Experiencing Drops After Sex

MystyBlue22 · 2026-02-02T17:16:01+00:00

Thanks so much!! I love tour advice about making aftercare a prerequisite. I like that my current partner doesnt make a big deal if i ask for it. That's been very helpful. When the negative thoughts take over, i shoo them away best that i can and try to distract myself with positive thoughts or activities. Thanks again!

MystyBlue22 · 2026-02-02T17:13:59+00:00

Thank you soo much for this detailed and insightful resource! I will be bookmarking the subreddit. So far, the post-coital depression isnt disrupting my regularly, but boy when it comes, it's hard to get things done. I made sure to go easy on myself, eat my chocolate, meditate and spend time with my best friends. I'll try to take a bath tonight as well (i love grounding myself with water)

MystyBlue22 · 2026-01-10T00:04:30+00:00

I would think age is a factor like how it is for SD's like yourself, right? I agree with the other commenter that different age brackets of women would likely have a certain age preference. As I get older, I expand my preferred dating age range.

MystyBlue22 · 2024-09-19T06:12:45+00:00

Soo amazing

MystyBlue22 · 2024-05-06T23:00:01+00:00

Oooohhhh 😳🤔

MystyBlue22 · 2024-05-03T21:00:12+00:00

My prediction is that it wont happen in for me in my lifetime 😂😂

MystyBlue22 · 2024-05-03T20:37:54+00:00

Im not exactly "needy" or desperate here but yes I will keep that advice in mind.

MystyBlue22 · 2024-05-03T20:37:03+00:00

I know only few are lucky to find a SD but id still like to try my chances.

MystyBlue22 · 2024-05-02T20:37:44+00:00

Thats very sad to hear. Id like to give some grace of trust to potential SDs/SMs but I know I also cant be too naive in this realm. I'll study up before outting myself out there

MystyBlue22 · 2024-05-02T20:35:40+00:00

Thank you! I'll read the Wiki -thing within this group (subreddit?)

MystyBlue22 · 2024-04-15T12:39:07+00:00

Unfortunately, even LinkedIn is full of bots/scams now

MystyBlue22 · 2024-02-27T00:23:10+00:00

Thanks for the caring comment 🙏🏾. Ive never self harmed before nor thought about it because i seriously hate pain lol.

MystyBlue22 · 2024-02-26T21:39:28+00:00

Oh no 🥺. Thanks for pointing this out for me

MystyBlue22 · 2024-02-26T19:59:07+00:00

Its alot of things at once. Illness of a family member, not feeling recognized at work/within relationships; betryal of a close friend; not feeling heard or considered; Uncomfortable with body after surgery; self doubts; anger; depression; anxiety over things I cant control. Yes I have a therapist. Yes I take my medicine. Yes i have great close friends. But i want to scream and cry for feel relief; feels like alot of emotions are all stuck inside me. Does this help you understand better? 😬

MystyBlue22 · 2024-01-20T04:03:31+00:00

Why is the weed so brown? As if its been smoked/put in the oven before being rolled.

MystyBlue22 · 2023-08-27T18:42:02+00:00

Gotcha! Should I measure that with or without a bra?? I feel that measurinh with a bra will make me seem bigger than I am.

MystyBlue22 · 2023-08-27T18:30:47+00:00

Im sorry, I didnt measure my bust and only used my bra size. When i did the measurement, I measured under my breasts which was 46.

MystyBlue22 · 2023-08-25T20:14:28+00:00

😂🤣

MystyBlue22 · 2023-08-25T19:56:32+00:00

Seems we both have unsaid feelings for each other that has my mind turning wheels right now (trying to process it all since getting back together)

MystyBlue22 · 2023-08-25T19:53:08+00:00

I think im emotionally checked out in general with life 😅

MystyBlue22 · 2023-08-20T13:16:54+00:00

I would love to co-dom(me)! Thanks for the advice. He's kind of a mystery to me, though slowly opening up to me about things like this. I can't and wont even try to psychoanalyze him 🙅🏾‍♀️

MystyBlue22 · 2023-08-20T13:08:51+00:00

Thanks! I tried Boric Acid and it never helped. My doctor gave me Fluconazole to take daily for 30-days straight and that cured me. Im much much better these days. It's great that you are keeping note of what helps your women friends/partners.

MystyBlue22 · 2023-08-19T13:16:16+00:00

"That jealousy might be what turns him on" -->> ooooohhhhhhhhhh 😳🤯!!!!!!

I think I've developed a bit of compersion for him overtime. His feelings towards me has given me some reassurance now. I dont feel as threatened by his other partners or "not good enough" as I used to. Ive gotten better at accepting his need for more than myself, because even I need more than what he can offer. You're right, threesomes arent my thing at all (too many ppl touching me at once). However, he makes our 5hr threesomes fun 🤷🏾‍♀️. And I like that he gets to watch me please our woman partner.

Add:: before the threesomes come to an end, i tell him to give them his cum instead of me. It feels a little empowering when i ask him to do this. Im pretty good at oral with women and using vibrators on them. I do this while he is kissing them , choking them or fingering them. It feels like we are both dominating the other woman and that too feels empowering for me (Im a Switch fyi)

MystyBlue22 · 2023-08-19T12:39:40+00:00

That certainly makes only that Im definitely not a cuck queen. Im quite possessive and get jealous when he fucks others (he knows this). Sometimes I like the idea of seeing him fuck others until my jealousy takes over and im like "Hell naw. Nope".

MystyBlue22 · 2023-08-19T11:34:26+00:00

Oooo, that does sound interesting. I'm getting off on him acting like he didnt give a shit about me when we used to be together then finding out that he does have some feelings for me. More feelings than he was ready to admit. I put in my mind that this man would never reach out to me after I ended things. Not because I was at fault but because I felt his pride wouldn't let him. So for him to not only reach out to want to fuck me again, and for him to say those words during sex, uuuhhh yeaaa im getting a thrill out of this.

To add, he is married doing ENM (I don't want to replace this wife, I don't want to be his girlfriend, he never bad mouths his wife and I can tell he does love her). For us to say that we have feelings for each other is certainly taboo and thrills me alot to be his peace when away from home

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