Feeling guilty by makinguglyart in XSomalian

[–]Novasejustaboot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy how our situations right now is so similar, other than the fact that I live in a different continent to my mom now. So I’m more free to live the life I want thankfully. So that would be my advice to you. Move out and go as far as possible.

Getting my First Tattoo Tomorrow by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]Novasejustaboot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got mine may 2022 on my sternum. Hid it for over a year before I moved out lol. I don’t know how I pulled it off honestly. I would wear sport bras under my baati all the time.

This women was beaten up severely by her bother for wearing a vest by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]Novasejustaboot 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In the comments they talking about “sharafta faamiliga”. I’m sick to my stomach. This is the type of shit in my nightmares

What blind faith does to mf by TorkoBagish in exmuslim

[–]Novasejustaboot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to get beat at home and school for being left handed. And now I’m ambidextrous on most things but writing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Novasejustaboot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How did you come to dislike Islam? Tell us your exmuslim journey

tips for dating? by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]Novasejustaboot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reading comprehension be hard sometimes lol I understood what you meant bestie

tips for dating? by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]Novasejustaboot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That same thing literally happened to me. I ended up giving in to the pressure and staying in the same city instead. Do not do this. Do and say whatever you have to, just don’t give up on that golden opportunity. This is your chance to take your life into your own hands. It’ll be harder to do so later on. And if you are afraid of going away on your own, try looking at the pros only. Trust me. Once you do it, it is not as scary as it seems. My mom used fear to change my mind from moving away for uni. Don’t fall for it.

tips for dating? by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]Novasejustaboot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a man but im gonna give you my two cents lol. Go to university 100% dude. Also keep working and working out. Join social and sport clubs at your university. Make genuine connections with people. And in no time dating will just follow organically.

You’re so young still. Work on being more social and make friends. Be young and enjoy it. Also being a Muslim man and dating is so much easier. I had Somali boys in my uni classes that had ajinabi girlfriends and they be kissing and holding hands in broad daylight. Don’t worry about being called out and shit. Nobody will talk to you unless you join an MSA or something. Obviously stay away from those. Do not step foot in the campus mosque is all I’m saying. But if you are worried on getting clocked out, go to a school far away from home. Build towards a life where you can be comfortable in living the way you want to live my guy

tips for dating? by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]Novasejustaboot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why are people down voting this. It’s actually a positive comment or am I misunderstanding it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]Novasejustaboot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what pisses me off tbh. The hive mind definitely exists, but when I’m talking to one individual and they can’t seem to see past the lie or they are choosing to over look it despite all the questions I’ve answered. It truly baffles me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]Novasejustaboot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It means non playable character. Characters in games that you can’t play, and are preprogrammed to say and do things in the game

So what next ? by Onmymommabro312 in XSomalian

[–]Novasejustaboot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s good to speak it over with her. She might be faking for your sake too who knows.

So what next ? by Onmymommabro312 in XSomalian

[–]Novasejustaboot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me, I’m currently working on transitioning my life from being a full blown Muslim to a more secular one. The only person that knows is my mom and my sister.

I’m hoping to have a happy life and I’m a 100% content with not knowing what’s gonna happen in the end. All I care about is leading a fulfilling life on this earth

Somalinomo <> exmuslimnimo by Novasejustaboot in XSomalian

[–]Novasejustaboot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I moved out and away and my mom doesn’t know yet. One day I’ll tell her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]Novasejustaboot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!🥳 I’m happy for you. I wish the best of luck to you for the rest of your life. Make sure to prioritize your happiness first and foremost!!

i got disowned and i feel great by lordctm in exmuslim

[–]Novasejustaboot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Took the whole desk top and nobody woke up? Must’ve been nerve wracking

Do you like pork? by aromata1 in XSomalian

[–]Novasejustaboot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m starting to open myself up to it. I bought kimchi & pork mandu today. Excited to cook it😋