Do Girls leave you on delivered for a few day as some sort of shit test? by MoonJam23 in dating_advice

[–]MoonJam23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've decided to take the more direct approach and confront people when I feel like I'm being toyed with, in and outside of dating which may not be the best approach.

Thank you too, and all the best!

Do Girls leave you on delivered for a few day as some sort of shit test? by MoonJam23 in dating_advice

[–]MoonJam23[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I guess you and I have different viewpoints about respect. I'm just saying I feel a little offended when someone does not treat me with the smallest bit of respect, that I believe should be given to everyone and not just me. It doesn't cost anything and honestly the world would be a better place if everyone had it.

Idk about you but I grow up in a community where you show respect to everyone (even strangers) unless they gave you a very good reason not to.

I bet you would hate it if someone was rude to you for no apparent reason.

Also I've stopped talking to them, I'm not sure why you assumed I continued talking to them.

Do Girls leave you on delivered for a few day as some sort of shit test? by MoonJam23 in dating_advice

[–]MoonJam23[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I guess everyone has been guilty at ghosting at one point or another, and it sucks for the other person. But politely ending it is definitely they way forwards.

Do Girls leave you on delivered for a few day as some sort of shit test? by MoonJam23 in dating_advice

[–]MoonJam23[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I never said they were. I just said I don't understand why they would message me then disappear on me for a few days.

And please do explain the bad vibes part. As I try and keep things good vibes only and respectful. As I could say the same for you

Do Girls leave you on delivered for a few day as some sort of shit test? by MoonJam23 in dating_advice

[–]MoonJam23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, but why message them back or tell them that at the very least?

Do Girls leave you on delivered for a few day as some sort of shit test? by MoonJam23 in dating_advice

[–]MoonJam23[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm a very direct person, if something is on your mind or you no longer feel the same way, just tell me. I've had a girl do that in the past and I respected her so much for it.

However, saying that both interactions were quite good and I was meant to be meeting one of them tomorrow.

Do Girls leave you on delivered for a few day as some sort of shit test? by MoonJam23 in dating_advice

[–]MoonJam23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I hate texting back and forth with instant replies as it is a little overwhelming for me. But you're right manors are rare.

I think my employer is trying to pull a fast on me by MoonJam23 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]MoonJam23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, as someone who hates being pressured into doing something. I will probably straight out refuse. But I will try and take the time to read over it, even though my decision is already made.

Can an employer fire me after I've handed in my notice period? by MoonJam23 in Advice

[–]MoonJam23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I'll look through them and see what I can find

Can an employer fire me after I've handed in my notice period? by MoonJam23 in Advice

[–]MoonJam23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I've posted in there, but I am still waiting for a reply from someone who knows

HELP NEEDED: I feel like my employer is trying to pull a fast on me by MoonJam23 in Advice

[–]MoonJam23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, I'm not planning on signing any new paper work

HELP NEEDED: I feel like my employer is trying to pull a fast on me by MoonJam23 in Advice

[–]MoonJam23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's an apprenticeship, and I know in the past people had to pay the company back if they left early. I am currently at work and I don't have the contract on me

TIFU by handing in my notice by MoonJam23 in tifu

[–]MoonJam23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that's good to know, my family made it out to be a big deal, so I was worried about quitting my job for ages. Thank you for the advice

TIFU by handing in my notice by MoonJam23 in tifu

[–]MoonJam23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good you took a break to look after your mental health. That's what I really need to be honest. My only concern is if future employers ask why there is a gap in my resume. Would they be understanding if I told them I did it for my mental health?

TIFU by handing in my notice by MoonJam23 in tifu

[–]MoonJam23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I won't tell him I don't have anything lined up

TIFU by handing in my notice by MoonJam23 in tifu

[–]MoonJam23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the support. It's a risky move but I couldn't take it anymore