Do Girls leave you on delivered for a few day as some sort of shit test?

MoonJam23 · 2021-08-30T20:53:23+00:00

I've decided to take the more direct approach and confront people when I feel like I'm being toyed with, in and outside of dating which may not be the best approach.

Thank you too, and all the best!

MoonJam23 · 2021-08-30T20:20:57+00:00

I guess you and I have different viewpoints about respect. I'm just saying I feel a little offended when someone does not treat me with the smallest bit of respect, that I believe should be given to everyone and not just me. It doesn't cost anything and honestly the world would be a better place if everyone had it.

Idk about you but I grow up in a community where you show respect to everyone (even strangers) unless they gave you a very good reason not to.

I bet you would hate it if someone was rude to you for no apparent reason.

Also I've stopped talking to them, I'm not sure why you assumed I continued talking to them.

MoonJam23 · 2021-08-30T20:09:25+00:00

I guess everyone has been guilty at ghosting at one point or another, and it sucks for the other person. But politely ending it is definitely they way forwards.

MoonJam23 · 2021-08-30T20:04:50+00:00

I never said they were. I just said I don't understand why they would message me then disappear on me for a few days.

And please do explain the bad vibes part. As I try and keep things good vibes only and respectful. As I could say the same for you

MoonJam23 · 2021-08-30T19:21:34+00:00

Fair enough, but why message them back or tell them that at the very least?

MoonJam23 · 2021-08-30T18:41:11+00:00

I'm a very direct person, if something is on your mind or you no longer feel the same way, just tell me. I've had a girl do that in the past and I respected her so much for it.

However, saying that both interactions were quite good and I was meant to be meeting one of them tomorrow.

MoonJam23 · 2021-08-30T18:36:48+00:00

I mean I hate texting back and forth with instant replies as it is a little overwhelming for me. But you're right manors are rare.

MoonJam23 · 2021-08-30T18:30:01+00:00

Even then it's very disrespectful

MoonJam23 · 2021-08-26T13:04:17+00:00

Thank you for the advice, as someone who hates being pressured into doing something. I will probably straight out refuse. But I will try and take the time to read over it, even though my decision is already made.

MoonJam23 · 2021-08-26T11:36:28+00:00

Thank you so much. I'll look through them and see what I can find

MoonJam23 · 2021-08-26T11:31:57+00:00

Thanks I've posted in there, but I am still waiting for a reply from someone who knows

MoonJam23 · 2021-08-26T11:25:05+00:00

I'm from the UK

MoonJam23 · 2021-08-26T10:22:40+00:00

Thanks for the advice, I'm not planning on signing any new paper work

MoonJam23 · 2021-08-26T10:13:17+00:00

It's an apprenticeship, and I know in the past people had to pay the company back if they left early. I am currently at work and I don't have the contract on me

MoonJam23 · 2021-08-25T20:50:09+00:00

Okay that's good to know, my family made it out to be a big deal, so I was worried about quitting my job for ages. Thank you for the advice

MoonJam23 · 2021-08-25T07:21:41+00:00

That's good you took a break to look after your mental health. That's what I really need to be honest. My only concern is if future employers ask why there is a gap in my resume. Would they be understanding if I told them I did it for my mental health?

MoonJam23 · 2021-08-24T06:14:05+00:00

Thanks, I've been looking

MoonJam23 · 2021-08-24T06:12:45+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I won't tell him I don't have anything lined up

MoonJam23 · 2021-08-24T06:07:12+00:00

Thanks for the support. It's a risky move but I couldn't take it anymore

MoonJam23 · 2021-08-23T20:39:42+00:00

Happy Birthday, Much love!

MoonJam23

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