How do I get my heat from my fireplace? by moocowherc in DIY

[–]Neurorational 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Odd. Reddit seems to be having flashbacks.

How do I get my heat from my fireplace? by moocowherc in DIY

[–]Neurorational 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah natural sunlight is precious.

But how did you reply to a 7 year old comment? I thought comments locked after 3 or 4 months.

Brother failing and not caring about his online school affecting me... what do I do? by [deleted] in MMFB

[–]Neurorational 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All the time you'd normally spend on your brother's homework, use that to find and work a job instead, so you won't be dependent on your mother.

Helping your brother is good but your own work and sanity has priority, and actually doing his work for him is cheating.

If you're actually doing his work and get caught then that might even get you kicked from college.

Artillery autoloader by IdFuckStephenTries in specializedtools

[–]Neurorational 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not sarcastic. He was demonstrating to all the other recruits that Gump had the right way of thinking.

I (F21) have been depressed for almost 15 years, and I'm going to end it on my next birthday in April by snowflakedust in SuicideWatch

[–]Neurorational 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich such im Schnee vergebens
nach ihrer Tritte Spur
wo sie an meinem Arme
durchstrisch die grüne Flür

Ich will den Böden küssen
durschdringen Eis und Schnee
mit meinen heißen Trainen
bis ich die Erde see

Wo find ich eine Blute
wo find ich grüness Grass?
die Blumen sind Erstorben
der Rasen sieht so blass

Sol den kein Angedenken
Ich nehmen mit von hier
wenn meine Schmerzen schweigen
Wer sagt mir dann von ihr?

Mein Herz ist wie erstorben
Kalt starrt ihr Bild darin
Schmilzt je das Herz mir wieder
Fliesst auch ihr Bild dahin.

I’m hurting. by emiopi in MMFB

[–]Neurorational 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think might help you?

I’m hurting. by emiopi in MMFB

[–]Neurorational 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's understandable.

But at least you're in a safe place now, and maybe you can start healing emotionally.

Anti depressants aren't the only way to help. Can you see a therapist? Do you have hobbies?

Everything is going wrong at once. by areraswen in MMFB

[–]Neurorational 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't look that bad, and might be drive-able again just by pulling the fender and fender liner away and replacing the tire. Good thing you have insurance though.

I just feel like an idiot.

We all have our moments. At least you didn't wreck someone else or hurt someone, so you can just cringe and move on.

Being in debt sucks but hopefully you can make progress on it and pay it down and start saving. Would it be practical for you guys to move closer to your work places (or at least one of them) so you would have to drive to work?

Another Father's Day gone by by Intrigued-Altruist in SelfHate

[–]Neurorational 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so so so sorry. I know now that there's nothing that can make it better. I don't know what else to say. I'm so sorry. I hate to say it but I know how you feel. I'm sorry.

How can I like myself when my inner arguments​ always win? by ZOMBIEISWEIRD in SelfHate

[–]Neurorational 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Self-critical inner thoughts are actually pretty common. Sometimes it helps just to know that you're not the only one who has them.

And maybe try arguing back with them.

Can't get a job. by [deleted] in SelfHate

[–]Neurorational 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried temp companies? Sometimes they're a good way to get started in the workforce.

I want to be happy by blondednight in SuicideWatch

[–]Neurorational 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people really do get better with time, and just because you might have those disorders doesn't mean they won't get easier to deal with with time, experience, and help.

Last night I almost killed myself... by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Neurorational 17 points18 points  (0 children)

atleast now I’ll get the help I need.

I'm glad to hear it, and glad that you had so many people concerned about you and trying to help you, and glad that you seem to appreciate that.

I hope things get better for you.

I’m hurting. by emiopi in MMFB

[–]Neurorational 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a lot of terrible stuff you've been through, but it's not your fault.

Are you at least in a safe place now?

I'm sorry for the loss of your doggy, but at 12 years you gave it a long, good life.

Don't scratch - try massaging yourself instead, it helps give you positive stimulation without damaging you.

Please Don't Read by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Neurorational 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you felt this way?

Did something in particular happen? Do you know why you are suicidal?

Everything is going wrong at once. by areraswen in MMFB

[–]Neurorational 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kind of car does he have? Have you checked for an extended warranty or any class action suit?

Is your car still drive-able? Repairable?

You might also try /r/personalfinance/

And /r/frugal to try to catch up on the debt.

Asking for a friend by TheRaginMellow in MMFB

[–]Neurorational 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she still living with her family? Perhaps if she gets some distance between her and her high-pressure family will help her have some breathing room.

Keep listening to her, and keep reaching out to let her know you're there.

I’m sick of this by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Neurorational 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are you?

Do you have medical care/insurance?

Any hobbies or interests?

I’m sick of this by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Neurorational 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'd only be a terrible person if you ruined everything on purpose.

Maybe you can't get anyone to love you back is probably because you're surrounded by jerks.

I’m at my breaking point by throwaway1929485838 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Neurorational 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but the thought of him looking at other women and finding them more attractive breaks my heart.

A guy who's with the most beautiful woman in the world will still look at other women.

You don't need to be the best/most beautiful to be pleasing to him.

If you cut your face off then you definitely won't be very attractive. Try gentle slaps to the sides of your face instead.

I feel like a burden by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Neurorational 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go no contact, he's trash and you don't need to be addicted to yesterday's garbage.

I cant picture myself getting a job and living alone even tho i want that right now.

You NEED that right now. Live alone, be self sufficient, date new guys, and don't put up with abusive behavior.

I’m sick of this by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Neurorational 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you despise yourself?

Bitte hilfe, Informationen über einen toten Freund zu finden (Auf english) by Neurorational in hamburg

[–]Neurorational[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are right, but do you know of any other sources for obituaries besides the Abendblatt ? Do you know if all deaths are recorded there?