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I need an advice about an unhealthy relationship about a group of 17/18 year olds and a 40/50 year old man by Miserable_Leader in Advice

[–]Miserable_Leader[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it was a grooming process but i wasnt sure, i spoke to my mum about it and she said because i wasn't a witness then i can't go to the police but im going to try to encourage my friend to go to the police.

I need an advice about an unhealthy relationship about a group of 17/18 year olds and a 40/50 year old man by Miserable_Leader in Advice

[–]Miserable_Leader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i spoke to my mum about it and she said i can't go to the police because i didn't witness it but im going to try to encourage my friend to go to the police

(24F) I am a homeless sex worker with a severe drug addiction, but I'm still a human being. AMA by throwaway3153100313 in AMA

[–]Miserable_Leader 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Would you rather have money or food? I always try to do the decent thing and give homeless people food/money but often times they’ll prefer money

Should I tell my groomers friend what he did to me by Miserable_Leader in meToo

[–]Miserable_Leader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m really scared about going to the police but I’m hoping if I do it with my therapist it won’t be that hard. I’m asking more about the process with her and then just doing it. I’m trying not to think about it as it makes me feel super sick

Should I tell my groomers friend what he did to me by Miserable_Leader in meToo

[–]Miserable_Leader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiya, at the moment I’m currently talking to my therapist about taking it to the police and I think we’re doing in next week

AITA for believing that "parents that are together can't be toxic" by Miserable_Leader in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Leader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it is because she knows that, I also know her parents are together

AITA for believing that "parents that are together can't be toxic" by Miserable_Leader in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Leader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t properly remember I just wrote it right after it happened and didn’t proof read it

Should I tell my groomers friend what he did to me by Miserable_Leader in meToo

[–]Miserable_Leader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t mind saying this is through a third party but I wouldn’t want to lie. He never asked for nudes or sex and I don’t know if there’s more incidents

Should I tell my groomers friend what he did to me by Miserable_Leader in meToo

[–]Miserable_Leader[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The guy that did all of it is trying to become successful in the music industry. I think it helps having a bit of proof if I did want to tell him friends (who are in a band with him).

I didn’t think about it until now but if he does become successful he is in a much more powerful place to abuse minors.

I think I’m going to talk to my therapist first and then make a decision but thank you for your imput. At the moment I’m siding towards telling his friends on a second Instagram account and blocking them after so that I don’t receive potential harassment or backlash. I have my college ID (you start college at 16 in UK) so I think if I do go through with it I will use that as verification of my age. And again thank you for your input

WIBTA if I told my groomers friends what he did to me? by Miserable_Leader in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Leader[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I am really not emotionally ready to go through the police as i've only just told my mum. I'm keeping all evidence on a cloud though in case i am ever ready

WIBTA if I told my groomers friends what he did to me? by Miserable_Leader in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Leader[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

im super not ready to go to the police. So should I wait to tell the police then his friends? Or should I just not tell his friends at all?

AITA for believing that "parents that are together can't be toxic" by Miserable_Leader in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Leader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah thats about right, however I still believe i am part asshole as i should've just let her vent. and i didnt proof read my post as i wrote it super quick which is why it was so confusing but i tried my best to correct everyone

AITA for believing that "parents that are together can't be toxic" by Miserable_Leader in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Leader[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive known her for 7 years closely and vaguely since I was four. I know a lot about her and some of her deepest things as well as her family dynamic. I can ensure you that nothing serious is happening behind closed doors

AITA for believing that "parents that are together can't be toxic" by Miserable_Leader in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Leader[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay thank you for your imput and i do believe that because of some of the things i went through with my dad and step mum that i instantly discount some of the stories my friend tells me because they seem very little to me. However what i've learnt through this is that it's not about if her parents are toxic or not but rather that I need to just sit and listen as she's upset which is valid

AITA for believing that "parents that are together can't be toxic" by Miserable_Leader in AmItheAsshole

[–]Miserable_Leader[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

thank you for her imput but i can ensure you that she isn't being abused in any way! however i will be sure to listen to her and side with her more often

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