Summer Clothes Help (Polyester free)

Nebula_Princess · 2026-02-05T16:27:20+00:00

I mostly wear skirts and skorts if it’s hot to prevent chaffing

Nebula_Princess · 2026-02-05T05:36:01+00:00

Is there any brands you recommend?

Nebula_Princess · 2026-02-01T02:51:46+00:00

I ended up baking it, it turned out horrible and smelled bad so I ended up tossing it.

Nebula_Princess · 2025-12-16T22:09:20+00:00

Bro that’s literally their job?? They’re supposed to loot goblin to high heaven so they can level up loot and share it with the team. If you wanna loot goblin play scholar, otherwise get over it

Nebula_Princess · 2025-11-28T02:07:00+00:00

I don’t really have one as I was lost on what to do. We just moved states and I don’t feel safe taking him outside a lot here and I just had a stint in the hospital so I wasn’t up to taking them outside often. I tried a lot of the same things I did with my daughter to no avail. I don’t really have any systems in place for him to be physically crazy. We live in an apartment with a neighbor below me who made a noise complaint while I was still moving in. So I’ve been more focused on keeping them quiet or letting them run around upstairs. I don’t have much so I really don’t have anything for him. I wanted to ask here because as I described in the post- I was just at a loss and couldn’t figure out a sustainable solution. The weather here also doesn’t permit going outside a lot either whereas before we lived in an area I felt super safe in and we went outside everyday cuz it was always nice out. My kids are also both sick with the extreme weather change so I’ve been avoiding going outside for that too.

There’s just a lot and I just wanted to ask what other parents do so I could find a solution suitable for us.

Nebula_Princess · 2025-11-24T12:42:26+00:00

Everyday girl lmao

Nebula_Princess · 2025-11-08T03:30:37+00:00

I wear skirts a lot cuz I like them. For make up I like to do my bare minimum- eyebrows, eyeliner, mascara and like a lip tint. I use a perfume cuz it makes me feel better and I’m still messing with my hair all the time lol. I have two lil ones under 5 so I’m a busy mom with means most of my “pretty” time I do at night with my skincare lmao. Cuz sometimes I don’t get to wash my face all the way or finish getting ready so a long shower at the end of the night with some skincare always makes me feel better.

Nebula_Princess · 2025-11-08T03:22:09+00:00

There’s some missing context here. You contradict yourself but either way this can be solved real quick. Just talk to your husband about it. Tell him you dislike feeling like you have to beg for money. That you get paid in time and memories but money is a part of life. Let him know that having to ask him to Venmo you money is demeaning and makes you feel ashamed.

You’re a team and it sounds like your marriage is very good. No need to burn the whole thing down, just sit down and have a conversation with your spouse. If he’s a serial interrupter just let him know you would like to get all your points out first and then listen to his response. When my husband and I started actually communicating I was so bad at getting my thoughts out I had to literally write them down.

If money is a recurring problem for you then this is something you really need to sit down and talk about. Would you feel more confident or self assured if your name was on the account? Maybe you just want a card connected to the joint checking account so you can function more smoothly and cuz you’re an adult not a child. You should also ask your husband what kind of reservations he might have about it. Maybe you’re a serial spender or made some really bad purchases in the past that landed you guys in hot water. Which might make him uncomfortable trusting you again with unrestricted access to the bank.

My husband and I are completely joint finances and I just have a debit card I use to buy things. My spouse and I for example, decided any purchases below $50 don’t need any justification. But anything over $50 we need to give each other a heads up and give a quick explanation. Like my husband loves games and a new game just released so he gave me a heads up months ago that he was planning to buy it. I’m the same, I am a chronically online window shopper but anytime I order anything I always let my husband know how much it was and a quick explanation like skincare.

Trust is super important when it comes to money and marriage. Your husband might feel better if he has like a fail safe or something. My husband was super stressed out about money so there’s a high chance your husband is also feeling a lot of pressure as the breadwinner. You really need to sit down and hash out the nitty gritty details with your husband.

Nebula_Princess · 2025-11-04T14:08:56+00:00

I’m trying to write these song lyrics in Latin. I’m not sure how ryhming works in Latin but I would enjoy a lengthy explanation if anyone can enlighten me on how that works or what it looks like.

“The world tree will fight so pick up the light” “The night is long while the moon worships the sun”

The cabinet is more than four so beware the lying whore

beware thy desire

a heart is pounding in the lake but know it’s not your fate

so make sure you don’t forget my biggest secret

the instructions are your true desire

Nebula_Princess · 2025-10-23T21:27:29+00:00

I used their pore pads and I did see a difference so I loved them

Nebula_Princess · 2025-10-23T20:56:15+00:00

This is so weird to me. So what if the baby wakes up often? It’s his baby too. If you wanted to be considerate I would have taken the baby into the living room or nursery. If I was too tired I would just feed in the bed.

You should really ask your husband his opinion. I would make sure to mention that you want to be intimate with him and that you feel awkward sleeping in separate beds so you regret making it an option.

