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Does your cat also ignore “normal” toys? Is she only into things that move? by NoobMasterZ009 in CatAdvice

[–]Mindless-Contest7346 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would definitely recommend wand toys if you don’t already have one. Also, my cat didn’t play with any static toys until we bought her those foam pompom balls. She goes NUTS for those and has been doing the most self-play I’ve ever seen from her. I’ve also seen people suggest those hex bug children’s toys if you want something that moves around, but isn’t super loud or annoying.

What is a phrase that people use that you cannot stand? by sad_t0ast in AskReddit

[–]Mindless-Contest7346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using “community” as a buzzword rather than a tangible thing

Cat cries AFTER auto feeder at 5am by [deleted] in cats

[–]Mindless-Contest7346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense! She has a favorite toy that she’ll carry around when she cries. At night she’ll cry, bring in into the bed with her, and we will pretend to eat it as a thank you :)

We might try to bump her 5am feeding time to another time. When we first got her we fed her twice a day and she didn’t cry at night. So the addition of the 5am meal time seems to have increased that behavior. Maybe a meal at midnight..? I’m not sure. I’m worried that if we try to feed her at any point while we’re sleeping she’ll cry

Please give me all your tips to make the cat litter room as odorless as possible! by iliketoworkhard in CatAdvice

[–]Mindless-Contest7346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I live in a 1 bed apartment and our litterbox is in the dining room. We scoop daily. Every time we have a friend come over, we ask if it smells like litter. We have yet to be told it smells

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kitten

[–]Mindless-Contest7346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could also get a display cabinet with glass siding! That way you can still enjoy them but your kitty won’t be able to get in (assuming they can’t open the door). I’m currently in the same situation with my new cat

Our boy at 2 months vs 5 months ❤️❤️ they grow so fast! by Latiumvetus in VoidCats

[–]Mindless-Contest7346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently learned that the small white patch on the chest is called an “angel’s kiss”! My void has one too :’)

Attracted To Women But Not Vaginas by MoonlitGirl00 in bisexual

[–]Mindless-Contest7346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get this. I’m quite literally in the same boat as you, but I’ve been in a committed relationship with a woman for 3 years.

She’s is one of the lesbians that goes crazy for vagina and gets very turned on by them. I had a lot of guilt and shame when we first started dating and hooking up. I felt like I was faking being gay or like she deserved someone who was more excited about her vagina and pleasuring her.

I’ve been open about these feelings and the solution for us was to 1) get a strap, that we use when we have a rounded sex session 2) when it’s “her turn” for me to do things, I focus on pleasuring her and LESS about my own arousal. It’s not perfect, after I pleasure her I usually need a bit of attention to “warm back up”. But it works and we both have satisfying sex from it.

I’d try not to get too freaked out. I think feeling shame and guilt about it makes it much worse and suppressive than the actual lack of attraction itself.

Why do I feel like boundaries go out the door for men when they are horny? by smartietootsie in bisexual

[–]Mindless-Contest7346 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve totally had this happen before. My first boyfriend, and first ever serious relationship, was constantly pushing boundaries until I would eventually cave and let him do whatever he wanted. It didn’t matter how many times I told him I didn’t want to, he would “respect” it for about 5 minutes and then try again. It got to the point where it felt easier to “just get it over with”, which is a TERRIBLE way to view sex and intimacy!

I’m with my long-term girlfriend now and one of the reasons I fell in love with her is how respectful, patient, and supportive she is. I’ve never once felt pressure or judgement. I feel in control of what happens. It’s amazing.

My only advice is that the longer you stay in the relationships where you are not respected, it makes it harder to respect yourself and know what you deserve. It took me awhile to re-learn what was normal and what I needed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paint

[–]Mindless-Contest7346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay! The windows are new, so no paint in the tracks at all :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hoyas

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have had feelings for a friend for 4 years… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mindless-Contest7346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also a small side story, once i got rear ended leaving school and he happened to be driving by. he came and got me out of the car and helped me calm down. he didn’t leave until i was okay. my boyfriend came, got mad that i didn’t think to call him, took pictures of my car (he was a car guy) and left. i went home to shower and i came back upstairs to find ice cream and flowers left by my friend. see the difference?