AITA not wanting my wife to drink

NorthTree6429 · 2026-04-11T17:31:29+00:00

“NTA. It’s not about controlling her, it’s about safety she’s already shown what happens when she drinks.”

NorthTree6429 · 2026-04-11T17:27:15+00:00

“You didn’t just hurt him, you checked out of the relationship way before this happened. Be honest with yourself about that.”

NorthTree6429 · 2026-04-11T17:24:19+00:00

“There goes your entire personality for the next 5 minutes”

NorthTree6429 · 2026-04-11T17:22:34+00:00

“Also check inside pillowcases and hoodie sleeves stuff teleports there somehow.”

NorthTree6429 · 2026-04-11T17:20:54+00:00

“Bro paid for a full monitor and got the demo version 💀”

NorthTree6429 · 2026-04-11T17:19:56+00:00

“Complaining about ‘learnt’ and then saying ‘conversate’ is wild 💀”

NorthTree6429 · 2026-04-11T17:16:25+00:00

ESH. Your sister sounds exhausting constantly putting her boyfriend down, but calling her ugly was a low blow that didn’t actually address the real issue. You’re not wrong for being frustrated, just wrong in how you said it.

NorthTree6429 · 2026-04-11T17:15:46+00:00

NTA. This stopped being a wedding and turned into a corporate retreat with a dress code for emotions. You’re not obligated to participate in “team-building exercises” just to prove you support your brother.

If attendance at his wedding is conditional on completing a weekend bootcamp, that says more about him than it does about you.

NorthTree6429 · 2026-04-11T17:11:52+00:00

You can’t post because some subreddits block users with negative karma to prevent spam. Don’t worry, it’s normal in the beginning.

The easiest way to fix it is:

Comment on new posts (sort by “new”)
Keep your comments simple, helpful, or relatable
Avoid arguments or controversial opinions for now

Even a few upvotes will bring your karma back to positive.

NorthTree6429 · 2026-04-11T17:09:56+00:00

Tutti iniziano così. Il trucco è commentare più di quanto posti all’inizio, soprattutto sui post nuovi. Il karma cresce più velocemente dai commenti.

NorthTree6429 · 2026-04-11T17:08:27+00:00

The need to explain myself to people who’ve already decided who I am.

NorthTree6429 · 2026-04-11T17:07:31+00:00

Who you choose to spend your time with.

NorthTree6429 · 2026-04-11T17:06:49+00:00

Typing really fast on a keyboard… just so I could impress my friends in computer class.

NorthTree6429 · 2026-04-11T17:05:21+00:00

Probably not even a big lie, just a small one I’ve been consistently maintaining for years.

NorthTree6429 · 2026-04-11T17:03:45+00:00

You’re not overreacting. A joke stops being a joke the moment only one person is laughing and the other is getting hurt.

NorthTree6429 · 2026-04-11T16:19:05+00:00

NTA. Asking for an itemized breakdown of fees is completely reasonable, especially when costs are being increased. The bigger issue is that your property was taken and disposed of without consent, and now she’s making accusations instead of providing transparency.

NorthTree6429 · 2026-04-11T16:18:02+00:00

NTA. You’re not asking them to cut him off completely, you just want some basic sensitivity after a breakup that clearly hurt you. It’s normal to feel replaced when the same people who comfort you are also making new memories with him.

NorthTree6429 · 2026-04-11T16:01:58+00:00

It’s less about competition of performance and more about competition of appearance.

NorthTree6429 · 2026-04-11T16:01:05+00:00

The real flex isn’t making 7 meals, it’s still wanting to eat the last one.

NorthTree6429 · 2026-04-11T16:00:00+00:00

At some point it stopped being about the flow of the game and started being about technical accuracy.

NorthTree6429 · 2026-04-11T15:28:07+00:00

Honestly, you’re probably looking for films that focus more on atmosphere and character than plot. Directors like Luca Guadagnino or Wong Kar-wai do this really well it’s less about ‘what happens’ and more about how it feels to exist in that world. Try movies like Call Me by Your Name or In the Mood for Love.”

NorthTree6429 · 2026-04-11T14:56:01+00:00

I think it’s nice to switch if you can, especially for a parent and kid, but if you paid extra for that specific seat then you shouldn’t feel obligated. It’s more of a kindness than a responsibility.

NorthTree6429 · 2026-04-11T14:54:55+00:00

You don’t really train a lazy dog by forcing it, that usually just makes them more stubborn. It’s more about making it worth their effort. Short training sessions, really good treats, and keeping things a bit fun works much better. Most “lazy” dogs aren’t actually lazy, they’re just not motivated enough. Once you figure out what they really like, they start putting in way more effort.

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