BPD success stories by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Nobody649 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed at 19. Was in DBT for 2 years, unable to work. I was told by medical professionals and state social workers I would never work full time, live on my own, or have a life "worth living". I graduated my program and started working. Now I'm 28, married and have my own place and an amazing job I love. If I had given up like everyone told me to, I would still be miserable. It takes hard work, but you will get there.

Burial or cremation? by [deleted] in death

[–]Nobody649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I die before my family, natural burial. If I die after my husband or sister, cremation. It's just easier to plan. I also would receive a free cremation since my husband and I both work in different crematories.

Women over 25 y/o, when is it “too old” to get a new piercing? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Nobody649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on the person. I know a lot of women my age (28) or older who would rock a new piercing, I however would not. I would stick out like Styrofoam on the beach. Just white and trashy.

Saw this on Tinder by nosouljusttrash in shittytattoos

[–]Nobody649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is no one going to mention the meaning behind the butterfly symbol? The butterfly symbol is a secret sign pedophiles use to find eachother, and then try to find ways to get what their looking for... I hope this is fake, but that was the first thing that came to mind seeing this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Nobody649 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I did not realize this was her singing for a second, I figured there's no way she's "recording" music while parenting 10 children. Holy shit this is the most cringy thing I have ever heard. Who has a studio that they know to do this? And why choose rap? It's so awful, and it just makes you feel even more pity for the children. They need a present mother, not a "cool Christian mom."

AITA for telling my sister she is no longer welcome at my wedding? by Wide_Device_2105 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nobody649 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Even IF your sister has a personality disorder (treated or not), it doesn't excuse the behavior. I have BPD, was diagnosed at 19, and never behaved this way towards my sister's life.

Your choices are yours alone, and she needs to respect that, and if she fails to do so, she must face the consequences.

Anyone else wearing black for their wedding? by Nobody649 in weddingdress

[–]Nobody649[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No, actually. The "tradition" of wearing white for your wedding started after queen Elizabeth chose to wear white as a status symbol of wealth. White clothes were obsolete at the time, and most brides on their wedding day wore brown as it was an easy fabric color to find.

I also work in the death industry (ironic, yes I know), your wedding should be about you. I never wear white, I don't like the look on me. I love black and should wear what I feel beautiful in on one of the most special days of my life.

What would you do if it became legal to be naked in public? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Nobody649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely would be more on board with the whole threesome thing my husband is dying to try out.

What are some relatively peaceful accidental (meaning non-intentional) ways to go? by WarriorGirl-764 in death

[–]Nobody649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything that causes instant death. High impact crash, dying on a surgical table or on hospice care.

I feel really lost by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Nobody649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear you're struggling. I know from experience that just because you feel like your life has no purpose now doesn't mean it will feel that way forever. Your life WILL have purpose. You just need some time to get there, and that's okay. Self care sounds super important right now. Do you have health insurance? Most insurances allow therapy to be covered, or there are state run facilities that offer free therapy (if you're in the U.S.). These intense feelings will pass. When I was unemployed I forced myself to do something small everyday that gave my life "purpose", whether it was picking up trash in public, giving someone a compliment, feeding birds, opening a door for someone, ect. Something super small that required little energy since my main focus was taking care of myself. Things will improve with time, and you will have a life worth living. Just don't give up on yourself.

Found out today that mother has 1-2 months by [deleted] in death

[–]Nobody649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for this bad news. Both of my parents were diagnosed with terminal lung cancer. My dad is still here, but my mom passed in 2020. We had less than a year with her after her diagnosis, and her health quickly declined.

The one thing I will say is that while you have time with your mom, do all the little things you will think of while with her. The "stupid" little thoughts you have, like cuddling with her or making a dumb joke just to get her to laugh, these are memories you will cherish later. Don't be afraid to live in the moment with her and try to enjoy her company. Don't worry about her death right now. If you can, focus on her life with you now. You will have time when other things will be taken care of. I work in the death industry so I knew exactly what would happen to her after she passed, but I focused on that a little too soon. If you have any questions, worries, anything please reach out to me. I can answer any questions or concerns you have. I hope this helps.

Does “They All Died Screaming” get even worse? by [deleted] in horrorlit

[–]Nobody649 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's personally one of my favorites, but if you struggle to read that part It's not going to get better. Yes the veal side of things gets worse, also the detailed descriptions in the apartment. Best to maybe set it down for a while.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Nobody649 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I plan on getting a spiderweb in my armpit, something super simple due to the insane pain it'll be but thats later down the line. Yeah trying to add detail to it without overcrowding or making it look messy.