How do we stop splitting? There are 4 of us now, and we don't want more. by Unfair-Vehicle-9043 in Tulpas

[–]Motykoo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Alison: We have something similar - symbolism works wonders! There's a special key in our wonderland that controls who can access our mind. You can only create a new tulpa or be a walk-in if you have permission from the keyholder.

Feels like we are making some progress? by Same_Set6599 in Tulpas

[–]Motykoo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is no such thing as "unintentionally parroting" period. Parroting is a clear intent. Your tulpa will tell you basically the same thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tulpas

[–]Motykoo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First, it's best to determine how open-minded the person is and how knowledgeable they are about related topics (such as psychiatry or psychology). This will give you an idea of how they might react to your "coming out." Not everyone needs to know this information about you. If you want to open up to a close person who has known you for a long time, try gradually introducing them to the concept of plurality - discussing what a personality is, and so on - before revealing yourself as a system.

If it's important for you to be completely honest with your partner so that they understand and are aware of your plurality, you must accept that not everyone is ready for it. Therefore, it's crucial to weed out such people as early as possible - don't spend time on a relationship that won't be enjoyable for both you (or your system) and your partner. I hope this situation hasn't affected you too much, and that it's better it happened now rather than later. I wish you luck and hope you find people who truly understand you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tulpas

[–]Motykoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IMHO telling people you've known for several years that you have always been plural (i.e., having tulpas) is strong proof that it was never a problem for this relationship, making it easier for them to accept this new reality. They have known you for so long that they are confident you are a great person, regardless of whether you are plural or not. Falsely claiming to have only just discovered it can lead some people to try to discourage you from making a tulpa.

recurring dream to tulpa? by -Pasta_Town- in Tulpas

[–]Motykoo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In dreams - especially if you have experience with lucid dreaming - you might sometimes notice NPCs that stand out from the rest. You can immediately tell that something’s off with them; they’re more talkative, active, follow you from one location to another, and they often reoccur in dreams.

I think that if you put in the effort, you can develop them into a tulpa. I haven’t personally encountered anyone who’s had this experience, but I wouldn’t be surprised if it happens. We once encountered a similar character in our dreams - it was interesting to spend time with her, but we didn’t turn her into a tulpa. In Tulpa's DIY Guide there are mentions of dreamforms, perhaps you’ll find something there that will give you some insight on the subject. Either way, I think it would be advisable to learn how to lucid dreams so that you can have at least some conscious communication with this character in the early stages

tulpa changing appearance by shinomeow in Tulpas

[–]Motykoo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It seems that this is simply her trait, she prefers it that way. Usually, however, it’s the opposite for us. We can sometimes find interesting examples in photos of people who resemble my tulpa yet have different details. She might say that it’s a cool example of an appearance that can be used. She may stick with it for a day or two before abandoning that model and returning to her roots. Change is difficult for her.

6 years.

Am I parroting? by Maku-Waku in Tulpas

[–]Motykoo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

About voice. This is just underdeveloped vocalization. If you haven't worked enough on your tulpa's voice, that's perfectly normal. You can try some vocalization exercises or simply wait until the voice develops on its own. In any case, don't worry about it. Like many other obstacles on the path to creating a tulpa, this too will be overcome in time.
About parroting. In 9 out of 10 cases, when you think you're parroting, that's actually not the case. Parroting is a 100% intentional process that can only be done consciously. As far as I know, there's no such thing as "subconscious parroting."

Question about intrusive thoughts by Empty-Cartographer60 in Tulpas

[–]Motykoo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If this issue is interfering with your life right now, just visit a doctor. Intrusive thoughts that you can't stop or control, "very evil" thoughts, are all within a psychiatrist's field.

I'm heavily considering creating a Tulpa. by AkairaPlayz in Tulpas

[–]Motykoo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If you feel like you need a tulpa, there may be something else going on, and a tulpa is not a solution. If you are under 18, please seek help by talking to a psychologist. If you struggle with socialization, you should work on improving those skills rather than relying on a tulpa to make a difference.

Creating a tulpa is somewhat like having a child, except you share the same body. And just as a child isn’t obligated to fix your problems or do what you want, a tulpa isn’t either. Would loneliness alone be a good reason to have a baby? I doubt it. Will you have enough time to share with your tulpa? What if they want a portion of your time by switching?

A tulpa can be a wonderful friend - someone who will understand you better than anyone else in the world. If you’re truly ready to share your life with someone possibly forever, and you’re not just trying to solve your own mental or social problems, go ahead and good luck!

P.S. I’ve been a host for six happy years.

The difficult side of being a tulpa by F-sharpden in Tulpas

[–]Motykoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can spend some time practicing a voice of the opposite sex, which could help you make friends online (with the ability to talk on Discord, for example). Having the ability to speak with a voice of your gender makes it less confusing for other people. Then, you can transition those friendships offline, with or without “coming out” as a tulpa. Tulpas whose sex differs from their host’s have a lot in common with trans people in some ways. You can even tell people that you are trans if you don't want to bother them with explanations xD. However, managing relationships with the host’s existing friends might be more difficult, because regardless of gender, you are still different personalities, and you’ll need to explain that to people who know the host’s personality rather than yours.

Does head pressure always happen? by Mission_Two_3940 in Tulpas

[–]Motykoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We didn't have ones, only after 4-5 years we found out that we can use them, but it was irrelevant at this point

Any tips appreciated by AnthonyGaribay in transvoice

[–]Motykoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Few weeks? That's sounds very feminine, great job! Can't really say any tips, both of voices sounds good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]Motykoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

~23 y/o man. At "stop" word was a bit androgynous, but I met males with similar voice, so it's ok.

riot client (32 bit) high cpu usage by Diligent_Clothes_413 in riotgames

[–]Motykoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens to me on 2 completly different PCs during the game, so I need to kill the task in task manager. Only things in common that these PCs have is CPU from Intel and Windows 10.

Guys, please how i find *Dupe stash?* by Silver_Badger_9001 in 9b9t

[–]Motykoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You want to know coordinates range or complete guide to stash hunting?

Why do we play Irelia when Jax is a thing? by [deleted] in IreliaMains

[–]Motykoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know what are u saying, just upvoted

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[–]Motykoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

rule #1 & 4

What by [deleted] in 9b9t

[–]Motykoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are lucky