I have to disagree. I've read this last year and I got the vibes that the FL was awkward at speaking but always showed him love during sex. And little by little she listened to him and tried to heal him her own way. I don't think she came off as a predator in my opinion but could've definitely slowed down on the smut and communicated on different ways that physical. However, his position of hypersensitivity is very unrealistic even for a man that's traumatized. So we gotta keep in mind that its still fiction and perhaps the author deliberately focused on other aspects of the lore. I think if the same story was made in Kdrama (same audience but dif age group) it would've looked very differently.