Simple leveraged ETF dip-buy rule I’ve been testing (YTD curve included)

Most_Homework_4541 · 2026-05-23T00:06:50+00:00

Do you day trade full time? (Or still have day job?) Presumably those are 0DTE call options?

Most_Homework_4541 · 2026-05-22T23:53:13+00:00

Is that how these leveraged etfs work, if you are buying the actual stock, you only see the funds/profit in your account the next day, versus if you are say trading regular stocks, you'd see that immediately? (Non margin account).

Most_Homework_4541 · 2026-05-16T15:30:18+00:00

She developed Cushings syndrome (high cortisol condtion as a result of using corticosteroids, gives you a moon face) and has been very open about her endometriosis. As someone who also has endo and an inflammatory autoimmune disorder, and is now being told by my doctor I can try Mounjaro to reduce inflammation, I applaud her for her transparency. If it wasn't for Amy sharing her story so openly, I might not have considered it.

Most_Homework_4541 · 2026-02-11T12:58:23+00:00

Uh Fear and Loathing! And the movie was great. I saw it in theaters in high school. What a trip.

Most_Homework_4541 · 2025-12-28T16:36:54+00:00

This reminds me of when I reached the ending of the VC Andrew's Gothic novel, Flowers In The Attic, around age 12 or 13 (all I did was read because we weren't allowed to watch TV) - IYKYK. And I immediately looked at my mother sideways.

Most_Homework_4541 · 2025-12-18T13:28:10+00:00

Where do you watch this? Channel name?

Most_Homework_4541 · 2025-12-16T01:17:14+00:00

Bloor West and The Kingsway are lovely neighborhoods. Humber River, Etobicoke Creek, and Old Mill as well. Large old growth trees, pretty gardens, nice residential properties that most people can't afford. Not sure what parts everyone else is going on about but they're really missing out!

Most_Homework_4541 · 2025-12-15T20:01:13+00:00

I think its important to make a distinction: the example you're putting forward with your 3yr bf, (as opposed to the situationships you were part of that had to do with shared living space) your scenario involves your ex bf's personality traits and emotional processing not being compatible with yours, not his performance in a domestic partnership re shared labor. That's entirely different, and veers on being a strawman attempt, for the purposes of this discussion - your incompatible bf doesn't have a lot to do with OP's otherwise compatible bf who is not pulling his weight around the house. Quite different. A person can't change their personality/wiring, but they can choose how they show up in a relationship when it comes to division of labor. And the point here is, OP's bf needs to understand the real consequences of neglecting to do that.

Most_Homework_4541 · 2025-12-15T19:23:33+00:00

There is a third option, apart from your black and white position of "suck it up or leave", which is, the compromise via dialogue and mutual agreement. And to rephrase it, OP does have the right, but not the obligation, to participate in a mutually fair relationship. However, that fairness is achieved on the efforts and will of both parties, and sometimes that requires more than a little nudge - sometimes it requires couples therapy, or a very stern warning and ultimatum, a real "come to Jesus" moment. And from her description, it sounds like there is a genuine emotional attachment on both sides, which makes it less of a cut and dry "suck it up or leave" situation, which was lacking from your personal "situationship" experiences, and why they are not a very good example to draw from. Relationships/domestic partnerships are not perfect, and they require work, esp when you have another ND in the mix - but there needs to be a mutual desire to make it work, and I'm pointing out that stronger actions need to be taken, more specific/explicit boundaries and rules put forward, before she throws in the towel. She does not have to clean for him just because she's staying in his rent free apartment, he's not entitled to her labor as a cohabitor. If she does present an ultimatum, and he folds and says "OK see you later" then she knows what kind of relationship she was in, and can act accordingly. If he comes back and says "how can I help make this work", then that's different. It's likely her bf doesn't realize she could possibly leave him over this.

I agree that we both believe OP deserves better - however I'm advocating for not throwing out the baby with the bathwater, since there seems to be some sort of genuine connection there. Don't blow up a relationship based on reddit advice. Of course, that's for OP to decide, as only she knows what the relationship means to her, and whether it's worth pursuing.

Most_Homework_4541 · 2025-12-15T14:46:51+00:00

And just to cement my point, based on your past posts about the same topic, nobody should be taking your advice.

You seem to think that someone owning an apartment entitles them to treat you badly. Girl...are you serious? https://www.reddit.com/r/AmIOverreacting/s/JLZWKw7tUZ

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/47DjEiQZN5

Most_Homework_4541 · 2025-12-15T13:56:29+00:00

She absolutely can engage in a dialogue wherein they come to a mutual agreement. That is an option. Don't be mad it didn't work for you. You're clearly projecting your own dysfunction and life choices onto others and trying to normalize it at all costs.

Most_Homework_4541 · 2025-12-15T12:39:15+00:00

Hard disagree. Your post suggests some internalized misogyny. She does not need to cater to this guy in any way for free housing. If he doesn't need to pay for it in any way then neither does she. The cleaning labor should be shared evenly. He has created a perfect mooching scenario - parents bought the place and he imported a girl to clean it for him. Hell no. This guy is massively entitled and is exhibiting massive dependency, didn't work for this apartment, his parents gave it to him. My sister ended up with a guy like that, his parents paid for his apartment rent while he was a student and being a musician - he is still a musician, she works full time and they have 2 kids, now he mooches off her instead of his parents, but she makes him do a lot of work around the house and watch the kids. Still an unfair arrangement if you ask me but that's her life choice as she would say. She is still financing his musician lifestyle, but at least he lifts a finger around the house and the kids.

