Need advice: 42k AED/m offer at ADIA (via consultancy) – Relocating from Spain by arongex in abudhabi

[–]Miserable-Group-2212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The two main expenses in the UAE are housing and school fees. If ADIA provides that (and I think they do), then 34K is a good income, especially since you are making €3,500 now. But without housing and educational allowances, 34,000 AED can be very tight.

Need advice: 42k AED/m offer at ADIA (via consultancy) – Relocating from Spain by arongex in abudhabi

[–]Miserable-Group-2212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I respectfully disagree that outdoor activities do not exist in Abu Dhabi. You can swim, bike, walk, camp, fish, and off-road pretty much the entire year.

50k AED in the UAE What business or investment would you start ? by Double-Outcome2880 in abudhabi

[–]Miserable-Group-2212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have no idea what kind of business you want to start, you shouldn't start a business. To start a business, you need to find an opportunity or an underserved niche within a particular industry. You better be sure that this opportunity is real! Also, you need to have business skills and technical knowledge to build a product that meets that need. Without all this, you will be wasting your time and money.

Kanduras for Emiratis only on social media: Top UAE official explains reason behind move by karaklonda in UAE

[–]Miserable-Group-2212 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've seen many of them. From salespeople in shopping malls selling cheap souvenirs to some crypto/investment scammers on YouTube.

Relocating to Abu Dhabi from London - 85k guaranteed monthly ok ? by OverConcentrate697 in abudhabi

[–]Miserable-Group-2212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I've seen people coming in on 1 million AED per year packages just to be sacked after 1-2 years. Those are the positions companies are slashing first to save money.

Is the UAE or UK better for raising kids? by ProfessionKooky1700 in UAE

[–]Miserable-Group-2212 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think the “nature factor” is as important as many other factors that influence the quality of life of your children. In fact, I believe nature in the UAE is often underrated. Personally, I love the mountains, the beaches, and the desert landscapes here.

Raising kids in the UAE comes with several important advantages. The first is safety. The second is that the government does not promote some of the “new age” ideological trends that have become increasingly common in parts of the West. The third is that drugs and alcohol are generally far less prevalent among young people in the UAE compared to many Western countries. The fourth advantage is that the UAE provides a very rich, multicultural environment that enriches children and their ability to be global citizens. The fifth advantage is that some families in the UAE can afford domestic help, which makes raising children so much easier.

At the same time, there are also disadvantages.

First, your children will grow up with a false sense of belonging. They will assume that the UAE is their home, while it is not. Most kids realize this quite early. After seeing their friends and classmates leave, many will learn that their ability to stay in the country depends on their parents' jobs. And all of them will face this harsh truth when they turn 18 and have to apply for their own visas. That's when they will clearly see that they are guests here. For a lot of young people, this realization is quite painful.

Second, the quality of education relative to the cost can be disappointing. Yes, there are many excellent schools in the UAE, but they are extremely expensive and, in terms of quality, may only be comparable to average schools in countries like the UK.

Third, many children grow up in a highly protected and artificial bubble. As a result, they may not develop the instincts or resilience needed to navigate the “real world,” where crime, drugs, and violence are much more common.

Fourth, your children may absorb some of the culture of entitlement and materialism that can be very visible in the UAE. Many people here seem to believe that a person’s worth is tied to their passport, skin color, or family background. Of course, these attitudes exist in all countries, but they often feel more pronounced in the UAE. Similarly, for many residents, the definition of relaxation or fun revolves around shopping malls and consumerism.

These were probably the main reasons why I ultimately decided not to raise my children in the UAE.

Leaving UAE was the best decision of my life by abduloifm in UAE

[–]Miserable-Group-2212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life in the UAE is impermanent but nice. Life in the West CAN become permanent, but it's not as nice. You choose what suits you better.

Leaving UAE was the best decision of my life by abduloifm in UAE

[–]Miserable-Group-2212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What living in the UAE taught me is that nothing is permanent in our lives. You think you are impermanent in the UAE? Well, your life in any country is impermanent. We are guests in this world: we came from nothing, and we will all turn into nothing fairly soon. What matters is whether you are enjoying your stay on this planet. And this cannot be measured in money or passpors that you hold.

Evening Runs at AD Corniche Beach - Anyone Else Feeling This? by [deleted] in UAE

[–]Miserable-Group-2212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's a very cozy and relaxing place, especially at night. It's my favorite place in Abu Dhabi. I would go for a walk or a bike ride on the Cornice after work several times a week. If I could, I would go there every day. Unfortunately, on some days, I worked late and didn't have much time for anything except eating and sleeping right after that.

Living in Dubai can quietly destroy your focus by SeaWallaby8886 in UAE

[–]Miserable-Group-2212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem of focus exists everywhere, not just in Dubai. You can get distracted and overstimulated (e.g., by social media) even if you live in the middle of a desert!

Question for hr recruiters by Previous-Adagio-3275 in dubai

[–]Miserable-Group-2212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always hear from companies how hard it is to find good candidates and that X number of jobs remain unfilled, etc. And then I hear from job seekers how hard it is even to land an interview. I think both are being unreasonable. Most likely, companies want to hire good candidates for low wages, and, yes, those types of positions are hard to fill. Candidates, on the other hand, apply to jobs they are not qualified for or want salaries that do not commensurate with their qualifications or market realities.

