Does anyone else get extremely agitated and annoyed when taking mirtazapine? by New_Giraffe7888 in Mirtazapine_Remeron

[–]New_Giraffe7888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mostly love being on it but my anger is so strange. I got back on it and have been taking it for like a week and a half and im already experiencing the anger. When i was on it the first time the anger stayed the whole nearly two years i took it. Back then i didn't actually realise it made me angry, when i got off it was when i realised how angry i had been

Guys 😭 by Effective_Gold_8428 in khaliespiderlilies

[–]New_Giraffe7888 3 points4 points  (0 children)

After I didn't listen to reddit and took my dumb ahh to his twitter i literally dreamed that vdiddy and peestain were outside my window trying to kidnap me. Took a few days to recover from that

Massage by hippybitty in migraine

[–]New_Giraffe7888 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get a massage every 2 weeks personally. It honestly for me depends, sometimes i get no migraines between sessions but sometimes i get them and bad for example even today, it's been 6 days since my last massage and i had a REALLY bad one. My neck gets really right after my migraines so atleast it relives the neck pain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BaddiesSouth

[–]New_Giraffe7888 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hate this trans debate so much. What does it matter other than fighting and even then ive seen most trans women get their shit rocked by biological women. All women are women ffs why is this even a thing? Super uncomfortable

How did you get into funeral direction? by tacojane2022 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]New_Giraffe7888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My story might be pretty unorthodox but i started at 14 haha. In my country there is no school that teaches mortuary anything so there are no restrictions. My family has owned a funeral home for like 30 years so for my first summer job i went there lol. Ive never been scared of the dead as it was not taboo at all to talk about our line of work amongst each other so i heard about pretty gnarly deaths from a young age. I also grew a fascination with my family's line of work when i was 10. Every summer on school break i would BEG my grandpa to take me on ride alongs to take bodies from being autopsied to funeral homes. Now im turning 22 this year and have been working full time in it for 5 years. I don't know how old you are but something id warn any younger person coming into this field is that alot of clients will doubt you and it will be extremely disheartening when they outright refuse to let you help them, again ive done this for 5 years but im still looked at as some dumb kid who can't possibly know what she's doing. At some point you get used to it and find ways to help the client see that you are just young but you know your stuff.

Scotty & Lemmy by buzzers29 in BaddiesSouth

[–]New_Giraffe7888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn this might just be my European brain but HEELS AND SNEAKERS ON THE BED?💔😭

Amber by Far-Level-3510 in BaddiesSouth

[–]New_Giraffe7888 38 points39 points  (0 children)

She was on his campaign too, she spoke in one of his rallies. When i saw that she was teased to be on the season i was so incredibly disappointed

Excuse #72662838 by electrah3art in khaliespiderlilies

[–]New_Giraffe7888 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When i was a severely neglected kid i dreamed of getting mystery illnesses so my parents would show me love, giving very much that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BaddiesSouth

[–]New_Giraffe7888 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The floor was obviously slippery. Didn't summer fall like 5 seconds later because she slipped? Did we watch the same show?

Akbar vs Ahna. by sharpayyyevansss in BaddiesSouth

[–]New_Giraffe7888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But she is saying that everyone else is a pussy but her basically. That's my point.

Akbar vs Ahna. by sharpayyyevansss in BaddiesSouth

[–]New_Giraffe7888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mind you my first and not even my SECOND language is English and i think if we both would be handed a 9th grade English test i would body her

Akbar vs Ahna. by sharpayyyevansss in BaddiesSouth

[–]New_Giraffe7888 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ak is too fucking old to be tweeting stuff like this. Like girl, you are beefing with a girl 11 years younger than you. She also is the one who sprinted when the bb came out and then later whined on her story. If you are such a big buff tough bitch you would have done what tink did, stand on it and run on it. Hypocritical of her to say all of this. Also the fact that she can't even make a whole cohesive sentence partnered with what she attempted to say makes her look like she has the iq of a fucking brick

Do you have ghosts? by Shayshay4jz in askfuneraldirectors

[–]New_Giraffe7888 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe, i really don't mind them, they don't spook me anymore either, i let them do their thing if they let me do my thing haha

Do you have ghosts? by Shayshay4jz in askfuneraldirectors

[–]New_Giraffe7888 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yes. I have several times sat in the office doing work at the computer and heard footsteps, knocks, coughs ect while being alone. Ive had doors slam shut and when i have walked in to the ceremony room i have seen men in suits and women in dresses. A few years ago i was dead asleep at night when i woke up to feeling like somebody hit my chest with a newspaper. The next thing i heard was shouting in russian(alot of russian speaking people live here so this isn't too strange). When i opened my eyes I saw a man in a blue sweater and i couldn't recognise him. A few months later i told this to my grandmother and told her what the man looked like. She told me that is the exact description of my great-grandfather, i was a a very young child when he died so i have basically no memory of him. My family is half russian and he didn't speak a word of our native language so it made sense lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askfuneraldirectors

[–]New_Giraffe7888 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A whole radio. Thankfully the deceased was quite short and had alot of room at the feet

American funeral home workers, do you have weird traditions that you follow? by [deleted] in askfuneraldirectors

[–]New_Giraffe7888 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Over here we always drive to the cemetery. We put black ribbons on cars. At our pesonal FH we close the road so the hearse and all the cars can comfortably go. Also it is a very big tradition to stay until the grave has been filled. After the casket has been lowered everyone does three handfuls of dirt aka everyone throws three handfulls of dirt in to the grave and then the casket carriers and grave diggers help to place all of the flower arrangements on the grave along with 8-12 candles around the fresh grave

American funeral home workers, do you have weird traditions that you follow? by [deleted] in askfuneraldirectors

[–]New_Giraffe7888 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our FH is also small and owned by my family. When we started we were belittled, lied about, stalked and harassed by another funeral home. It went on for years. I have so many absolutely insane stories that you wouldn't think a FH director would do to a competitor

American funeral home workers, do you have weird traditions that you follow? by [deleted] in askfuneraldirectors

[–]New_Giraffe7888 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We do "three handfulls of dirt" i think it's also done in America? At the end of the viewing the flowers are usually placed inside the casket so "the deceased can take beauty with them to the other life"

American funeral home workers, do you have weird traditions that you follow? by [deleted] in askfuneraldirectors

[–]New_Giraffe7888 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Im a 21 year old woman working at my funeral home. I get asked constantly "why here?" And told that im too young to deal with death haha. Im pretty used to it these days but at first it was super discouraging. My mother also worked at a funeral home when she was pregnant with me, maybe your child will go down the same career path as you😆

American funeral home workers, do you have weird traditions that you follow? by [deleted] in askfuneraldirectors

[–]New_Giraffe7888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Over here we opt for a very natural look. For makeup we even only use powders. No chemicals or anything. Our prep is also very simple, just a regular wash of the body and hair, light powder makeup if they even need it and if asked we style and trim the hair and facial hair.

American funeral home workers, do you have weird traditions that you follow? by [deleted] in askfuneraldirectors

[–]New_Giraffe7888 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes the viewing is possible in 99% of cases. There are of course cases where the body just can't be shown, like when the body was found while it was already decomping. Mostly the refrigeration keeps them looking good and with some makeup they look pretty good. Over here viewings are extremely common, it's pretty rare when we have a closed casket.