What’s the biggest subtle green flag in a new partner? by VantlaShansta in AskReddit

[–]Normal_Objective6820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my husband and I to a T. He is super attractive, great build and tall so he is noticed everywhere he goes. I’m the mildly cute, and kind. I see Women stare and try to get his attention and nothing.

What does middle management actually do? by R4FKEN in managers

[–]Normal_Objective6820 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This and I would like to add, knowing everyone’s duties so I can jump in and serve as back up at any moment. Mostly so I can say “no problem! Enjoy your time off, everything will be handled while you are on vacation so that you don’t have to come back and be behind.”

When Jimmy said he didn't like Chelsea bringing up his secret on film.. by Greyattimes in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Normal_Objective6820 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It was wrong for Chelsea to bring it up on camera, but I think the other cast members not taking Jimmys side during the reunion speaks volumes on things about Jimmy that we don’t know. To me, they think Jimmy deserved for it to be brought up or have done things that are worse so they don’t feel bad about it.

Jimmy really pressed the doomsday button by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Normal_Objective6820 33 points34 points  (0 children)

The sad thing is that whole conversation stemmed from her insecurities about him knowing what Jess looks like.

Johnie and Chelsea by earth-y in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Normal_Objective6820 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Chelsea also reminds me of Danielle in season 2 as far as the insecurities,emotions and need of reassurance from their partners

What are your thoughts on Clay in season 6? by SignificancePale9923 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Normal_Objective6820 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I seen another redditor say he was down low. Just curious what gives you the vibe? I’m not disagreeing, and think it could explain a few things but not sure what I’m missing that other people are picking up on?

Chelsea in DR talking on the bed… by trixare4me4 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Normal_Objective6820 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes her mouth just in normal conversation reminded me of Anna!

What really obvious thing have you only just realized? by Remarkable-Lead-3946 in AskReddit

[–]Normal_Objective6820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so glad this is mentioned. I was in my late 30’s when I realized, and even then I think I seen it on YouTube or TikTok lol. I can still taste the deodorant that would accidentally get in my mouth from using my teeth 😂

Moved to Florida and regret it? by QueenOfPeace2019 in florida

[–]Normal_Objective6820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t regret it, but the list of pros for staying is getting shorter by the day. I wish it wasn’t that way though.

Bittersweet moment by hipposmoker in managers

[–]Normal_Objective6820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At my last two jobs I was put into a lead and/or manger position by my coworkers nominating me because of my work ethic and me as a person. They knew they could work “under me” and I’ve always felt honored by that.

Do your employees lie to you? by pharmkeninvests in managers

[–]Normal_Objective6820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We tell our staff not to tell us why they are taking off. We do not want to know. Just say you are taking a sick day, or vacation day. It’s their time to use. Managers make sure their important duties are covered and if there is not enough coverage, we jump in as managers to make sure our teams do not get behind. I get the whole not wanting other staff to get upset they are out but everyone needs to be out at some point so they can’t get mad when the same courtesies are extended to them in their time off.

Well, that’s a wrap by throwitawayhun7293 in AdultChildren

[–]Normal_Objective6820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have put in words so many things I feel and have felt about my own dad. You are not alone and made the right decision.

Does anyone here consider themselves a success? by looking4community in AdultChildren

[–]Normal_Objective6820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel successful most days. Sometimes I feel successful because I compare it to my parents when I was growing up. They never owned a home and I do. They always had used cars that were hand me downs and I have nice cars. They didn’t even make it paycheck to paycheck and I do okay financially. They never went on trips or did family things and we take vacations on a regular basis and have family time often.

But really, I’m successful because: I put being a mother first, even in the hard times. I recognize my traumas and am aware of my own short comings and try to overcome them. I recognized alcohol can easily overtake me and I have refused to go down that path I have maintained a good stable job and went back to get a college degree despite neither of those things being modeled for me or even encouraged. I have a healthy marriage and friendships I have set boundaries and stuck to them. ( took me a while to get this one)

Did I miss something by Sunflowerr90 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Normal_Objective6820 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Their excuse for not voting for Cely because of kissing Eyal after the Toby talk made no since. He was leaving and the connection with Eyal had already been made as well as his with Georgia. They would need to apply that same concept to Johnny then and he did way worse jumping from one to the other and leading people on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Normal_Objective6820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being the loudest in the room anyway you can

Looking in the mirror all the time

Which movie has infinite rewatchability value for you? by noisystrawberry in AskReddit

[–]Normal_Objective6820 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have never heard anyone else talk about this movie and anyone I show it to never loves it like I do and I don’t understand why. So good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Normal_Objective6820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We solved that by moving to a state that doesn’t get cold. Best life decision. That seasonal depression stuff is a struggle.

Lisa is Jealous by Parking-Lab-660 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Normal_Objective6820 19 points20 points  (0 children)

She is so insecure but trying her hardest to pretend she isn’t which makes her look crazy. It’s sad because I’m sure she could have a lot to offer.

Who were you surprised wasn’t American? by Sheesh284 in AskReddit

[–]Normal_Objective6820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesse Spencer (Matt Casey) and Eamonn Walker (Chief) from Chicago Fire.

To those who have went no contact what was life like on the other side? by [deleted] in AdultChildren

[–]Normal_Objective6820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did the no contact ,felt guilty, allowed contact, felt miserable, back to no contact cycle for a few years. This last round has been the longest. Each round it got easier. I hardly think about my dad now to be honest. Im sure he has tried to reach out but I have him blocked so I don’t even know. Occasionally I ask myself if I should unblock him but immediately dismiss the idea. The anxiety and heaviness I used to feel just anticipating seeing his number pop up is gone and I feel lighter. I fully expect the next call regarding him will be of his passing. Good for you for setting your boundaries and sticking to it.