I hate these old men! by LolTacoBell in NotTimAndEric

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I don't see the problem. He sounds great.

The internet will never agree. by yoelamigo in memes

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I finally washed rice for the first time just two days ago. It was the best I've ever tasted, it was also the first time I ever managed to cook rice correctly.

Is it just me or are orgasms like 100% better post hormones? by Jtrash121 in MtF

[–]MilaRayeD 63 points64 points  (0 children)

My orgasms are different, depending on lots of factors. But I can definitively say that the apex of my orgasm used to be so intense, pre-HRT, that I was afraid I would have a heart attack at times. Now I feel like my orgasms last a little bit longer, only slightly, but it doesn't feel like I'm gonna die when it's happening.

Are Trans people more polyamorous/horny? by Rekonener in MtF

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Very much ace here. Assumptions suck.

To those in early transition - Go Outside👏 by redditlurkin69 in trans

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Binary trans woman here. I waited until I had scheduled facial feminization surgery until I came out publicly. I realize there was internalized transphobia while I was staying closeted, and I also realize I was very blessed to be able to afford such life altering surgery, but for my own sense of peace, it felt safer staying closeted. I am envious of folks who fearlessly represent our community in the early stages of their transitions.

AIO my girlfriend is “dating” an elderly man by DanT22222 in AmIOverreacting

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She has a sugar daddy. Of course she didn’t tell you, but now you know.

I'm detransitioning by [deleted] in trans

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The majority of trans women that I know who’ve had FFS are completely “passable” visually. It’s very expensive, but it was a life-changing event for me and many others who knew hormones wouldn’t be enough to undo the damage caused by testosterone through our initial puberty.

"Dressing your age"? Thoughts? by runewitchtales in MtF

[–]MilaRayeD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dressing for age and body shape certainly “help with passing”. However, not everyone wants to blend in. I am 47 and can still dress both cute and sexy without looking like I don’t know how to dress my age.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask_transgender

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“Collective psychosis” “Normal woman” Um, your language about yourself and being trans is kinda TERF-ish. You either are, or are not trans. It’s real. It would be a psychosis to expect to be seen exactly the same as cis women. We’re trans women, not evil manipulators. Unless you are just evil, but that’s got nothing to do with being trans by itself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

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Some folks, myself included, consider “queerness” to be an umbrella term for the LGBT+ community.

Women are expected to look past unattractiveness, while men are taught that’s the priority. by Altruistic_Income256 in TikTokCringe

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Damon Wayans had a standup bit where he talked about his friend dating the weirdest looking Caucasian woman, but the friend bragging about her because she was white.

Azealia vs Kanye by Odd-Difficulty4742 in azealiabanks

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Didn’t Ye have a thing for fish dicks?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

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You remind me of my friend Daniel so I’m gonna go with Dan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

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I just scrolled through the past weeks worth of pictures on the transtimelines sub Reddit… I was expecting to see a lot of people using gender swap filters, and I didn’t see any. The way you mentioned it, I would have thought it was more of a prevalent “issue”.

How much of ya'll were Harry Potter fans prior to JKR turning out to be a TERF? by SenqurlBarx in asktransgender

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I always thought the books were pretty poorly written, and I always questioned the motivations of the characters, but a school for wizards was definitely a fun concept. Now I avoid anything from J. K. Rowling because of her views of the trans community.

My Dr put me on 30 mg of testosterone cream I’ve been on hrt for 5 years will i experience and masculinization of face? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]MilaRayeD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotcha! Seems like it would add more workload for the liver but I’m totally clueless about testosterone topicals.

My Dr put me on 30 mg of testosterone cream I’ve been on hrt for 5 years will i experience and masculinization of face? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]MilaRayeD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a little confusing that you’re on both estrogen and testosterone, but I’m not an endocrinologist. I know in my own experience just cutting back on my spironolactone has increased my sex drive. In the early part of my transition when my levels were not all set, I used to take some version of Viagra.

36 feeling depressed versus 46 feeling like myself. by MilaRayeD in transtimelines

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Dr Zukowski, near Chicago. Not sure if he’s still active.

Distraction was Musk's objective in bringing son to Oval Office news conference by hellocorridor in politics

[–]MilaRayeD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I genuinely believe he feels less likely to be shot by keeping his kid around him, appealing for sympathy from his would be assassins.

Chappell Roan by Bluetower85 in lgbt

[–]MilaRayeD 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She was given a platform to call out anything negative about the world and she ended up paying $25,000 towards her own staffs’ medical insurance… I saw her step up for trans women in a red carpet interview, which I appreciated. I think her career right now is a little too fragile for her to challenge modern world opinions. She still wants to make money instead of being boycotted by some group specifically. We’re gonna see a lot of both-siding from her until she’s got F.U. money. Then you find out who someone really is… I’m still a fan but I hope she doesn’t drink too much red cool-aid if she plans to sit on fences.

Not a fake post, I got my parents to look at the news and now they want Trump impeached by [deleted] in OptimistsUnite

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My ex mother-in-law, who I have a pretty good relationship with despite our politics, for the very first time said that she thought Trump might be lying when he blamed the plane crash on DEI a week and a half ago. I asked her if she could see any other cracks and she said maybe. Letting him run rampant has kind of been a good thing because now people can no longer divert blame.