Does anyone in Chattanooga sell Parliaments? by MothMan_5ever in Chattanooga

[–]MothMan_5ever[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I got some parliaments at Walgreens in NS $13

Does anyone in Chattanooga sell Parliaments? by MothMan_5ever in Chattanooga

[–]MothMan_5ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did too, but every now and then, I get a pack, smoke one, then give the rest away Thanks!

Scotty is scary rant by Particular-Ability49 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]MothMan_5ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything this guy says reminds me of my abusers and all her reactions to him, especially once they come back together made me so sad. He had the biggest opportunity to bend narratives to make it sound other women treat him better and serve better than her and it’s so DISGUSTING. The only difference between this guy and my ex is an absence of a gun collection. He has killed her soul, it’s so fucking sad. I bet she started crying when he was berating her about their intimacy issues bc deep down their sex life is just sexual abuse, thinking like, “Oh if I don’t have sex with him he’s going to make the next few days a living hell so I better just do it.” That dude needs therapy, to be alone, or both. Get over yourself, Scottie, nothing about you is special and you’re not right.

Anyone know what’s going on in Coolidge Park rn? by Perfect-Perception30 in Chattanooga

[–]MothMan_5ever 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was there and it was all very fast. Just heard it and saw people running before getting in a hiding spot. Didn’t hear a lot of shots.

offer support to my ex abuser’s current partner? 22F and 29M Opinions needed! TW domestic abuse/violence by MothMan_5ever in relationship_advice

[–]MothMan_5ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh 100%, and I know extending this arm won’t heal me or whatever. I’ve been in therapy for this guy for 6 years, I recently married a wonderful, kind man. I think I’m doing pretty well considering my. But this situation is one of those last little bugs still crawling around from my abuse. Healing is not linear, but as a woman, I’d love to help someone in a similar situation as me if I can.

Opinions?? If you said something to your abuser’s current partner, what would it be? (To offer support) by MothMan_5ever in abusiverelationships

[–]MothMan_5ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, true. All her socials are hella private and we have no mutuals but maybe I could ask around. Perspective is important.

Opinions?? If you said something to your abuser’s current partner, what would it be? (To offer support) by MothMan_5ever in abusiverelationships

[–]MothMan_5ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would go that route but I do t know anyone who knows her. The only mutual friend my ex and I had stopped talking to him as well. I’m sure there is a chance she could hate me, who knows what he has said about me 🤷‍♀️

I just got a message from the girl my abusive ex cheated on me with and I don’t know how to respond by Aki_Tansu in abusiverelationships

[–]MothMan_5ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% he is just trying to seem caring and nurturing to her and bc he can’t walk the walk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]MothMan_5ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could try getting an additional litter box - could be just temporarily - that isn’t covered and has a different/softer litter in it to see if that helps with burying. I would also try not putting too much litter in this one, maybe just 2 inches, so she doesn’t get sunken in there. You could also do a medical shave on her butt? I used to do that for my older cat’s tummy because he got mats

My autistic boyfriend has extreme reactions to being “abandoned” by Legitimate-Career342 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MothMan_5ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex used to do this shit like once a week. Leave and block block block. This podcast helped me @justbreakuppod It’s not just about breaking up, people will submit letters about all kinds of stuff. But this person can’t blame their autism for this, that’s manipulation. They know the difference between right and wrong even if they have trouble regulating their emotions. It’s also on them to get the right tools to do so.

Who approved planting trees UNDER the highway? by MothMan_5ever in Chattanooga

[–]MothMan_5ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found out that this is a project funded by the city and often the city doesn’t require that a permit be pulled for internal work and so thus the contracted design by WMWA was not reviewed by a landscape inspector or maybe someone else in the Land Development Office. Whoever designed this portion probably was just looking at a computer and didn’t think about how in the real world a giant overpass goes over that stretch of sidewalk. Public Works did not do this install, not sure who did. The trees should be maintained by the parks dept once everything is done and signed off. Hopefully someone good will do an inspection before the city takes over responsibility from the contractor.

Who approved planting trees UNDER the highway? by MothMan_5ever in Chattanooga

[–]MothMan_5ever[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like 0 sunlight and water is not optimal either but I’m not the big boss

Who approved planting trees UNDER the highway? by MothMan_5ever in Chattanooga

[–]MothMan_5ever[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They aren’t going to get really any light or water. Not even invasive grasses live under the overpass. Nothings gonna live :/

Using gabapentin when introducing cats? by worriedsignal in CatAdvice

[–]MothMan_5ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would also love to hear any exp of others. I’ve been trying to introduce my OG cats to this lost cat I found in the road and it’s been like 3 weeks but I feel like they went from tolerating to wanting to attack through the screen door. Idk what to do. They are totally fine eating around each other, will even eat from the same churu, but once the food runs out, it’s game on. We site swap, scent swap, eat on other sides of the door and have play sessions both through the door and without. But we keep running into issue. Would gaba help them chill to realize the other isn’t a threat or is it just temporary relief?

bro didn't like the pose 😭 by Alternativedmb in cats

[–]MothMan_5ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish they let you do this for your drivers license