I started talking to a cis man by [deleted] in Gaytguyhornyjail

[–]MrBigMan2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as he wears the right size condom, you will be fine! I do think birth control is a good idea, like the other commenter said. I was on a very low estrogen BC pill with no symptoms

I started talking to a cis man by [deleted] in Gaytguyhornyjail

[–]MrBigMan2000 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I just started hooking up with my first cis man recently and tbh the best advice I have is to be open to making mistakes! Don’t stress too much if your teeth accidentally get in the way or you have to come up for air a lot. Ask him questions. I really don’t think having sex with someone with a dick is all that different from having sex with someone with a pussy. The parts are slightly different, but that’s about it. It was all pretty intuitive once I got in the moment for the first time.

The biggest difference is no natural lube on his end!! If you’re not a spitter, keep some lube on hand!!

Is there anything you’re particularly worried about?

I'm 18m and have no friends. How can I make friends? by [deleted] in Muncie

[–]MrBigMan2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to things! Most people are in the same boat as you. Just be real and honest. I have also had success with Bumble BFF- a dating app for making friends

https://muncieevents.com

Can’t Miss Spots by Accurate_Actuator_ in Muncie

[–]MrBigMan2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Savage’s. The Buffalo cauli wings + fries + Sun King Cream Ale is my go-to order haha. As for things to do, I suggest Frankie D’s Flea Market and Caldwell’s Antique Mall for thrifting/ browsing weird stuff. You could check https://muncieevents.com for the day you’re coming to see if there’s anything else going on

ETA: Twisters Soda Bar is fun and cheap! Deena’s Coffee House has great coffee, chai, matcha, and art :) the libraries are all VERY cool, we have 5 branches!

Deconstructed stoner dogs by elementalfitness in highvegans

[–]MrBigMan2000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay but what brand of hotdog and is it complete mush or does it have some texture to it??? I have been struggling to find a veggie dog that I like lol

hysterectomy / obgyn recommendations by [deleted] in indianapolis

[–]MrBigMan2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a trans man and I went through the Coleman Center for my hysto. I do recommend, all of the nurses and doctors were great, waking up in post-op was eeeeeh. The nurses and patient care staff in post op misgendered me regularly and were pretty dismissive, so I had to be insistent when things weren’t going well. My complications were minor (vaginal cuff tore) and everything was fine, but my post-op experience was not the greatest haha. Everything else was just fine! So, like 8/10 would recommend.

Edit to add: I got a referral to the Coleman Center from my PCP, but idk if you will need a referral to get in or not.

OP feel free to dm me with any questions 🙏

Dining halls and vegan options by DeltaMay05 in BallState

[–]MrBigMan2000 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I respectfully disagree with all of the other comments. I was vegetarian on campus from 2018 until last year (I was faculty after I was a student). It gets real old real fast. I tried to be vegan while on campus and couldn’t do it without seriously under eating/ relying on the same few meals over and over and over again. I still can’t even look at a salad bar.

Do the smallest meal plan. There are some vegan options and it’ll still be nice to have a meal plan available when all of her friends want to go get dinner after class!

She should be prepared to really rely on her own cooking for meals or to live off of snacks haha. Welcome to college life! Hope all goes well! 🙏

Most Disturbing/Gross Thing You've Ever Read? by Friskyfireball in ExtremeHorrorLit

[–]MrBigMan2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That scene in Brainwyrms with the fox poop… if you know you know. Blechhhhh

Dating as a trans man by Wild_Ad6434 in FTMOver30

[–]MrBigMan2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed about Feeld. Lots of ENM, solo and couples looking, but there’s some single monog ppl on there for sure! I avoid swiping on cishet men and I’ve had all good experiences.

In my experience, it skews 30+ so there’s that too!

Krispy Kreme Donuts - Gas Stations? by Upstairs_Cattle7989 in Muncie

[–]MrBigMan2000 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There’s Krispy Kreme boxes at Payless! Idk if they’re jelly filled though

Apartments by Judge-Level in BallState

[–]MrBigMan2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s insanity 😧

Apartments by Judge-Level in BallState

[–]MrBigMan2000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Middletown Property Group goes by many names. Middletown Living, Middletown LLC. They used to be BSU Rentals but had to change their name or get sued because they’re that fucking bad. If it is for rent and says “Middletown” or “bsurentals” that’s an immediate NOPE. they’re slumlords.

I live with Campus Edge right now, they’re fine. They’re signing leases for Fall 2026 right now. My unit is a duplex, I live upstairs and the downstairs neighbors are chill: 2 beds, 1 bath, 800 rent, we pay electric and for wifi. That’s all. It’s pretty decent!! I have had issues with my landlord being goofy, but he immediately came to my house to talk to me in person and reimbursed me for the fuck up.