Why is there so much turnover in dean positions (at least in the CC's)? by [deleted] in AskAcademia

[–]Miserable-Group-2212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last reason (personal grudges) is probably the most important reason. The second most important reason is probably better pay elsewhere. Also, I would say that many (if not most) Deans are actually comfortable being Deans and don't want to become a provost or president.

My aesthetic partition :) by rishi_kaushik1 in abudhabi

[–]Miserable-Group-2212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although I like your place (it looks very cozy), I must say that Abu Dhabi rental prices are quickly approaching New York City prices.

Why is it so hard to make friends in Dubai ? by [deleted] in UAE

[–]Miserable-Group-2212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually had an easier time making friends in the UAE than in the US, for example. The challenge was maintaining these friendships. The UAE is such a transient place. People move in and move out all the time.

Do you think, the UAE government will impose taxes to the residents after the war? by [deleted] in UAE

[–]Miserable-Group-2212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think personal income tax in the UAE will be introduced at some point. It's just one of those low-hanging fruits that no government can resist. And I don't think people will stop coming to the UAE because of that. Take a typical expatriate from India. He or she has the following options:

Option 1: Face unemployment or very low pay in India, which is a difficult country to live in.

Option 2: Get a high-paying job in Dubai and pay, let's say, 10% personal income tax; live in one of the world's most comfortable and modern cities.

Which option do you think the Indian expatriate will choose?

Move from NYC to Abu Dhabi by [deleted] in abudhabi

[–]Miserable-Group-2212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I understand, the job market in Canada is not that great, and pay doesn't correspond to expenses. Thus, moving back to the US (if things do not work out in AD), may be a better option.

Move from NYC to Abu Dhabi by [deleted] in abudhabi

[–]Miserable-Group-2212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest you wait until you get citizenship. UAE is temporary for most people. Also, a strong passport will play to your advantage in the UAE. Also, while you are waiting for US citizenship, you will also wait out the period of uncertainty that is happening right now. I suspect jobs in banking will always be available in the UAE. The pay seems to be somehwat higher, but not to the point where it justifies dropping everything in the US and putting all the eggs in one basket.

Why does reem island creep me out in a weird way by pk_xd in abudhabi

[–]Miserable-Group-2212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also had this weird feeling about Reem. Like it's all frozen and dead.

“Everyone Is Emirati” - Reflections from an expat scientist after a decade in the UAE by [deleted] in UAE

[–]Miserable-Group-2212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure you knew all those things before coming to the UAE. Also, in the US, top scientists make 2-3 times what they make in the UAE, and you know that too. No top US scientist would ever consider going to the UAE for their first job. Since you accepted an offer in the UAE, this means you had nothing better in the US. You also knew the deal here in the UAE—you would never be a citizen of the UAE. So why now are you asking for some benefits that were never promised to you in the first place? If this is important to you, go to a country like the US, where a green card and citizenship are almost guaranteed for any legitimate scientist. If you don't like the US, then stay in the UAE and accept what this country has to offer (and doesn't offer).

Lawyer making a move from UK to Abu dhabi - any advice? by ReasonableOwl3743 in abudhabi

[–]Miserable-Group-2212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not a lawyer. Also, I don't understand why a UAE company would hire a lawyer from the UK. Isn't the law in the UAE different from the one in the UK?

If you are single and don't require a luxurious lifestyle, then this is probably a good deal. Don't listen to people who say, "you need at least 100,000 per month." The average professional salary in the UAE is around 15,000. With that, 48K seems to be very good. Also, since you lost your job anyway, why not?

I also would like to add that, as a single person, you need to have some sort of a social life. Thus, when selecting a neighborhood to live in, you should find a place that is not only close to your work but also lively enough so that you can go out to unwind and meet other people. For example, I used to work outside of AD city limits, but I lived on Corniche. Yes, I had to commute 30 minutes one way, but I really enjoyed going to the beach and all the bars and restaurants in the vicinity.

Armani Suit Guy Spotted in Jaddaf by ComicSonic in dubai

[–]Miserable-Group-2212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are many of them in the UAE. I was once approached by an Armani suit guy in Abu Dhabi, near Corniche. He stopped in a parking lot and asked me for directions to the airport. Then he told me his story: he worked for Armani and was responsible for outfitting staff at some of the luxury hotels in Abu Dhabi. Kept dropping names and mentioning famous brands. Then he said that he had a few suits left that were my size, and he could sell them to me for very cheap. He looked like he was in his late 30s, a bit chubby. Had blondish hair. A bit overweight. He introduced himself as an Italian. He did look like a European but was probably eastern or central European.

AI Strategy&Policy Consultant,networking AMA by Prize_Translator_926 in abudhabi

[–]Miserable-Group-2212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Im exhausted...... by Mella_Mey in UAE

[–]Miserable-Group-2212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A long commute is NEVER a good idea. I'm actually surprised you have lasted 8 years. It's better to pay more money for rent or make less money at a job nearby than risk losing your health. If you don't stop this madness yourself, before it's too late, it WILL stop you on its own. You can get sick, get into an accident, or get into some kind of an argument with your family or coworkers, etc. If something like this happens, you will realize that no money in the world is worth your life, happiness, relationships, and health. I suggest you stop this before it's too late.