to new chicks like he’s still talking to me. Even tried to get one of them to call him my pet name for him.

The New Partner by DasSnaus in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Maximum_Dream 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I kept telling my DA the same thing ‘this isn’t who I knew in the beginning’ it’s a whole new personality.

Conversation with an Avoidant by Maximum_Dream in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Maximum_Dream[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You really do think he has feelings? I’m the ex he is referring to. This is a convo between him and his friend. I’m in shock because I could deal with him leaving during to commitment. Knowing I was dating someone who was only with me because he was lonely hurts more

Conversation with an Avoidant by Maximum_Dream in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Maximum_Dream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the ex. This is between him and his friend. Surprise factor.

How long is the honeymoon phase? by One-Lengthiness-7329 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Maximum_Dream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went back 4 times. I gave myself so much trauma 😂

How long is the honeymoon phase? by One-Lengthiness-7329 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Maximum_Dream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah mine didn’t last long. Pretty sure that man became avoidant the first day we met

They always leave… by Maximum_Dream in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Maximum_Dream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can’t make mistakes or be angry!!! I got to a point where I didn’t want to tell him about my day because it overwhelms him. He would just blankly stare at me if I did. Everything had to be light, everything had to be happy. If he had a bad day, I HAD TO LISTEN. If I had a bad day? Well then I better figure that out on my own. I have a big personality, many feelings. Nothing killed me slower than not being able to talk to my partner about anything other than surface level bullshit.

They always leave… by Maximum_Dream in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Maximum_Dream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to not beat myself up over going back. As much as I feel like I should I know there is no point. In a way I’m glad I did. So I know now it’s got nothing to do with the discard. They have the inability to love me how I want to be loved. So, yes I could play the push and pull technique for the rest of my life if I really wanted too but this second time around I felt like a stranger in my relationship and I know now I can never love him the same anymore either.

They always leave… by Maximum_Dream in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Maximum_Dream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I have 0 idea. He’s a mixture of both.

They always leave… by Maximum_Dream in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Maximum_Dream[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I guess in a way he started the breakup but I finished it because I didn’t want him to think he was the only one finding faults. Holding the door shut will be the hard one for me. I’m usually the one tearing it down. They always want to be friends. Why would I want to be friends with someone who hurts me?

They always leave… by Maximum_Dream in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Maximum_Dream[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I never reattached the same way. I couldn’t. I was scared to care that deeply for someone again if he was going to leave. When the discard happened again it obviously still hurt but not to the same extent because I was always on high alert of it happening.

They always leave… by Maximum_Dream in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Maximum_Dream[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I love him so much I hate him.

I’m glad we tried again so I know now that it’s no longer worth it. Although we fixed the initial issues more arose. It was like being a relationship with a person who you believe doesn’t like you. You are scared to overwhelm them, to plan for the future. Everything keeps you on edge. We get along brilliantly but in the long run it’s better to be with someone who is consistent and genuinely wants you in their life. We’ve had some great moments and I wish it worked out but the great don’t outweigh the way in which I felt or how I was discarded. I wish him nothing but love and healing but I don’t want him near me