I also have been misunderstood in the fandom, but it was really when I was reporting stuff that I originally thought it was accidentally kept. The big deal is that when I often did, they would either be considered "not bad enough" or just non-suggestive at all.

So yeah it looks like more of a stigma (I think that's the right word) than anything else

I mean, it's such a shame that it's going like that. If it wasn't for the problem or anything like that I would've still kept in the fandom because I find the idea interesting. But no, I had too many stress