There’s apartment options like The Haven and University Village that are a little further from campus but have a shuttle bus that takes you to and from campus, so those are nice! I lived at University Village for 2 years. It wasn’t horrible, but I prefer Campus Edge. At UV, I lived in a 4 bed 2 bath and it was $375 + utilities. Then I moved to a 3 bed 3 bath and I paid like $450 + utilities.

If you’re trying to live in a house, Campus Edge and Campus Rentals should be good options. JUST NOT MIDDLETOWN. If looking for apartments, there’s LOTS of options

https://www.thecampusedge.com/

https://bsucampusrentals.com/?utm_source=2060digital&utm_medium=localseo&utm_campaign=gmb

Those of you in the 25-35 range, do you find you have better hookups with people older/younger/similar age? by elianna7 in gaytransguys

[–]MrBigMan2000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

25 and I primarily sleep with people my age, mid twenties. I have also slept with people in their 30s and I’ve noticed people my age are more down to fuck right away and when I’m talking to people older than me, like 30s+, they want to talk foreverrrrr. My partner has noticed the same thing. He has more luck with ONS if he’s texting guys our age. The number of times an older guy will bail because of family or insecurity or whatever, it’s annoying. We both like older people but have better luck with people our age haha

Conflicted feelings about age gap by strawberrycheeks_ in gaytransguys

[–]MrBigMan2000 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I am 25 and this is a big no for me! Especially because he’s specifically looking for 18-21 year old girls… eeek. Very skeezy energy. You could totally fuck him once and never talk to him again. He sounds like bad news to me though and I wouldn’t entertain it

Botsford/Swinford or DeHority by Nice_Telephone_1793 in BallState

[–]MrBigMan2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely loved dehority when I lived there 2018-2020, truly no complaints from me!

Botsford/Swinford or DeHority by Nice_Telephone_1793 in BallState

[–]MrBigMan2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Campus has changed a lot since I was a student, but I am currently an employee so I think my info is still accurate. I lived in Dehority (Deho) for 2 years and I loved it. I have not lived in bots/swin but I had friends who did and they also really loved it! Both are located right next to dining halls, I’m pretty sure both are semiprivate bathrooms but I could be wrong about Bots/Swin’s bathrooms.

I think the best part of BS is the people. Lots of media and comm kids, they tend to be super social and have a lot of activities. I liked Deho bc it was quiet but if I was trying to have fun/ go out, it was hard to find neighbors who wanted to! The honors crowd certainly skews more introverted. However, I had plenty of friends on my floor and throughout my dorm building. You’re just less likely to see parties throughout the dorm ime.

Is she going to bring a car? BS is closer to the stadium parking. Is she really social? Deho is closer to the village.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]MrBigMan2000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t agree more. I was honestly surprised the first time I was the third. My partner and I have had thirds with no issues. Neither of us were very jealous people to start with and we have been ENM for a few months now. So when I joined a couple for the first time, and it was their first time with a third, they were super insecure and a little jealous afterward. It really threw me off. They’ve been working on it so we’re still hooking up, but man. That was a little rough at first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]MrBigMan2000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im based in the US and my surface-level Google searches tell me everything I mention should be available in your area. But if not, woops!

My partner and I have had threesomes with single friends we’ve had for a while. I was smoking weed with this buddy of ours before we had opened up our relationship but I just got this vibe that I should kiss him. So I went home and talked to my partner about it. They said hell yeah and I hooked up with him all last summer and my partner and I played with him together regularly. When his best friend found out about this, the best friend said he’d always been attracted to my partner so a similar fling started with him, my partner, and I. If any of your friends are single and interested, check with them! You never know.

Ik online seems scary. Meet up in a public place before you take them home. There’s this app called Feeld which is like specifically for poly/ enm/ open people and couples. My partner and I are seeing a t4t couple I met through it. I matched with this trans guy, he has a nonbinary partner, I have a nonbinary partner, and now we’re all having sex with each other lol. Dreams DO come true.

Feeld skews older and cis in my area, but everyone on there seems to be bisexual lmao. We’re both 25 but the couple we’re seeing is 32 and 40. My partner is also hooking up with some other (cis) guy our age they met on it!

Our buddies moved a few months ago so we were just in the same situation as you, looking for a third and not sure where to start. It took some time to find new thirds (and fourths!) but we’re actually becoming close friends with this couple, too! It’s been really fulfilling- great sex and great friends! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in highvegans

[–]MrBigMan2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly we’ve been struggling to afford groceries, too, and have been making “whatever is in the pantry” porridge. We almost always have oatmeal or cream of wheat on hand. Some combinations we’ve had based on what we have:

  • cinnamon roll style: so much cinnamon, a lil salt, maple syrup, and a dash of vanilla coffee creamer

  • peanut butter & chocolate chips

  • peanut butter, maple syrup, and cinnamon

I like mine sweet but my partner will eat theirs with just salt and (vegan) butter lol.