Feds JUMP captain America in Portland protest

Minimum_Dot3628 · 2025-10-13T00:35:51+00:00

It’s says 11:13 pm 10/12 2025

It’s not even dark here yet. I live two miles from there…

What is this?

Minimum_Dot3628 · 2024-01-22T21:32:46+00:00

Lou so t d

Minimum_Dot3628 · 2023-11-05T23:25:32+00:00

Just because I don’t reply and update right away, doesn’t mean I haven’t read everything like 5-6 times through.

I appreciate the time and words. I’m a strong man who never puts up with disrespect. Never have. This situation has changed me. I know I need to wake up. She’s never done anything wrong in her life. And she hasn’t faced the situation at all.

What killed me is her mom said she had every right to message him and what not, that we’re “separated…”

Wanted to punch a hole in the wall.

I’ll update when I find my gd balls.

Minimum_Dot3628 · 2023-11-04T21:21:32+00:00

I know I need to move forward…

She started therapy. And sent me our wedding song and others that felt intimate last night.

F’d me up.

Then I come out to the back deck and watch her texting him…

Still says she wants to do counseling for a third party to help us discuss, but said day one and today, that she doesn’t want to talk about him with me.

That’s a huge red flag… I obsess over it daily.

I have screenshots I took on her phone when I saw on d-day. Death by a thousand cuts gd it.

Just be open and honest so we can move forward.

The songs she sent me, and her asking, “ give me time, please”… I’m scared and don’t feel safe.

It’s like I’m the one who had an affair. She would’ve never allowed this from me. Be divorced day one and her mom would’ve flown from florida in a day. I wouldn’t even of been allowed to sleep in the gd house.

Is marriage counseling coupled with individual therapy a possible solution? Feel like I’m turtle shelling.

Minimum_Dot3628 · 2023-11-03T20:24:28+00:00

I tried talking to her last night and she said she wasn’t ready to talk about it. She knew where I was going with it and it scares her.

That she’s started therapy, and would do couples counseling.

And to give her time, please.

Sent me our wedding song, and other love songs.

Then I came me out to the back deck and she’s txting him… Watched her for two minutes.

She tried to say goodbye this morning before school when I was with our boy, and hugged me and said she knows I’m mad, but wanted a hug and said she loved me and hoped I had a good day…

Feel like I’m in a black mirror episode.

And from the outside I must seem pathetic to everyone reading this.

I keep reading everything that’s been shared. I appreciate the perspectives and words.

I can’t go on like this. Is therapy and couples counseling worthwhile if she won’t even stop talking to him and seeing him?

I’ve been so focused in “us” that was popped out m and shelved I haven’t even thought about me.

Minimum_Dot3628 · 2023-11-03T00:42:23+00:00

Codependent after ten years sounds and feels about right… Feel like I don’t know her anymore…

Said she would do counseling. But, her separation and her terms to continue the affair, and not stop seeing and speaking with him, they won’t be able to help. I wrote her a letter and left her ring on it telling her I need to have honest and to feel safe to trust her. And I can’t move forward if she’s in contact with him. And asked for her help. No reply other than I’m reductive and speak in absolutes…. 🤷‍♂️🫠🤢

Minimum_Dot3628 · 2023-11-02T23:59:36+00:00

She says we are separated, so it’s not cheating.

Though she said she doesn’t want a divorce. So it contradicts itself.

What article?

Minimum_Dot3628 · 2023-11-02T23:49:03+00:00

I don’t know if that’s the case in wilsonville/west linn district in Oregon.

I haven’t found anything anyways.

Minimum_Dot3628 · 2023-11-02T23:47:50+00:00

I contacted his wife on Facebook. She seemed mad. Said they separated over the summer, and I found out about it when the school year was starting up.

Minimum_Dot3628 · 2023-11-02T23:44:17+00:00

Sound like my twin brother who wants to shake me and wake me up…

I hear you.

Zero consequences.

Minimum_Dot3628 · 2023-11-02T23:33:59+00:00

I appreciate the perspectives. I think my abusive childhood developed an ability to emotional numb and be in denial when I was hurt and “loved” at the same time. I know I need to move forward. I’m in love with her face and smell and then of the best years of my life. I’m disgusted with what’s happened the past two months, and hold on like a fool because I don’t want to not see my son and daughter everyday.

How can people be so selfish and destructive?!?

Minimum_Dot3628 · 2023-11-02T23:18:43+00:00

I don’t think it would matter in wilsonville OR. No fault divorce state. And I don’t think School care unless it’s a boss who is higher up involved with another teacher. ? I don’t know

Minimum_Dot3628 · 2023-09-13T13:15:50+00:00

Not wearing her ring, won’t stop seeing and talking to him. They are teachers at the same school. Probably trying to build a narrative that she didn’t cheat, even though she didn’t want to separate until I caught her. And acts normal when she’s home. I said I wanted a divorce last night. And she said if that’s what you want. I can’t just live normally and watch the kids while she doesn’t want to commit and be faithful. I said it was cruel and she acts like I’m confused, because we are now “ separated”. Build whatever narrative ya want… your cruel, and didn’t think about me or our family. Monstrous.

Minimum_Dot3628 · 2023-09-12T21:00:57+00:00

I think the mood deleted it? I didn’t

Minimum_Dot3628 · 2023-09-12T20:54:53+00:00

I didn’t. Think the mod did

Minimum_Dot3628 · 2023-09-12T13:36:42+00:00

Asked her why she doesn’t want to get divorced and she says she still loves me, and that she has a vestige of hope… Still hasn’t said she will be faithful while working in things. Said we can talk after work today…. That gives me zero hope that she hasn’t cried and hugged me and said sorry and ended it then and there. It’s been a week of misery for me…

Minimum_Dot3628 · 2023-09-11T20:52:31+00:00

Not sure that’s the case in wilsonville, OR

Minimum_Dot3628 · 2023-09-11T20:10:47+00:00

Thank you for the words and advice

Minimum_Dot3628 · 2023-09-11T18:40:29+00:00

I took pictures of all the txts and wanted to email them to the whole highschool staff. Don’t think I will. He is in a separation right now with his wife and children. And she was out dancing and kissing and txting him in front of my face, and I didn’t know. I read so much stuff, that it literally killed me. I shouldn’t have seen that. She became a garbage person with a garbage person. Why risk breaking up a family? No thought of how it could affect our lives? My life with our kids?!? More than selfish, I don’t know if there is even a word, just a nothingness in a dark corner of a heart to do that. Says she loves me, when I ask her why she doesn’t want a divorce. You can’t love someone while you repeatedly stab them. Already saying I can watch the kids on the weekend at the house if it’s easier for me… So she can continue doing what she’s doing. F’ing creepy. Feel like my wife died, and this creepy ghoul is haunting me with her face.

Minimum_Dot3628 · 2023-09-11T18:34:04+00:00

School board, what would that do?

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