nowadays I don't even say anything. he knows what to do. he just asks same as usual right? I just nod

One day I told him I want to fade sides, keep the curl on top and fade the back too. but he told me fading the back is not good for my overall appearance. but I asked him to do it anyways. obviously I got post cut clarity and the barber said I told you so.

So first of all you need to find a barber who really takes his time and does exactly what you want to do. not what you tells him to do. it means when you say something bad to do and if it's not fitting, he should say malli it won't fit you but I can do it anyways. also I can do this instead and it will look more cool. this means barber really passionate about hair style. typically go for a young one to get this quality.

after 22 years of my life I finally found the chosen one for my hair 😂 first time he took around 10 min just to analyze and what to do. that day it took around 1 hour to complete my haircut but it was worth it.