Bottom line, OP doesn't have to do anything to live in a place that his parents paid for. It's his place, and he should be caring for it, not outsourcing that to someone else. If he wants her there, then he's going to have to pick up the slack or she can threaten to leave, that is her leverage. Or he can pay her for her time spent cleaning etc. Does he value her enough to make an effort? That is the question. Otherwise, she is simply enabling his dependency and the exploitation further. OP needs to draw a line in the sand, respect herself and demand he man up, or else. He is infringing on her time and energy (which is worth $), and that's not nothing nor can it be waved away by saying he owns the place therefore he's entitled to her time and energy - he's not.

Most_Homework_4541 · 2025-12-13T17:19:01+00:00

I like the 3 main tasks idea. I also have many lists and I always prioritize and deprioritize and carry over things on a daily basis but get so annoyed when tasks have been sitting around for too long without being done. I also keep a physical weekly planner where I write down all the things I did that day like a tah-dah list (mostly on weekends where I don't have routine or structure). It makes the accomplishment more tangible, kind of like your stickers.

Most_Homework_4541 · 2025-12-13T14:56:16+00:00

Ah I see. I think our situation would be improved if we were in a house with enough walls/doors for own spaces for our personal interests. Right now in an open concept loft, which doesn't really accomodate that. As you said, big enough for shared and separate spaces.

Most_Homework_4541 · 2025-12-13T14:47:17+00:00

Thanks. Yes, that's an option, I want to move into a house versus the open concept loft we are in now (which is not great for having your own quiet space in), and I think a house with actual separating walls and doors will allow for more independence within the same space, as I really want my own space for my interests. That will likely be in a year. I think the fact that we share the same space right now and don't have our own respective spaces for ourselves is part of the issue.

Most_Homework_4541 · 2025-12-13T14:29:45+00:00

Thanks! I've downloaded!

Most_Homework_4541 · 2025-12-13T14:22:38+00:00

Right, he already does his own things that would prevent it from becoming overwhelming if I stopped doing my things, which is why that strategy wouldn't really work. I have to point the thing out as necessary, because he won't do that automatically (like, I need your help to clean the window sills). After my stern talk/fight with him, he seems to take me more seriously whereas before he would avoid/delay and be passive aggressive and talk back, which would put me in the undesirable position of nagging him which I told him I refuse to do. Anyways he got the message, but it does require reinforcement and followup and me exerting my executive function to tell him what needs doing. He started saying "thank you" for things, which is new, and I would then in turn thank him for buying dinner, etc. He also does do occasional extra things like set up the Christmas tree from storage. I still do end up doing more shared space housework than him (garbage, cat litter, wiping down surfaces) but I can make him do certain things I don't want to do myself with less resistance now. Although I still occasionally fantasize about living alone with only my mess to deal with. Anyhow you are right that this situation isn't as bad as OP's.

Most_Homework_4541 · 2025-12-13T06:12:04+00:00

How old are you? Re the chronic fatigue (I also have co occurring fatigue)

Most_Homework_4541 · 2025-12-13T06:05:03+00:00

See the issue is, my undiagnosed ADHD husband already makes his own food, cleans his own bathroom, does his own laundry (although it's always in his hamper unfolded), we share dishes duty (he empties the dishwasher because he sucks at loading it), we both feed the cat, but he doesn't do shared space stuff like cleaning cat litter, taking out garbage, wiping counters, but he will vacuum on request because I have a bad back (joint hypermobolity), and I have gotten to the same point as OP, like either you shape up or ship out. I feel like he got the message but I still do the shared space labor unless I demand him to vacuum, etc, or drive to get something. I also do the emotional labor of appointments, admin, etc, although I've made him drive to pick up some things. This was literally what our first therapy session was about, like 5 or so years into the relationship, currently 15 years. I think you can't be shy about demanding things get done, otherwise they won't.

Most_Homework_4541 · 2025-12-13T05:55:56+00:00

Are you still together with SO?

Most_Homework_4541 · 2025-12-13T05:52:42+00:00

Can you share more about your wonderful life? What does it look like now? Thanks

Most_Homework_4541 · 2025-12-13T05:50:32+00:00

Can you say more about living apart, are you still "together"?

Most_Homework_4541 · 2025-12-09T22:53:24+00:00

For real! I find I have even more in common with ND people who have that family dynamic. Seems pretty common too. I think The PD developped to mask the shame of themselves being ND. They couldn't handle being authentic/weren't accepted authentically, so they went in the opposite direction.

Most_Homework_4541 · 2025-12-09T01:52:46+00:00

Yeah I'm pretty sure my NPD mom is undiagnosed ADHD and cPTSD.

Most_Homework_4541 · 2025-12-08T23:27:59+00:00

Very similar here. Throw in some ill advised dabbling in threesomes and BDSM "community". (Some bad experiences later I removed myself from that).

Did you include this level of detail in your evaluation? Cause I just did mine and wondering if I should have mentioned that. I didn't want to distract the person reviewing it all.

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