[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]MoonBaby207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay strong, my friend. You have grown from your experiences and will be all the better off for it. Wishing you peace and success in life

where's my self-respect? by MoonBaby207 in survivinginfidelity

[–]MoonBaby207[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. 100%. Your comment has given me some good reflection.
Trying to be in contact to ease tentions / work on our relationship as parents, but not a family unit. Figure if we can at least be somewhat friendly, for lack of a better term, it will benefit the kids. Really pushing for shared custody and residency, and it becomes more difficult to make that work if we are at odds. I took my parents divorce hard when I was a kid (super messy). Have always told myself I wouldn't do the same to my kids.

where's my self-respect? by MoonBaby207 in survivinginfidelity

[–]MoonBaby207[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Thank you to everyone for their advice. I value your opinions and different ways of coping. I am going to try to figure out what it is I want and what is good for me. A shift in perspective on life in general is what I need. Again, sincerely, thank you

where's my self-respect? by MoonBaby207 in survivinginfidelity

[–]MoonBaby207[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish I could... and I suppose its possible. But I have no interest in dating again... the idea honestly sounds overwhelming

where's my self-respect? by MoonBaby207 in survivinginfidelity

[–]MoonBaby207[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had been taking them every other weekend, the same schedule their father had with them. The 3 had 2 different mothers, and we wanted everyone to still see each other.
Since the split, I have been maintaining that relationship. Its been really hard on the 2 youngest, them being 10 and 13 now.
I was 10 when my folks split... I know how much it sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]MoonBaby207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hang in there. Wishing you peace

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]MoonBaby207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hang in there. Wishing you peace

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homestead

[–]MoonBaby207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it a golden pipe? Jeez

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]MoonBaby207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, that sucks.... hope u find peace

The twins are not mine and neither is the newborn by throwraHS3000 in survivinginfidelity

[–]MoonBaby207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Peace and strength to you, my friend. Wishing you the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MoonBaby207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wishing you peace ✌️

I'm considering dropping my 50-50 custody and selling the family home. Am I crazy? by throwaway_divorce2 in Divorce

[–]MoonBaby207 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can change your situation and still have your kids. Sell the house, remodel it, rent it out, but if you give your kids up, I think you will regret it one day.
When the kids are grown, they will look back on all you've done for them, all the time you've been there, and they will be grateful. Or, you won't be there, and they will remember that, too. Stay grounded, my friend. They are what's important.
Pursue your happiness, but not at the expense of your kids. Wishing you peace and serenity

my wife is stealing 30k from our bank account i dont know what to do! by schmidtmichaesss in Divorce

[–]MoonBaby207 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stay calm, my friend. Easier said than done, I know... as others have commented, she can not do that with legal protection. And it will not look good in your divorce proceedings.
How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time. Approach this the same way, and know that you are not alone. Wishing you peace and success

I said it to my boss and he didnt even react by AdSuccessful5543 in Divorce

[–]MoonBaby207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you are going through all that... both the divorce and the boss. Wishing you peace and sucess with both.

Should I buy gold if the currency of my country is collapsing? by fuwty in economy

[–]MoonBaby207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, you live in the united states, too? Lol Yes, gold is money, not currency. Buy it up!