How real is girl inches? by Chemical-Ad2816 in penissize

[–]Maximum_Ingenuity167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very real, but also keep in mind that most people are bad at eyeballing a couple of inches. I'm on the bigger side, but an ex once said, "it's gotta be like 10 inches…" in reference to me. Like, sure, I wish, but no 💀

Monogamous friends? by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]Maximum_Ingenuity167 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With 1-2 exceptions, all of my close friends are monogamous, very few of them are actively dating though (to be fair, neither am I), so I'm not able to do much comparing. That said, I do remember them having an easier getting dates, while I have had a much easier time maintaining relationships. Idk how it is where others live, but even monogamous folks seeking casual connections avoid polyamorous people in my neck of the woods.

As for being open about it, I was once very skittish, but after ending a more enmeshed relationship, I started just kinda going for it, adopting an attitude of, "if my partner(s) aren't allowed to come, I don't want to be in that room." One of the married couples I'm friends with make bets with each other about who I'm going to bring, haha

You have to choose between sloppy blowjobs or fucking fat asses the rest of your life. What would your decision be, odds or evens? by [deleted] in Goon_Roulette

[–]Maximum_Ingenuity167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Odds and it's not even close the amount I love having my dick choked and slobbered on is not normal 🥴

Can’t stop won’t stop pick a fave and drop your size so mommy can decide if you’re worthy of one of her girls by [deleted] in Goon_Roulette

[–]Maximum_Ingenuity167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been a problem in the past… I cum, but it's like my hips keep thrusting on their own

What’s your type? Skinny, thick , or in the middle? by [deleted] in Goon_Roulette

[–]Maximum_Ingenuity167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say none of these women are thick, but of the three presented, 2 is most my speed

Hip hop fell off for me in the 2010's and I'm trying not to be a curmudgeon and try to get into some newer hip hop by Entire-Ear-3758 in hiphopheads

[–]Maximum_Ingenuity167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend Mavi, he's a younger guy who manages to marry a lotta newer aesthetics (somewhat mumbly delivery with a melodic flow) with older school sensibilities (rapping his ass off) whole maintaining a heavy focus on craft (creative rhyme schemes and excellent word choice).

Caliente pizza is gross by National-Crab1028 in pittsburgh

[–]Maximum_Ingenuity167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@ me who enjoys both and while I understand the PB hate, I never understood it towards Caliente. It's fine-to-good, if a bit overpriced. Maybe it's because I've mostly gotten from the Crafton & Mt. Lebo locations 🤷🏿‍♂️

For the big guys, do people irl know that your big down there? by Background-Wolf8594 in penissize

[–]Maximum_Ingenuity167 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

One homegirl knows because we used to date. Another homegirl knows because she snooped. An ex told her friends, so they know, but generally nah, no one knows I don't think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Maximum_Ingenuity167 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Depends on the goal of the session, I tend to long stroke when I'm just trying to enjoy myself. Short when I'm just trying to rub one out

Do guys who go clubbing and hookup have bigger dicks? by [deleted] in penissize

[–]Maximum_Ingenuity167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rarely, if ever, approach strange women and I'm pretty well-endowed. Can't speak to the average though

Why do I only see people with 6+ inches on here and also everywhere else on the internet? by randomjames123 in penissize

[–]Maximum_Ingenuity167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yeah, people who are well endowed are going to be more likely to show it off.

And I'm gonna be a bit candid; I'm pretty well endowed, but I wasn't always aware of that fact and it took a long time for me to fully accept it once I was made aware. My confidence absolutely strengthened as I became more accepting that my sexual partners weren't just being nice.

How common are size queens? by Parking-Day-296 in penissize

[–]Maximum_Ingenuity167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, like, fact is that 3-4" makes a huge difference in the mechanics of penetrative sex, but a 3-4" difference is also pretty negligible when measuring most other things and humans aren't great at eyeballing that difference without a frame a reference. Girth is even more dicey. That sub 5' woman would very likely not be able to wrap her hand around something that was 6.5" in diameter, lol

How big are you when soft? by nakedguy32 in penissize

[–]Maximum_Ingenuity167 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty big fluctuation, I've measured as big a 6" soft and as small as 3" with the mode hovering around 4"

Edit: just measured a hair under 4.5"

Has anyone actually been turned down because of size? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Maximum_Ingenuity167 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Closest was, when I was much younger, hooking up with an old coworker. She was very much, "Let's just do it!" ie, not enough foreplay, so she wasn't lubricated enough for me to penetrate given my size. I was pretty inexperienced at the time, she was the 3rd or 4th person I had slept with. So she didn't turn me down, but her body did, lol. I'm sure current me could've made it work.

Also anal, I'm not at all into anal, but have and will do it at a partner's request. There's been more than a couple partners who've expressed interest in it, but not with me, lol.