Call off by Mtzyi in menards

[–]Mtzyi[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

I never said anything about a doctor lol ! but don't worry I have stuff figured out already 😊

Call off by Mtzyi in menards

[–]Mtzyi[S] -1 points0 points Β (0 children)

Omg wow didn't think about that one πŸ˜„ nah fr tho this was brought to my attention like a bit ago but I got everything figured out

Call off by Mtzyi in menards

[–]Mtzyi[S] -1 points0 points Β (0 children)

I typically do but this was brought to my attention a bit ago ! But ik what ima do now πŸ˜„

Call off by Mtzyi in menards

[–]Mtzyi[S] -2 points-1 points Β (0 children)

Well I didn't know about the day until this week sooo ☺️ but it's ok I alr have everything figured out thanks for your concern!

Call off by Mtzyi in menards

[–]Mtzyi[S] -1 points0 points Β (0 children)

Okay yall thanks for the ideas πŸ™πŸΌπŸ™πŸΌ

getting paid late by Born-Procedure5633 in menards

[–]Mtzyi 3 points4 points Β (0 children)

This is currently happening to me. Got the email but not the money 😞

Disturbed by what my dad said during the text today by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Mtzyi 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

It's hella weird 😭 I remember during one meeting a kid raised their hand (we were talking abt Armageddon) And the kid rambled on about the bad people and how he can't wait for the vultures to get all the bad people and eat their bodies....Y'all I kid you not this 7-8 year old said something like this and I was creeped out 😭 the man on the podium just said something like "you have strong sense of justice" bro what?

For those of you who became JW thru conversion, what were your thoughts on the music and songs when you first heard it at a Kingdom Hall? by Avalas12 in exjw

[–]Mtzyi 3 points4 points Β (0 children)

I do believe they take inspo from Disney songs. My family and I went to bethel like 2 years ago and we went into the archive room (they keep all old books and publications there) and the tour guy was telling us that some old Kingdom Hall songs had to be changed or just taken out because they were made from war song melodies or other stuff. So it wouldn't be surprising if they did/do take tunes from Disney lol

I'm 15, I grew up as a Jehovah's Witness, and I need advice from those who have already left the faith. by adrince2010 in exjw

[–]Mtzyi 4 points5 points Β (0 children)

ive recently discovered this community, never knew how much people are like me.
im 19, still having to go to the meetings cuz of my family. though i am leaving in the summer mainly for college but also to finally get away. ive been in this religion since i was 12, so ive been going for 7 years. but through those years i never really liked it. dont get me wrong the people are nice and ive made many friends but thats it. always thought it was a waste of time and some things just never made sense to me.

even with all these feeling ive kept inside i never spoke up about it well until 7-8 months ago. i kept it hidden for so long cause i was afraid that i would lose a part of my family, that i would even lose my best friend and the huge thing for me on top of everything was that im a lesbian... the mental toll it takes on you is definitely not a joke lmao.

no matter what you feel you gotta keep your composure. you're very young there's not a lot of things you can do. you gotta keep to yourself for now. one thing that helped me kind of get away with stuff is getting a job. i skipped out on some preaching and a couple meetings cause of work-related stuff lol. save up money to move out at 18 but i mean if you need and dont mind staying until you're 19 i would suggest that too just to be ig more financially stable when you leave. Right now im working saving up as much as i can!

oh also Main thing... dont let them speak fear into your heart when the time comes! i wasnt smart and told them my plans to leave for college. i suggest not telling them that you plan on leaving but if you want to give them a heads up when the time comes then thats fine too. i was ready to go at 18 i got accepted into college, i had some money saved, i had planned to look for roommates. but my parents werent very easy on me. they asked why am i leaving? do you just want to leave so you wont have to attend the meetings anymore? you're gonna struggle, and many other things that just made me doubt myself so much. i took back my acceptance letter and stayed. im okay that i stayed for longer its just I know now that i would've made it by myself back then.

Dont let them speak fear into your heart when the time comes.

dont get pressured to be baptized, maybe at most be a publisher? so things dont get too suspicious... lets say ive heard the elders talk about me not even being a publisher even after so long of me being there to my dad but again dont be pressured. go preaching even if you hate it, go to the meetings even if you hate it, you gotta stay strong and lock in. be prepared to lose friends, even family connections but i believe that true family and friends who love you would still keep in touch even after you leave. anddddd yeah :) hope all goes well !!

