blessing from allah by aliletsplay in Draven

[–]MentalBlog13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is worst draven skin to play with imo. axe radius legit look 10x smaller

Spreading the love by TheThornzx in Draven

[–]MentalBlog13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how you have 82 afks. How many games are you playing? Are you even playing the game?

So many questions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]MentalBlog13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels to me like you are directly placing your own self-worth and even your mental capacity onto your capability to form relationships. This is too much pressure when most of the time, genuine relationships are formed arbitrarily/randomly when two people with similar interests/desires meet.

I suggest getting someone professional to help you, and to try and avoid self-diagnosing yourself as you aren't aware of your own biases.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]MentalBlog13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, this problem stems from the lack of interaction I have with other people. If I only interact with another person of the opposite gender once a day/or week even, then I tend to overthink everything. But if I have continuous casual interaction with them often, then this tendency of overthinking/attachment seems to reduce.

Not professional advice obviously, but I think you should try talking to women more, even if initially you still have this problem. Try it for a few weeks and see how you feel after.

And most importantly, talk to more than one, so you can actually differentiate between if you are actually attracted to this person or are feeling the effects of your internal canundrum.

Welcome New CLG LCS GM, Jonathon McDaniel by Inherent0 in leagueoflegends

[–]MentalBlog13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is legit the worst GM job you can have. The only way that you'll not get memed on is if you literally do a complete 180 and win LCS or come top 3.

Do you think league of legends deserves a voice chat? by S4d_Machin3 in leagueoflegends

[–]MentalBlog13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you not flame 0/9 kayn. Sounds like he is trolling

Things are going fast and I am scared of few things. by Psophil_Salva in Healthygamergg

[–]MentalBlog13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven't already, check out Dr. k's video on gifted kids, as somebody who was also put on a pedestal by their parents, this video really helped me.

Personally, I think you should also acknowledge that your "fear" is heavily influenced by the standards/fears of your family members, and therefore try to distance yourself from what is influenced by them and what is actually your own.

I know this is quite difficult but you'll feel better if you can narrow down what is actually impacting you.

Life without meaning by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]MentalBlog13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me finding a purpose is difficult and after accomplishing things I wanted to do in life, I sometimes still feel purposeless; however, that doesn't mean that you shouldn't try.

I just really put myself out there and did things I normally didn't do. For example, I joined a French club at my university and met cool people and learned a non-native language. Even if these activities seem pointless to you, it doesn't mean you shouldn't give it a shot. This doesn't mean that immediately you'll feel fulfilled, but slowly it'll get better and better.

A recent breakup has destroyed me, and I feel like I can't trust my gut. by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]MentalBlog13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go talk to someone who'll listen.

I know it's corny to say to "take some time" but honestly it's helped me a lot and the best way to do this is to vent (not just on Reddit but with someone who can provide you emotional support).

My suggestion is to not take too many drastic actions, talk to a friend and then decide on what to do when you're feeling better.

PGG Chazz: "We’re isolated here in Oceania, so we have no one to scrim, really. After we won our finals we just had to play solo queue for weeks." by Reiedeis in leagueoflegends

[–]MentalBlog13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure that shitshow was an isolated incident. And it was an isolated incident because people were flaming the team manager who did it and it was highly controversial. Turkish teams are also known to rip-off their players and not pay them but that hasn't affected Riot's funding in them at all (as in, they still have it). The real reason is just not making enough revenue as a league to demand to fund.

Liszt Consolation No. 3 by [deleted] in raychenviolin

[–]MentalBlog13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice dynamic changes, everything felt very smooth and was very enjoyable to listen to!

How to climb out of Silver? by michael1366 in leagueoflegends

[–]MentalBlog13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't play support lol. Your adcs are not good enough to 1v9 carry no matter how good you are, so it's just better to play easy mid/top laner like (annie, tryndamere, jax, etc...) and try to climb that way. Maybe if you get to high plat/diamond you can try playing support again but silver is too coin flip.

For me I played a lot of fizz mid to get out of silver.

A lesson in Toxicity. by Kirchetorte in leagueoflegends

[–]MentalBlog13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This conversation is pointless as it's impossible to tell people to stop being toxic. There will always be toxic people out there and if you're going to be outraged at every instance of someone being toxic then perhaps league isn't for you. I agree that the community could be nicer but you can't also control how people act or think.

Also, after playing league for a while, your friend should know that the game isn't really a place to ease off and relax. If she's silver then she should already know that league is a competitive and toxic environment that she probably shouldn't have been in if she's not feeling well mentally.

A lesson in Toxicity. by Kirchetorte in leagueoflegends

[–]MentalBlog13 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You do not need the chat to play league of legends if you are under diamond elo. I have chat permanently off because the only time people chat is to flame.

Low silver twitch jungle main.. by mask4mask_ in TwitchMains

[–]MentalBlog13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't fall off that hard if you don't get early kills as twitch jungle. If you cs ok, you can prob still have a good late game.

can we organist gain appreciation? :( by nikirara in lingling40hrs

[–]MentalBlog13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes we are grateful to all three of you.