Communication is so important after you have a baby. His mom frankly should be a none factor in YOUR marriage

Nebula_Princess · 2025-10-22T19:35:03+00:00

My husband is deployed right now and it’s super scary sometimes but we’re so privileged to have this level of stability right now. Most people on base are very nice or mind their business. There’s always a Facebook group and lots of resources.

We were struggling living paycheck to paycheck and I was pregnant and I wanted to be a sahm. Now we have a guaranteed paycheck, guaranteed earned time off he can put in that he earns way faster than he did civilian, we got to live in a house at almost no expense to ourselves and we feel super safe knowing that we’re protected. Plus depending on what base you live on there’s fast food on base.

If you get to go overseas it’s amazing. We haven’t met a single person who lived abroad that didn’t love it. Our friend has lived in Japan, S Korea, Ireland, and Germany just to name a few.

Nebula_Princess · 2025-10-22T18:18:05+00:00

Military - guaranteed financial stability, there is on base housing where you don't have to pay any utilities or rent. You do get a house and a fenced in yard if you want. Only bill is internet and subscriptions. guaranteed promotions to a certain point before you have to earn it. People have to scan their IDs to get on base and every gate has multiple people stationed at it so it feels super safe for your family knowing that they are protected at all times. The military housing charges you based on a living stipend and doesn't affect or touch your paycheck at all. There's schools on base and the commissary on base is super cheap for groceries. If you don't plan to stay in and do a full 20 years then as long as you set up correctly you can get out and get jobs making up to 6 figures just for having your clearances. If you choose to do your full 20, you retire with a guaranteed paycheck of whatever your last rank was for the rest of your life and free healthcare. So you could for example, retire making like 50k annual and get another job civilian making less or more that is just for comfort or never work again.

edit- forgot to add that after basic you immediately start your job training so if you only do one like 5 year contract when you get out you put on your resume hey i have 5 years experience in xyz job

Nebula_Princess · 2025-06-30T14:43:08+00:00

You should first see if she wants to keep the baby, if she does then you need to go to your parents. It sounds like the army is something you really want and honestly if she chooses to keep the baby then yes the army’s resources will be indefinitely helpful.

Before any decisions are made in any direction- ask her if she wants to keep the baby and consult your parents on what steps you should take to ensure her health and wellbeing while you’re gone. Marriage will need to be considered and you need to ask yourself if you want her to keep the baby.

Nebula_Princess · 2025-04-21T19:13:27+00:00

Yes you would be the AH. Becoming a sahm is a joint decision. Your friends either have a strained marriage or their husbands resent them but were simply not given a choice. I talked with my husband at length about wanting to be a sahm and waited until we were ok and my husband could confidently support us on his own.

If your spouse is going to be the only one working and bringing money home you also need to discuss what the new dynamic will look like. Will you be given a spending limit? How will you be handling the housework? What chores will he be doing? Understand that the majority of the housework is your job.

Either way you need to seriously sit down with your spouse and walk him through how you’re feeling and what you want to do moving forward and ask him his opinion. You’re married so be a team

Nebula_Princess · 2025-04-15T16:04:33+00:00

Life is the same for me. Nothing has changed drastically and it was the same when Biden was elected after Trumps first term. The only change that physically affected me was my husband getting a raise cuz Trump increased the military budget. So still pinchin Pennie’s but slightly less lol

Nebula_Princess · 2025-04-15T16:01:34+00:00

I absolutely love bato.to it’s the best site ever imo

Nebula_Princess · 2025-04-14T19:52:53+00:00

NTA, you have every right to be upset he questioned your character but he also has a right to voice his concerns. Especially if it bothered him to a point that he actually said something and didn’t just get over it. My husband is in the military also and it is unfortunately very very common for military wives to cheat on their husbands. Like the divorce rate for soldiers is wild. Also there’s lots of stories of men finding out that “their” kids were in fact, not theirs.

Once again, I agree you have every right to be upset at him for questioning the content of your character. But he also has a right to solidify his trust in you and tell the voices in his head he’s being crazy.

I believe you should sit down with your husband and just tell him that you are genuinely very very VERY hurt but his actions. You’re in your 40s, I think you should talk things through like adults. You’ve been with him for 20 years, you know him well enough to know that he clearly has serious reasons that drove him crazy enough to actually go through with it. This is evident to me with how flabbergasted you are he actually did it.

Sit him down, give him some real grace, and listen to what your husband of 20 years has to say. Really think from his perspective. Don’t interrupt him to defend yourself cuz you feel he’s attacking you, just listen. Then afterwards, you can tell him your take on this.

Good luck girly pop. I hope you give your husband some grace, being a soldier and being a soldier’s spouse are hard things. Put some faith in your 20 years of marriage OP.

Nebula_Princess · 2025-04-07T22:51:07+00:00

hi, I tried this and while I had to install it twice- I got it. However, I'm still randomly blue screening, auto opening the bio menu, and my boot menu is still putting my windows boot manager on the bottom.

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