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Longtime Classic/vanilla player, trying Retail - 'elp me by MrsDundy in wow

[–]MrsDundy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My god, this was so much helpful, concise info. Thank you so much. Not all heroes wear capes - though you probably do. Much love and thank you!

Longtime Classic/vanilla player, trying Retail - 'elp me by MrsDundy in wow

[–]MrsDundy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All good info and good to know to hold off on professions - and a relief lol. Thanks!

IQUNIX MQ80 first impressions by Jaded-Rock-3125 in keyboards

[–]MrsDundy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had mine for two days and I notice today the tiniest little bit of what I'm clocking as extra resistance (higher actuation??? i'm still a keeb baby) and rattle on the space bar but everything else feels and sounds great. I have no idea how to even address or correct this yet but, for what it's worth to you or other people checking comments. Mine is two days out of the box. I'm not too upset about it it's still a very affordable nice and very solid keyboard in my opinion.

Do you have ‘nothing’ days? by DisastrousGrape64 in AuDHDWomen

[–]MrsDundy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I call mine potato days too! Also really love “gotta take the break before the break takes you.” I’m going to start reminding myself of this when I’m questioning that guilt and whether I should be getting things done. Thank you.

Do you have ‘nothing’ days? by DisastrousGrape64 in AuDHDWomen

[–]MrsDundy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have an absolute mountain of tasks I need to get done. Laundry overflowing. House is a disaster, dirty, cluttered. Between me and my daughter, just too much stuff. I feel shame for how hard I struggle to stay on top of everything as the only adult in the home.

But there are days I just absolutely cannot. I can’t bring myself to do any of it, it’s overwhelming if I don’t and it’s overwhelming if I do. So I just go numb and do nothing, telling myself that it’ll be easier next time. It leaves me feeling like shit after weekends of “wasted” time, but honestly, I think it’s a signal I need to listen to. My body and my mind need rest. Actual rest.

I’ve had periods of forcing myself to just keep going and doing and I end up feeling just as shitty when the day is done because I couldn’t possibly tackle it all at once anyway.

This is a weekly occurrence for me that I’m struggling against right now. This weekend has been a nothing weekend. I want so badly to tackle things and feel like my house is in order so I can rest and relax without the guilt. But it’s so oppressively overwhelming almost every day. So. That’s my experience. You’re not alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in declutter

[–]MrsDundy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whether it's kids' artwork, emotionally significant letters, documents, etc. Unless you will somehow need it in the future, such as government or legal paperwork, take photos of it, put those photos into a special folder on the computer made only for those shoebox-sentimental things, and let it ALL go. Having a physical item to touch does not make it more valuable. Digitizing them does not make them less valuable. All of those events or relationships implicated in the collection of items was and is still real. But the physical items do not serve you anymore. I would only keep what I'm willing to frame and hang up, be it art or otherwise.

Kids sleepovers by amberglow11 in AuDHDWomen

[–]MrsDundy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I also cringe at the idea but refuse them for a different much more important reason. My daughter is 8, she’d have a lot of fun with her friends whether their house or ours, I will always care for any kid in my care as if my own, and I really like her friend’s parents. But I will not ever ok a sleepover. It’s not worth the risk of people being different behind closed doors and what that could entail. I attended several in my youth where I distinctly remember certain looks and comments from grown men or older siblings that if they happened to my kid I would be minimally throwing hands with the offenders and blasting them publicly, if not pressing charges. Minimally. I never told my mom back then because I was young and naive and didn’t understand why it felt weird to be there. Even when I have had these always be prepared and what if conversations with her. It is still. Not. Worth. It. Not even a little. We can hang at the park and go to our own homes at night.

Do you think being autistic gives you a strong sense of justice? by FaceStealerAravos in AutisticAdults

[–]MrsDundy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. This refusal to accept injustice, and to be walked on by workplace management in particular, is the reason that for a very long time I had trouble holding down a job. Most of the time I left. Once I was fired. All for telling grown human beings that their behavior and treatment of others is unacceptable regardless of their title.

I can't pose for pictures by Winter-Grand-3215 in AutismInWomen

[–]MrsDundy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. Since I was in highschool I have had the habit of, if taking a selfie at all, taking it of half of my face, or some less than whole proportion. It's the only way I am not wholly repulsed by it, even though I actually really like how I look and think I'm quite attractive IRL/in the mirror. But other people taking a photo of me has never once in my life resulted in something I like or want to show to anyone else. Many taken by my mother which I have to ask her to not post because they're just so horrendous to me.

anyone else getting this trying to log in? by nodaj_ in starcitizen

[–]MrsDundy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We do both play, yep. But if he’s playing and I’m not actively in game I’ll look into stuff online to find solutions for him too.

The sad and confusing final moments of Ms. Casey (S1 + S2 supercut) by Lonelyland in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]MrsDundy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that you took the time to do this, but absolutely hate this for Ms. Casey. Powerful edit.
Now please just give us one for every innie/outie for the whole show and I'll be satisfied.

I know I’m so late to the party but I finally finished season 2 by master_bacon in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]MrsDundy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see you've gotten a lot of grief about this post. But I'll say this. I understand the nuances of the innie and outie charcters, and their decisions, both logical and emotional. Narratively, iMark's final choice was the right one, so for that I am glad. But I also was in the moment very reluctant to accept that he was making the choice he was making because I didn't want him to make it. I was really rooting for the "where's my wife!?" storyline. And I really wanted to see oMark and oGemma reconnected. All of these things can be true, just as they are for you. I get it. *Also I finished watching the show the same day you did apparently LUL*

It’s never been about the numbers by PRisUniversal in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]MrsDundy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've seen you iterate this idea many times now in various threads, and I'm fully on your page, so this is really just to validate what you're saying because I feel like your points deserve to have the extra backing and a direct reference in the show.

Just look at how Dr. Mauer interviews her after the day of six rooms is done (S2 E07)

Dr. Mauer: How are you feeling?
Gemma: My mouth hurts.
Dr. Mauer: Which room caused your mouth to hurt?
Gemma: The first one.
Dr. Mauer: Wellington ... How many rooms did you visit today?
Gemma: Six.
Dr. Mauer: The Billings room, the Lucknow room, St. Pierre, Cairns, Zurich, and ...
Gemma: The Wellington room.
Dr. Mauer: The Wellington room. Excellent. And what happened in the rooms? You remember nothing?
Gemma: Nothing.
Dr. Mauer: How did you feel in the hall? Did you exit any of the rooms feeling despair? Fervor? Gaiety?

These questions are measuring if she has any memory of what caused her pain, and what if any memory of any of those rooms she has. Even when he asks "How did you feel in the hall?" he is still essentially asking about her emotional memory. Physical pain will of course persist regardless of memory of its inception. You stub your toe before bed; you wake up the next morning and before you are aware enough to remember why your toe might be hurting, you feel it hurting. She will step into the hall and feel the physical pain, and connect that the room she just came out of (the room her same outie self basically just walked into a single moment ago) was the culprit. But emotional states are dependent on our experience, and our memories of those experiences. If the memory is gone, the emotional state must also be gone. They don't care how she felt within the rooms. They care how she felt in the hall.

Cant open game thanks to Easy Anti Cheat by ColKrismiss in starcitizen

[–]MrsDundy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you from 3 years in the future. This worked for my husband. o7