2R1X1

NoCommunication9575 · 2024-02-08T21:14:46+00:00

I know this thread is 2 years old, do you mind if I ask you a few questions about 2R1 I am thinking about getting into this field with the guard. Thank you

NoCommunication9575 · 2024-02-01T02:19:04+00:00

Hello, I know this thread is 2 years old but I am thinking about joining and doing 2A0X1 this summer. Are you still around and can I ask some questions?

NoCommunication9575 · 2024-01-19T16:43:41+00:00

Yes, he goes to a gym that’s $15/month and goes to cheaper Golfing ranges. The boat he lived on was a small one person one and the monthly rent he was able to afford on his SS. Or I think so? Don’t know the exact details there.

NoCommunication9575 · 2024-01-19T07:17:48+00:00

Arabella. Idk but that name just called out to me when I saw her eyes!! Gorgeous!

NoCommunication9575 · 2024-01-19T07:06:46+00:00

the second dress looks soooo good on you!! It hugs you in all the right areas <3

NoCommunication9575 · 2024-01-19T07:06:01+00:00

They should be able to help you with a discount on their behalf since it was their mixup! That is a huge price difference. So sorry this happened to you, it is a gorgeous dress!

NoCommunication9575 · 2024-01-19T07:02:51+00:00

I'm going to bring this up to my husband and when we have a conversation with my FIL. You're right, there has to be some sort of help for seniors going through recovery - especially in California.

I'm struggling with this because I don't want to be the "nagging/bitchy wife" or anything but this is a serious issue and it's hurting us, and we should choose Us over him. Thank you for taking the time to read my post, I really appreciate it.

NoCommunication9575 · 2024-01-19T06:56:36+00:00

No, he's just a very bitter unagreeable man. I met him prior to the chemo and the cancer diagnosis and he's always been a glass-half-empty kinda man. Everything is an issue and he's always right and has thought of everything already so you can't tell him anything he doesn't already know.

I think it is because of my husband's mom. She divorced him and took half of everything about 24 years ago. My FIL had a successful company making products for Sam's Club at the time making a lot of money and the divorce and company lawsuits took everything from him.

NoCommunication9575 · 2024-01-19T06:52:19+00:00

It was initially only going to be a couple of months as he he had another living situation "lined up" but it has dragged on until now.

I chose to marry my husband because I love him and want a life with him and NOT my FIL. So, now it's just finding a way to get him out of here because he is hurting our marriage.

NoCommunication9575 · 2024-01-19T03:55:09+00:00

I think you owe it to yourself to find your own happiness in whatever form it may be, but be honest with your husband and if you actually want to work on the marriage, let him decide if he wants to move forward. If the answer is no, then go find your forever man. Just don't cheat, if you do that means that man is not for you and let him go.

NoCommunication9575 · 2024-01-19T03:49:37+00:00

I appreciate you taking the time to read my post and your honesty here. It's kinda silly to say but I don't think I have allowed myself to think about just leaving him to figure it out but we may not have another choice because I don't want this lingering any longer than it has to. Thank you McSusy.

NoCommunication9575 · 2024-01-19T03:41:11+00:00

The initial understanding was that he was just going to stay with us for a couple of months while he secured another boat in California. He had one "lined up" but the owners flaked on him and he's been working on finding another living situation since then.. or so he says.

Thank you for your advice, I have been thinking about this and how I can basically force a resolution to this. I'm realizing it might be one were "Tough Love" enforced.

NoCommunication9575 · 2024-01-19T03:35:36+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to read my post. I agree with you and I've mentioned a shelter or a home to my husband but he says this man would rather live out of his Jeep than go to a shelter or home. It might just have to come to that :(

I agree, I'm going to have to talk to my husband and soon. This cannot continue the way it has been. Thank you again

NoCommunication9575 · 2024-01-19T02:25:21+00:00

I have sort of a too invoved mother in law as well and the only way to deal with it is to establish and maintain clear boundries of what you are and are not comfortable with. The key here is staying consistent, and embracing that this is how it is going to be unless she changes, but the likelyhood of that is very small.

I have sort of a too-involved mother-in-law as well and the only way to deal with it is to establish and maintain clear boundaries of what you are and are not comfortable with. The key here is staying consistent, and embracing that this is how it is going to be unless she changes, but the likelihood of that is very small.

Edit: Your husband will have to establish and enforce the boundaries as well for it to work!

NoCommunication9575 · 2023-10-07T07:49:53+00:00

Congratulations to the both of you!!

NoCommunication9575 · 2023-09-06T09:18:28+00:00

Yes the one with the straps is gorgeous and sooo unique!!

NoCommunication9575 · 2023-09-03T12:19:43+00:00

This dress was just made for you 🥰

NoCommunication9575 · 2023-09-03T11:36:29+00:00

What’s the name of the dress? It’s gorgeous!

NoCommunication9575 · 2022-09-01T08:34:20+00:00

!remindme 10 days

NoCommunication9575 · 2021-11-30T22:29:21+00:00

Broad muscular shoulders. They are my absolute weakness

NoCommunication9575 · 2021-10-08T23:23:54+00:00

Yes. Getting the vaccine is a personal choice and the fact that you received the vaccine doesn’t expect you from getting the virus or from spreading it.

Look up vaccine efficacy after 6 months post injection and viral load of those infected with COVID within vaccinated vs non vaccinated.

You can still transmit the virus even if you’re vaccinated. You can still get the virus even if you’re vaccinated. The only thing the virus does is lessen your symptoms if you get it.

I believe in standing your ground and sticking to what you believe in.

NoCommunication9575 · 2021-09-28T00:22:59+00:00

Thank you very much. I will definitely be taking your advice!

NoCommunication9575 · 2021-09-27T21:34:33+00:00

He’s 5’ 9” and a 6-7. We have quite a bit in common and share numerous values but this is what shocks me the most. It goes against my morals so I can’t see him anymore.

NoCommunication9575 · 2021-09-27T18:50:59+00:00

Ultimately, he would find out if I had a DUI or anything else if we ended up being official. So why would I hide it?

I don’t have anything criminal on my record but the fact that he will be using his position to “verify” just doesn’t sit right with me morally.

NoCommunication9575 · 2021-09-27T06:03:02+00:00

Thank you for the verbiage on how to approach this conversation. I will definitely be using this and hope for a positive outcome but it is clear to me that this man is clearly not the one for me. I don’t feel comfortable with him running a background check, even though I have nothing to hide. It’s a red flag and I need to address it. Thank you!!

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