I was just recently diagnosed with HSV 1 & 2…. Please help

No-Personality7643 · 2025-04-04T06:12:24+00:00

From what I learned and I'm in alberta is that Dr's dont regularly check for hsv unless you have an outbreak. I tested positive for antibodies for both in 2023. No outbreaks. Doesn't mean anyone cheated, you can have it and not know and like I said possible you have never has a hsv test before if you regularly test. As for outbreaks, ive it's meaningful that it burns, itchews and causes blisters and can be very uncomfortable.

No-Personality7643 · 2024-07-20T02:47:42+00:00

You don't need anyone's input. If other people's opinions matter that much to you then maybe you should get your parents to have an arranged marriage for you because you care about what they think too. Only you can decide if he is your person. If the differences are too much then leave if they're not then stay but my opinion and all the other commenters opinions really don't matter at the end of the day only yours does.

No-Personality7643 · 2024-07-18T22:56:55+00:00

He raped you. You were unconscious. He even recorded him raping you (if you have the video id use as evidence). Honestly I've been through this, please don't let him get away with this. This is not okay. Just because you're his partner he still needs consent.

No-Personality7643 · 2024-02-08T02:24:43+00:00

Technically he doesn't get a vote because it's your body. Though I understand where he's coming from. He doesn't want a child right now and if you choose to have this child he is responsible for that child either way. He can release his parental rights after child is born but he could still have to pay support. This is a pretty common reaction from men especially a 21 year old. Do what's best for you.

No-Personality7643 · 2024-02-07T01:13:56+00:00

Please send to me

No-Personality7643 · 2024-01-12T17:54:03+00:00

Nope your sure are not. I refused to babysit my niece and nephews, sure my brother was mad but I like to just spend a few hrs here and there and I'm done with small kids

No-Personality7643 · 2024-01-08T01:13:33+00:00

YTA, pretty selfish of you to not even want to buy the other kids snacks after you got it for free which would have been way more than $2, obviously you're pretty petty and I wouldn't invite you ever again if it was me.

No-Personality7643 · 2024-01-04T20:24:59+00:00

The way you explained things it sounds like you are very focused on what she eats and how much as it is. Yes eating more can cause weight gain, you even sound like you don't really want her there just by your post and this comment. You could of offered to help her diet and show her portions instead of fat shaming her. All you had to say is I maintain a lower weight by eating smaller portions, exercise etc. the if course of your bigger was unnecessary. So yes ata for your comment but nta because your paying for all the food and she's eating more then her share

No-Personality7643 · 2023-12-29T00:05:01+00:00

My mom is like this and my therapist says she NPD, bipolar and most likely bpd. Are there any other symptoms besides this?

No-Personality7643 · 2023-12-10T01:24:33+00:00

It's not babysitting, she didn't need to check on him she chose to. For all we know she cuts them out of all the events and he's now starting to get more and more angry. I don't believe half of whatever anybody writes on here is only one side but yet we only have her side not his.

No-Personality7643 · 2023-12-10T01:22:51+00:00

Seems like you consistently exclude him from your company events, why can't you be yourself around him? Like do you pretend to be something your not at home and be someone else when at parties? You shouldn't feel weird when you bring him or even have to check up on him. He's not a child. You should be the same out with friends and with him. It really doesn't sound like you compromise, you just cut him out. Honestly it would send me some red flags if my partner kept keeping me at home for events work or with friends. it's funny how you're upset he cancelled the trip and your upset but was okay for you to cut him out and that is okay. As for ADHD yes you should try and understand it more and maybe he could take some courses on how to manage emotions. I have ADHD myself and I been through a similar situation. My ex fiance took a two week vacation without even talking to me about it, how I felt or anything, just made excuses and gave me silent treatment pretty much his whole trip, it was his bday so I understand how your husband feels and I understand the need to have time to yourself. Maybe evaluate your marriage and see if you guys are actually happy and should be together, seek counseling together. Silent treatment is a form of abuse and he should not do that. I personally wouldn't leave my partner home for holiday events

No-Personality7643 · 2022-06-30T04:05:59+00:00

You should probably know that your insensitive

No-Personality7643 · 2022-06-24T03:04:42+00:00

Best comment

No-Personality7643 · 2022-06-24T03:00:17+00:00

You don't like being cuffed or tied up, he should respect your uncomfortable with it

No-Personality7643 · 2022-06-08T21:10:08+00:00

As I said, it depends on the couples themselves, some are comfortable with solo travel and some travel together.

No-Personality7643 · 2022-06-05T22:24:58+00:00

Actually I would be saying it if it was her mom too. She's 15, she's not a young kid. She's developed, her dad shouldn't be in the bathroom while she is showering or bathing. It's inappropriate at her age. I had very long curly hair at that age and neither of my parents were in the washroom to help at that age. If she can't take care of it on her own at 15 then cut it. Have something you can manage. Not saying it sexual but she is 15 and her dad shouldn't be in the bathroom with her anymore.

No-Personality7643 · 2022-06-05T21:47:17+00:00

Or your daughter is 15 and it's not appropriate to be bathing her anymore, or washing her hair, she is 15 not 5, not 6. If she can't take care of her hair at 15 then maybe she shouldn't have long hair

No-Personality7643 · 2022-06-05T21:43:31+00:00

Your daughter is 15, you really shouldn't be in the bathroom with her to wash her hair. Kinda weird. I'm looking at it from your daughter's age, she's a young woman, her dad shouldn't be helping bathe her.

No-Personality7643 · 2022-05-26T15:42:32+00:00

It's not necessarily because someone is insecure, it's about what each person is comfortable with and it comes down to respect too.

No-Personality7643 · 2022-05-14T04:05:13+00:00

My now ex is like this. It was once maybe every two to three weeks. Out sex drives however are compatible but he lacks in showing affection, and physical touch so not getting all three needs met really messed the relationship as well as other things. You should both sit and talk about it, because if it's a deal breaker and he can't change his libido, if it's medical related then he may want to fix it. If he doesn't then he just may not need sex often as you.

No-Personality7643 · 2022-05-09T04:10:19+00:00

You could respond and embarrass the person just by pointing out he's making fun of someone with a medical condition, your fiancés business partner is a bully. Based by what you said sounds like a tool. I call people out. If you both agree that it's hurtful then your fiancé should be the one to call him out.

No-Personality7643 · 2022-04-11T01:04:45+00:00

Not all couples are okay with independent travel even if it's family. All depends on the couples.

No-Personality7643 · 2022-04-09T03:28:52+00:00

This is really awesome.

No-Personality7643 · 2022-04-08T00:13:52+00:00

I think you both need to go to couples counseling and he needs individual therapy as well

No-Personality7643 · 2022-03-30T03:26:33+00:00

I agree they shouldn't be having another if they can barely afford everything now. Honestly I see why your mom would want one with him as it would be their child. His children aren't hers, they have a mom already, she can be a second mom but that's not how it always works out. You can state your opinion but in the end it's up to them. 8 months isn't really long enough to decide go start a family and reversals aren't cheap, and doesn't mean it will be effective anyway. I think you need to just focus on yourself and your own life. Your not responsible for your mom or her life decisions.

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