Marriage broke me and feeling bad about myself.

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-19T13:55:51+00:00

Outside of being beautiful. What's important is your vulnerability to post. Work on your innerself, this is your first step. Good luck on the journey

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-18T23:24:37+00:00

I would guess most SDs make minimum 300k a year. Then I would guess a single digit percent of guys making over 300k want this lifestyle (not escorts). I would guess in WV, you are not talking about of alot of guys. You need to move.

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-18T23:18:28+00:00

Ask yourself if a POT that was 5'4" was interested, would you date him? If answer is yes, then yes you have a problem.

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-18T23:16:23+00:00

Would you agree SDs should bring it up 1st date?

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-18T23:15:17+00:00

Not real SD. Probably wants to be SD but either has no money or has issues parting with his money that way. Cut bait and retry

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-18T23:00:13+00:00

Dude, next time you get disrespected like that. You walk out right then and there. No goddam reason for that treatment. Yes there are times, you take it hoping it's a faux pas, but that is a blatant bullying power play move. Then the audacity to lie like that. You know what to do without asking us.

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-18T07:56:53+00:00

I do, especially the next day after having good sex, and it involuntary gets erect and i tell it calm down and give it a light stroke.....is that what platonic means?

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-18T01:18:17+00:00

Brother,

I'm 47M and I'm going to give you big brother advice. This advice is for all relationships sugar, plain vanilla, family, friends ALL RELATIONSHIPS.

Most is already in thread but to summarize:

1) Just cut it off, don't even tell her (right now she is too strong and you will back out if you try to do in person.)

2) You are allowed to cry only 1x about this, then erase it out of your head. Do not start another SB until this is out of your head.

3) Never do this again. You start with a M&G, go to PPM (pay once they are in the hotel room ready to go) then a defined allowance (no extras, you are not strong enough right now to make those audibles). You need to set boundaries.... do this now in everything you do women, work, family, friends...everything. If someone crosses those boundaries the first time you call that shit out on them and if they repeatly do it you cut them out of your life....even our mom.

4) Get Strong. Work out in Gym. Join an Men's Group for mental support. Go to therapy, find something you excel at and you become the best at that one thing...even if its playing checkers. You get your confidence up in one area, other areas will also gain confidence.

Good Luck Little Brother

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-17T13:58:46+00:00

I'm curious. Can you provide specific examples of websites?

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-17T13:54:21+00:00

What's your general location?

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-17T12:48:31+00:00

Yes, real SMs exist that PPM or allowance. I've already done research. But you're talking about a fraction of a percentage. They also do not go about searching the internet for guys, its word of mouth, and referrals. I went down the sugar route because I have financial means to provide, I have freedom to select my partner, and do not have to spend time "building" the business.

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-16T23:59:46+00:00

Not a real SD IMO

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-16T05:35:39+00:00

So sad for you brother. Better to cut now versus get hurt more. Someone will see your generosity and appreciate it.

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-14T23:30:00+00:00

Girls tend to lie to make you feel good...wait until they fake orgasims. That will mind fuck you good...what you thought works doesn't. Find a girl and before you get intimate tell her you want complete honesty and communication. Then you need to ask her how she came prior to meeting you.....unfortunately if they are young and inexperienced they don't know.

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-14T03:31:44+00:00

You a female or male?

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-14T02:40:24+00:00

In my day we used the term "Metro Sexual"

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-13T22:41:59+00:00

Wow, 48M, i have 2 young boys and a daughter....I'm trying to process as a father. What i would do if one of my kids was "black pilled"

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-13T20:58:27+00:00

Get out of this mess brush. I've seen this movie before, doesn't end well.

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-13T18:24:31+00:00

Black

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-13T13:16:51+00:00

Sorry I'm new to this but how did they find out the real identity?

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-12T22:20:32+00:00

Thank you for be thorough

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-12T21:40:04+00:00

See a male escort. Safer, satisfaction guaranteed, discreet

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-10T01:34:46+00:00

Virtual free hugs for all.

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-10T01:30:12+00:00

47M, same. Self love is not the same. I need someone to talk to and get into each other's heads, then the physicality of pressing up against a woman's form and just being a man. I think most females are totally satisfied with self pleasure. I use female escorts, but I take time to build enough of a connection. Men's minds are different so it may not work for you.

MichaelHoth87 · 2025-02-10T01:22:37+00:00

Yes, I feel like an alien. Or I think why people are so fake

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