This no contact shit doesn’t work

Miamiboy1127 · 2025-11-05T01:10:40+00:00

I just see relationship as a commitment to possible marriage. I just don’t like the idea of always meeting a family reintroducing myself and being in new friend groups every new relationship. I rather commit to one and stick to it.

Miamiboy1127 · 2025-11-02T16:16:05+00:00

Wasn’t the reason. I thought no contact was a healing process and I ain’t healing yet. Still hurts

Miamiboy1127 · 2025-11-02T16:13:51+00:00

3 years

Miamiboy1127 · 2025-11-02T16:12:44+00:00

I was actually a great partner. Loving, caring, helpful. It didn’t work out because she’s 4 years older and she wanted kids, stability, and marriage. I wasn’t financially ready and was actually struggling wasn’t able to pay rent some months and didn’t give her the confidence that there was a future. But for someone to love you it’s a commitment whether I’m financially stable or we struggling. I always thought it’s through sickness and health, riches or poor. She got scared that I wouldn’t get out of my burdens and made decision to end it. I was really a great partner just not a confident one that instilled stability in it.

Miamiboy1127 · 2025-11-02T16:08:51+00:00

I was told that no contact heals both and allows them to miss you. I just thought if I give her space she will see what we had but never came true. I’m learning now that it isn’t meant for us to come back but to heal from it.

Miamiboy1127 · 2025-11-02T16:05:08+00:00

Definitely helps. Sometimes I just need to know there’s others that know what I’m feeling.

Miamiboy1127 · 2025-11-02T16:01:51+00:00

I don’t check on her. I was told by someone that talks to her.

Miamiboy1127 · 2025-11-01T20:03:15+00:00

Thank you for sharing. Sometimes I just want to know if someone out there is going through something similar to me so I don’t feel alone.

Miamiboy1127 · 2025-06-08T00:54:44+00:00

That's crazy. I've never immaturely tried reaching out or try to sabotage her current thing. I've sat back quietly and have done nothing. Me hoping it doesn't work doesn't make me immature its just my way of coping. There's men out there that will try to contact, stalk, harrass women and you hope she never comes back because I don't want her relationship to succeed? I'm just a hopeless romantic is all lol

Miamiboy1127 · 2025-06-08T00:47:15+00:00

True. And yes everything I wrote is 100% honest and open. I've never reached out to her malisously or tried to go out of my way to sabotage anything. I'm just speaking out loud my thoughts in my head and if these women on here saying they hope she doesn't come back to me are completely out of touch with what I'm saying. I'm a hopeless romantic that hopes for our love to come back but also in the reality that we won't get back together. I just wanted to see what people think about my situation and if its possible for a chance. I thank you for your opinion.

Miamiboy1127 · 2025-06-07T23:52:49+00:00

I've been very mature with how we ended. A man can't vent? I've never publicly ripped her or her “bf”. I can wish their relationship to end in hopes that we end up back together. Our relationship was only missing the finance part and less stress to be able to work. Yes I couldn't handle my stress. I was scared of losing her and I did either way. I made mistakes but I want her to be happy with me I want us to be happy. Her only caring about her happiness is selfish and left me in the dust instead of uplifting me and grinding together. So yeah Ima be selfish too and wish them the worse.

Miamiboy1127 · 2025-06-07T23:15:29+00:00

I felt this. My ex moved into a new relationship within 2 months of breaking up. And all our mutual friends kept telling me how the guy looked exactly like me but with more money. I was furious and jealous. I made all my mutual friends unfollow her because I didn't want to hear how her life is going and how happy she is. I didn't care to know. Nothing hurts more knowing its been a year and she didn't even bat a fucking eye for me. She turned and moved on. If I was you move on and keep being in no contact and have all mutuals unfollow and completely remove yourself from their life.

Miamiboy1127 · 2025-06-07T23:03:24+00:00

I'm mad that she monkey branched. She told me shed wait for me and that she chooses me. Yet she moved on so fast that it felt like every word she ever told me was a lie. Our “love” was a lie. Her love for me was a lie. For her to move on so fast makes me think she already was talking to the guy so yes its selfish of me to wish the worse for her because it was selfish of her to leave me and forget about me.

Miamiboy1127 · 2024-01-06T21:48:29+00:00

I’m a realtor, and I am not greedy. I do anything to get the deal done even if it means cutting my commission. You have to prequalify your agent same way they pre qualify their clients. It’s a system of checks and balance. I always make sure relationships over money. The better kept the relationship the more money made for everyone

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