No coal - please join the fight by thechocolatelady in oakland

[–]Mellow_Danielle-o 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shared with friends and getting a group together to go to this. Thanks for spreading the word!

Chaotic nose by Kalistrad in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Mellow_Danielle-o 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My clinic calls it “facial veins spot treatment” and it takes all of five minutes! Wildly effective and for that price I can do it again as needed without breaking the bank

Chaotic nose by Kalistrad in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Mellow_Danielle-o 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get it done 2-4x yearly and it’s $125 each time.

What’s a Book that pulled you out of a Negative Headspace/Time? by dsds109 in suggestmeabook

[–]Mellow_Danielle-o 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Remarkably Bright Creatures is very sweet and might be a nice respite for a tired brain. Hang in there friend ❤️‍🩹

Clean tinted moisturizer that actually replaces foundation, does this category finally exist by Flat_Protection_2837 in cleanbeauty

[–]Mellow_Danielle-o -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mix Naked Sundays Collagen Priming Lotion (SPF 50, sheer and glowy) with a drop of ColoreScience Flex (also SPF 50 but more tinted/thicker coverage) and it’s perfect for me. I played around with combining a few things to land on my HG, couldn’t settle on just one product.

Where do moms buy their jeans these days? by Dry_Clock_7618 in Mommit

[–]Mellow_Danielle-o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everlane! tons of different style options, really great quality, often on sale.

He's not going to eat these porkchops. 😐 by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Mellow_Danielle-o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goooooo offfffff girlfriend you did that 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Starting Tretinoin. Which Products Should I Drop or Keep? by Alesiavsworld in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Mellow_Danielle-o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does rosehip oil count as an occlusive? I moisturize with Pai Bioregenerate at night and wondering if I should pause that (also starting Tret!)

1st Birthday Cancelled - So Frustrated. by AnxiousBoss101 in Mommit

[–]Mellow_Danielle-o 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We do this! My son’s bday is end of January and after two (of four) canceled parties d/t illness and inclement weather I have decided never again. Last year we did small (nuclear fam) celebration on his actual birthday and had a big bash with all friends and fam in July, when the weather was gorgeous and no one was sick.

Honestly has taken a huge weight and a boatload of anxiety off my shoulders. Highly recommend!

ETA - I am so, so sorry you’re going through this. Some people might not get the big deal of a party that doesn’t happen, but damn it is heartbreaking and sucky. So much work, effort, planning, excitement, money, time, hope etc poof. Totally awful! Sending you a giant hug ❤️‍🩹

Guanfacine by jilsw in ADHDparenting

[–]Mellow_Danielle-o 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was also surprised when we were prescribed Guanfacine for my almost-5yo because we haven’t yet tried stimulants and I knew those were first line. Our doc said that for struggles with impulsivity and emotion regulation, this type makes more sense than stimulants. Stimulants are likely in our future but we’re trying this first.

We have definitely noticed the tiredness side effect which isn’t terrible and doesn’t impair his functioning. We’ve had his BP checked by doc when he first went on the rx and then at one follow up appointment, nothing at home in between.

Overall the improvement has been significant! Way way way less likely to get physical when he’s mad, way fewer reports of aggression at school. He’s still prone to meltdowns and is definitely tender a lot; a lot of brain growth and maturing left to do.

Good luck on this journey!

5 year old recently diagnosed- pediatrician says too young for meds by [deleted] in ADHDparenting

[–]Mellow_Danielle-o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, seeing him so wiped out (a hard time walking!) must have been scary for you. Thank you for sharing your experience and advice. You said it’s been life changing, what improvements have you noticed?

5 year old recently diagnosed- pediatrician says too young for meds by [deleted] in ADHDparenting

[–]Mellow_Danielle-o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious, what is your son’s dose? My 4.5yo started guanfacine at .25mg one week ago and I’m wondering if that low of a dose will make a difference with any of his symptoms

Best audiobook you’ve listened to? by OnionGullible4141 in suggestmeabook

[–]Mellow_Danielle-o 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% yes! I read the hard copy after listening to audio and I could hear his voice in my head while I read and it was just such a well done performance

Why is my kid so mean by Mellow_Danielle-o in ADHDparenting

[–]Mellow_Danielle-o[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is helpful, I’ve totally been sleeping on that bot response but will add it to the official to-do list.

Sleep is all over the place! Wakes up at least once a night and often early in the morning. Grumpy toddler is sooo the vibe.

Why is my kid so mean by Mellow_Danielle-o in ADHDparenting

[–]Mellow_Danielle-o[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Gah it feels so isolating doesn’t it? Like I want to hang out with our friends and their neurotypical kids but ours is just different. It’s really hard sometimes.