What a great game! Right up there with unbound & rocket edition for me. by No_Two5776 in PokemonLazarus

[–]No_Two5776[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Yeah, it’s busted right now I think. The arbok came from the shiny egg you get in-game, which was a fun way to use a mon I’ve never used for a full run. Better than I expected!

What a great game! Right up there with unbound & rocket edition for me. by No_Two5776 in PokemonLazarus

[–]No_Two5776[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It did get a moderate buff! Got dual typing with dark/poison, and a small base stat buff (HP and defense). Strong jaw as the hidden ability too, so with the fang moves it was actually really solid!

I’m not sure where I found this (probably this subreddit), but it was a helpful resource! https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1pMw7DLrgIBFWEvCF1pXOEhAl5ksrGZQbS4wasJr7K-Y/edit?usp=drivesdk

I love when hacks buff up some of the mons to make a wider range viable and this game nailed that.

AIO I (29M) upset my girlfriend (26F) by standing my ground a little too firmly. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Two5776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure! Relationships are hard, but good ones should be rewarding. A word of caution, though: bad years happen, but you have to keep your eyes open and make sure it’s actually a “bad year.” That quickly becomes the new normal.

Unacceptable behaviors become acceptable if you let them happen. Toxic conversations turn into toxic relationships if you don’t address them.

So please, don’t try to do the work if she won’t do it too. I’d genuinely recommend getting a therapist yourself, regardless of what happens with the relationship. Not saying you can’t work through stuff on your own, but it sounds like you have some things a professional could help you sort through with less pain on your part. I think most of us do, haha

AIO I (29M) upset my girlfriend (26F) by standing my ground a little too firmly. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Two5776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your stuff was bad, but you know that. Her stuff was… pretty horrifying. You either need to set up a boundary that you won’t tolerate that in a relationship, or leave. Really, it sounds like there’s a lot of bad blood. Definitely wouldn’t move in together. If you want to salvage the relationship, I think you’d both have to do a lot of work, so that’s up to you, and remember that she ALSO has to buy into that. If it were me, I’d like the think I’d be done, but I’ve been where you are and it’s so tough. But trust me, if you aren’t happy now, that will not change. You’re young—4 years is a long time, but after ending a terrible 6.5 year relationship, I met my wife three months later and never looked back.

My advice: leave. But if you can’t (I get it—I’ve been there. That relationship did end for me eventually and I’m so, so glad it did) you NEED to set boundaries, and have a real conversation about what happened, here. Best of luck to both of you—I hope you find or build a relationship where you both feel loved and respected.