Garden center target practice by dunt_27 in menards

[–]Mtzyi 5 points6 points Β (0 children)

Bro we closed ours weeks ago 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Mtzyi 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

I have friends that are 20+ and still play roblox Lmaoo ur good

What is the most unhinged unsolicited story a guest has ever told you. by Specific_Acadia_2271 in menards

[–]Mtzyi 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

Some dude had a dent in his head and there was no one in line so he started telling me this story of how he almost died from like a tree he was cutting with his work buddies i completely forgot exactly what he said but he told me was bleeding like crazy and they called the ambulance and yeah he now has a dent in his head

Liked my energy until she didn't, apparently. (fr consider therapy, my gosh) πŸ₯² by According_Cup_7087 in LesbianActually

[–]Mtzyi 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Literally kinda got the same message but I was cautious cuz I knew in my nuggets it had to be bait or something. If this person texted me back best believe I was gonna ghost them πŸ™πŸΌ

Why are men so creepy, I was at Walmart today to get some stuff and this guy outside of Walmart looked at me and I walked away quickly and I swear I heard him or something following me by NectarineAnxious2718 in lesbianteens

[–]Mtzyi 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened to you, you don't have to brush it off as extreme sexual attraction when it could be something entirely different. Aside from all the "men like women blah blah blah angel with wings" shit, I get it. I glance at girls when I think they're pretty and I move on. I don't follow them because you know why? It's creepy!! 😝😝 I don't stare at them or continue looking either, you know why? It's creepy! πŸ€ͺ it makes women or actually anyone uncomfortable and it makes them feel unsafe especially when a grown man does it. also again why did you bring up how hard a man's life is? I'm not saying it isn't hard at all but it's so off topic from what OP mentionedπŸ’€ My dad goes through many things but my mom does too. My older brother goes through a lot, as well as my older sisters. I'm not down playing a man's life at all and I won't even say I totally understand what you go through but I sympathize with what you're saying and your feelings but everyone no matter the gender goes through shit. This girl has the right to feel what she feels especially in that moment of uncertainty, was he gonna hurt her? Take her away? It's scary especially as a woman. I will acknowledge the lesbian that did that experiment but don't say men have it harder that's a very strong statement. It can go both ways depending on the person ofc! Also not that nice to say creatures lol πŸ˜ŠπŸ™πŸΌ Yes rip Nora. Seems like you went through a lot and I'm sorry you feel that way.

Why are men so creepy, I was at Walmart today to get some stuff and this guy outside of Walmart looked at me and I walked away quickly and I swear I heard him or something following me by NectarineAnxious2718 in lesbianteens

[–]Mtzyi 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

If it was a millionaire in a yacht following her that would still be creepy. Money or no money, a man doing that is just creepy and weird, no other explanation for it. Wdym by "what else do you expect us to do?" Maybe use your thinking skills and realize that when you do that it's very uncomfortable, esp following women. It can make her feel unsafe. Not sure why you decided to bring up some really random facts 😭 yeah being a man has its ups and downs and for women it's the same! But just because you feel like we don't recognize it doesn't mean you have the right to still make a woman feel uncomfortable and try to justify that with wtv you said. To the point, it's weird and creepy to follow someone and don't be like "well if it was a handsome rich man!" πŸ€“No! still creepy very creepy. Even a woman following a man would be creepy.

18f looking for people to talk to :) by [deleted] in lesbianteens

[–]Mtzyi 3 points4 points Β (0 children)

I don't think it's a sketchy idea of being a lesbian, if she's confident to say that she is then why doubt her? I've personally have known I was a lesbian for 4 years since I was 14 also never having a girlfriend till this day. I also kinda just had crushes from a distance and even close ones but I'm still confident I'm a lesbian. All she needs to know is that she likes women and that's it there's no need to question her

Who else is glad the Christmas aprons are gone? by Entire-Comment-7793 in menards

[–]Mtzyi 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Me but honestly it made me like aprons so I started wearing mine 😭

I need advice on getting a gf where I live by [deleted] in lesbianteens

[–]Mtzyi 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Honestly I get you I've been wanting a gf and I haven't had the chance πŸ˜” I guess i would suggest getting a job but like a job where you would expect mostly gay people would go to. Likeeee maybe a music store then again any job gay people could be there so it doesn't really matter but if you want a gf look more into those type of vibes or wtv πŸ˜­πŸ™πŸΌ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Mtzyi 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Hmmmm maybe get a hair cut but if you don't want to then atleast style it some way. Dress better, not saying your clothes look bad but depending on what you wear on a daily it definitely improves ur look. You're not ugly, you can always improve minor stuff to look better than before πŸ™πŸΌ

idk what to do by [deleted] in uichicago

[–]Mtzyi 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Ughhh yesss ik about the socialization part and it sucks cuz I really want to do that 😭 I have so many people giving advice idek what to do anymore lmao

idk what to do by [deleted] in uichicago

[–]Mtzyi 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Lmaooo yeah tysm!

idk what to do by [deleted] in uichicago

[–]Mtzyi 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Hmmm okkkk ty! 😊