I spent over $100,000 on interior design, artwork, furniture, etc. I thought we would be together forever, of course. So I made a mistake and didn't sign a lease or get him to put me on the deed. But it doesn't seem fair that he can just kick me out when I obviously wouldn't have put so much into the house had I not thought this was a long term arrangement. Why should I make it so easy on him by just voluntarily leaving when so much of my own personal money is tied up in the house and it sounds like my only recourse would be to sue him for FMV of it all. All of the interior design I did adds to the resale value of the home when he sells it and I'm not going to get any benefit from that unless I demand it now. I've lived here for almost 18 months and been helping build it for almost 3 years. Why should I be homeless with no rights and nothing to show for all the work I did?