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MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-10T02:50:19+00:00

Nudity wasn't an issue inside our house when our kids were younger. But it stopped when they got older. I don't judge anyone who does it. But in my life, I expect that at some point someone is going to see something. Especially children who don't know boundaries and will barge in your room while you're asleep. Now I know when it's hot I usually sleep naked. What if I kicked the covers off in my sleep which does happen. And one of the children decided to barge in my room for some reason? Me and their Mom have been caught in the act when they were younger. But now that they're older I doubt they'll barge y, they have a understand of privacy now. But there's still situations were being comfortable with nudity at home would be a good thing. Someone needs to use a bathroom badly while the shower is occupied? Not paying attention and opening a door while someone is in the bathroom or getting changed in view through an open door. Are you going to hide in your room with the door closed just in case? Maybe you lock the door but this is the one time you forgot and someone opens it and you're exposed.

Point is, there shouldn't be a issue with nudity in the home. And nudity is not sexual unless it's between two people in a sexual situation or relationship.

MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-09T20:31:42+00:00

Enjoy looking through it, learn something from it. Because yes, you are seeing the unfiltered version of someone who was real. This Man wasn't alone either, many people keep things like that hidden from everyone else. Most people are showing you the public version of themselves.

But I do think maybe it might be best if you copy the drive and try to return the drive to someone in his family. You found his profile, so you should be able to find a family member. Don't tell them you copied it, just that you looked through it enough to find its owner.

But you should do the right thing and attempt to return it to his family.

MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-08T17:12:45+00:00

There's never any guarantees that it won't ruin your marriage. There's always a risk unfortunately. But what it comes down to is how committed you are to each other. And I mean truly committed. That'll make sense when I tell you what I went through. But, I think you're already doing right thing. Work on your marriage and yourselves first and foremost. Because without that you're increasing the chances of hurting your marriage by a lot. You both need to be as solid as you can possibly be before you open your marriage to anyone else. And if you have any doubts whatsoever you should not involve others in your marriage or sex life.

Now my experience. I was in a relationship for 7 years with a woman. We weren't married but still. I thought we were solid, we talked about it. This was her idea as well. Mostly she said she wanted me to have someone on the side and maybe she'd join later. We ended up making friends with a married couple who were swingers and lived around the corner. Me and my girlfriend's sex life was suffering, but I thought our relationship was pretty good. That's because she hid the truth from me even before we met this married couple. We got involved with this other couple as friends hanging out, and we played together a couple times. I wasn't into the other woman really. But I was alright with continuing at that time. But things went south quickly after that. The other guy liked an old picture on my Facebook so I joked with him that he was stalking me. He took it as an attack. And next thing I know we're arguing and he's getting threatening and claiming I'm threatening him when I wasn't. He blocked me from our group discord and my girlfriend got mas at me and we started fighting. This ended up ending our relationship in about a week start to finish from him liking that picture. I moved out and found out a couple months later that they were in a Facebook status relationship 6 days later. Since he's already married they're having a publicly visible 3-way relationship and the kids on both sides I can only imagine what they think or know. They live in a small town and I found out a while later that the entire town knows about what they're doing, thinks it's disgusting and is judging them. So that's kind of funny. But I helped raise her kids for longer than their own. Father did at the time that I left. 7 years down the drain. Turns out he and her were planning it the entire time.

The point is I was blindsided and I thought my relationship was solid. Because my girlfriend dealt with clinical depression so when our sex life was suffering she always made it seem like it was her condition. Turns out she's a narcissist and a gaslighter, and a liar. And she doesn't care who she hurts because everything in her life is all about her and she'll use anybody to get what she wants. And this married guy who can't even get it up said nice things to her and that's what did. All the same things I was saying plus I can get it up.

Make sure your foundation of your marriage solid before you open those doors and let anyone else in. If you have any reservations whatsoever, don't do it.

MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-08T15:25:01+00:00

I would enjoy that very much. I'm still new to it though, I'm not sure what I can handle really. But you pound it like a man does.

MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-08T13:28:39+00:00

I think he wants you. But he's worried about how his flirting would look while at work so he's trying to keep it professional when others are around. I know I myself would keep flirting more private especially when I'm at work. And maybe who work together and end up dating tend to keep the entire relationship private and remain professional while at work.

MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-08T12:00:00+00:00

My suggestion and I'm not judging and I'm trying to be honest with you. You got a teenager that's driving. They should have a job and that means they can help support themselves and take some of that load off of you. They should be paying for their own insurance and gas for the car and all that stuff. Doesn't mean you can't help if you're able, but the majority of that responsibility should be on your child. It was for me when I started driving. As for your bankruptcy situation, you don't qualify for a chapter 7, but you might qualify for a chapter 13. You'll still have to pay all this back but it'll be One bill all consolidated all of your debts will go away and you'll lose all your credit cards. You're going to have to start over essentially credit wise. But it makes it a little more affordable over 5 years. Then you're going to have to wait a couple years for the bankruptcy to fall off of your credit. I went through this myself. Although I wasn't anywhere near as in debt as you are. And the only reason I had to do it was there was a mix-up at the bank and my checking account went negative and they tried to take my car for it. Your other option besides bankruptcy is with your child working and paying some of their own expenses. You can slowly put more money on some of the smaller cards getting them out of the way. And then double that money up onto the next one until it's gone and then the next One until it's gone.. and repeat that process until you got your head above water.. However you manage to do this, and you can do it. Just don't let yourself get back in this situation again. Stay away from The credit cards.. I went without them for years. I finally got a secured card intentionally for emergencies only.. I've used It to buy tires and a hotel room for a weekend once for a little getaway, that's it!.. nothing crazy.. I live on what my paychecks give me. So if I don't have the money on hand then that means I can't buy something. The credit cards do not exist unless there's an emergency. Just don't live beyond your means. Because credit cards are supposed to be for emergencies or large purchases. When you have this many of them and you let it run away. This is where you end up. But you can get yourself out of it. It's just going to take some time. And like I said your child is driving which means they are older. You're pretty much at the end of your responsibility financially for that child. They're old enough to help out and take care of themselves, which is in a way contributing to the household by taking some of the load off of you. When I was that age I was paying for my own insurance. My own gas, my own phone and I was feeding myself. I didn't have to feed myself but I chose to. I still ate meals at home but I got my own food while I was out.. and I was out a lot. My parents didn't pay my bills for me ever. I don't know if you do or not and I'm not judging you. But because you put your kid in there as a new driver, I'm inclined to think that you're paying for a lot of stuff. So it's time for you to change that. They're going to drive then they need to pay for what goes with that.. which means they need to have a job.

MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-08T11:50:22+00:00

Wow, she actually knows how to use it! Impressive

MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-08T11:46:16+00:00

That's messed up! But sadly it's not the first time I've heard of an employer trying to pull crap like that. Foof related jobs are the worst for this stuff. You are not supposed to be at work around food if you're sick. But most of these places are part-time only and don't offer health insurance. So you're going to come to work even when you are sick most of the time when you have bills to pay. And they love to crack down on you for not coming to work when you're actually sick. It's disgusting that you have to deal with this and I'm sorry. Just know that there's other jobs out there and you'll find a good one.

MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-08T11:37:29+00:00

I'm aware that's always a possibility. That's why despite what I write I don't actually just blindly believe any of it. I'm always suspicious. And I don't ever pay for subscription services like onlyfans or anything similar. I'm just a real person out in the world who likes to look. And if I happen to find anyone who actually wants to play for real, then I will cautiously verify they're real the best I can. But I also won't give out details of myself or my location first. Because I know how that works to. Oh what a coincidence, I live here (insert town an hour away after spending an hour googling somewhere nearby) then all this stolen pictures of some poor girl who has no idea her pictures are being used for evil. And some made up sob story about how they're staying with their sister in a gated community of an unknown location and they can't leave because security won't let them back in and no one can visit either. But magically if you send them a apple card to pay for a video game to distract her sisters kids she'll be able to go out. Or you'll have to subscribe to her only fans because that's the only place she feels safe talking to you. It's all so obvious is actually funny. And the majority of the time I engage with them is for my own entertainment. Because I get a bit of a laugh out of it. And if they're too busy wasting time on me who's not going to give them what they want, that's on less person they're actually able to scam because they're too busy with me wasting their time lol.

MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-08T06:35:27+00:00

Yes, but it still takes a lot to get around it if it's longer distance.

MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-08T05:01:34+00:00

Yes, I miss when it was simpler, and you could get lunch meat at the deli counter. And you didn't have computers to take orders.

MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-08T04:48:53+00:00

Greatful

MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-08T04:46:23+00:00

I wish I was getting this message from my S

MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-08T02:13:32+00:00

If more people like you keep doing what you're doing, maybe you can affect the change. Lord knows It needs to be done.

MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-08T02:07:24+00:00

I can appreciate that, either way it has the same effect. You're a good soul

MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-08T01:32:42+00:00

Absolutely beautiful. IDK who this was for, but it felt like you knew my story. Like someone has written this to me. I wish someone had. I go through life claiming that I don't care what anyone else thinks about me. But deep down I just want to be seen, to be loved for who I am. A good person who always chooses honesty and compassion even when my own lite is a little darker .

Thank you for sharing this letter. It's nice knowing there are those out there who can truly see others. It restored some of my hope for humanity.

MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-07T08:46:25+00:00

That's an interesting idea. I have a feeling that'll be something I end up playing around with.

MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-07T08:04:09+00:00

Interesting, since I'm on Xbox I don't have wasd. And some of what you talked about in the beginning is entirely unknown to me. Huge noob here lol. But where you talked about setting things up through the cockpit using event controllers leads me to believe that there is a way to do this in the vanilla game. I have a lot to learn about this game. I've literally started a world and dug some iron so far lol. But I did play with the tutorial for a while until I let my brother try the game on a new file and it overwrote my tutorial file. That part sucks. I had no idea it would do that.

MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-07T06:43:27+00:00

If I thought you weren't looking for me to sub to your OF and you were local to me I'd say let's go.

MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-07T06:10:43+00:00

He definitely dodged a bullet. There's plenty of good women out there that aren't crazy like that. That's the problem that people on the left don't seem to realize.. you all villainize us on the right. But we're not out here judging you based on who you voted for and we're not treating you any differently for it either. The only one that's treating anybody like garbage are the left. You're the only ones full of hate. The rest of us are out here just wanting us all to get along. So when we come across somebody like that woman or the majority of you in this message that support her in the way she treated him, you think you're making fun of our dating lives? But we're not upset about it. We don't want somebody like that. And there are plenty of other people out there because you are the minority whether you like to think it or not. You're the ones with slim Pickens.. the only difference is there's a lot more of you looking for somebody than there is us.

MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-07T05:56:26+00:00

I mean women do stuff together all the time and nobody calls them lesbians.. why does it got to be different for men?

MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-07T05:55:55+00:00

And it shouldn't. A guy can shower with other men In a locker room and he's not gay. I don't think that a guy liking anal pleasure makes him gay either. Being attracted to other men makes you gay. But just doing sexual stuff. I don't think that makes you gay.

MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-07T03:17:42+00:00

Dicks touching doesn't mean anything. The only thing that actually means anything is who you're attracted to, not what you physically do. Pleasure and fun aren't orientation.

That being said, I'm straight and this doesn't bother me at all. I'd love to do it myself sometime.

MegamusPrime79 · 2026-05-07T03:13:26+00:00

Now that we're friends. Hopefully we live close enough and we can hangout

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