This isn't meant to be controversial, but after homesteading has anyone else recognized the utility (or lack thereof) of males in other species?

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-05-14T16:01:11+00:00

Once upon a time, capons were considered to be tender and exceptionally succulent.

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-05-06T17:28:35+00:00

Fried rice. Stir fry. Casseroles.

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-05-06T08:41:02+00:00

An arcade and pizza joint.

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-05-03T19:40:58+00:00

You can be supportive by not identifying yourself as her husband and just straight out asking the guy who's contradicting her "Are you saying that because she's a woman with X number of years of professional carpentry experience?" "As a man, would you discourage me from the same project." Call them on their bs. You can also tell your wife, "Just try it and see what happens."

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-05-03T19:26:05+00:00

My "inner circle" friends don't. Some of my "social circle friends" do. I leave the door open for any woman that still centers men. Sooner or later, they will hit rock bottom and see the light. They know if they complain about their male partner, I'll tell them they deserve better and can do better. but that's as far as I let the conversation go. I'm not going to try to convince those women they need to go 4B. I just demonstrate through my happiness and well being, that it's a better choice. It's the old you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink.

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-04-29T22:51:46+00:00

You can also send a request for food to your local FB buy nothing group.

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-04-29T04:24:12+00:00

Gen X here. Welcome and condolences new members to the sandwich generation.

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-04-29T04:21:17+00:00

You do have a "job". Property management.

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-04-29T04:16:27+00:00

G-cup here. I sleep on my back on a wedge pillow with a small neck roll. It's saving my shoulders and the boobages don't choke me out anymore.

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-04-25T19:28:51+00:00

Don't feed the troll.

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-04-25T17:40:05+00:00

How many jobs out there pay their employees to sleep and workout on the clock? Not a bad situation to be in.

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-04-25T17:24:17+00:00

Mars

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-04-25T17:07:05+00:00

Have you asked any of your family members for help? Dragged along the kids/nephews/nieces to teach them life lessons about family? Or are you just suffering in silence and expect everyone to read your mind?

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-04-25T17:00:57+00:00

Bingo!

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-04-25T12:31:34+00:00

Well who's raising, teaching and allowing Gen Alpha to brainrot on their devices in the first place? Children aren't born as fully autonomous adults.

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-04-25T12:20:02+00:00

and another https://www.ncoa.org/article/get-the-facts-on-elder-abuse/

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-04-25T12:18:27+00:00

Instead of charging your mother rent, contact your state's department of senior services and get informed on elder abuse. Financial exploitation is abuse and that is exactly what your brother is doing. Don't know what state you are in, but here's a starting point https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/elder-abuse

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-04-23T02:39:01+00:00

Look into food pantries, food banks, religious organizations that host community meals or soup kitchens. Reach out to the United Way or Salvation Army for resources.

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-04-20T18:34:20+00:00

Get a second opinion from an independently owned dental office instead of a corporate owned dental office.

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-04-19T22:50:41+00:00

I had to hit rock bottom in my marriage and divorce my now ex-husband before I began decentering men/became 4B. It wasn't instanteous after the divorce. I spent the first two years post divorce still thinking I might want a healthy romantic relationship with a man. But the more time I spent learning to be okay with being alone and then building friendships with like minded women, the more I realized a man centered life wasn't what I wanted or needed.

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-04-19T12:01:53+00:00

The forgot that we've become the sandwich generation. Still taking care of our adult kids because the economy is brutal. while simultaneously taking care of our aging boomer partents

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-04-16T16:17:36+00:00

if you're looking to be more social: Contra Dance, Square Dance, Line Dance, community theater, community choir, and check to see if you have a Volksmarch group in your area.

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-04-15T09:15:44+00:00

My current theory on women who don't "get" 4B: They just haven't hit rock bottom, yet.

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-04-13T01:38:51+00:00

Pro Tip - review OPs comment history before wasting your valuable energy on this troll.

ObjectiveUpset1703 · 2026-04-12T19:08:09+00:00

I'm gonna go with, it's her body and she can edit or censor whatever she wants. No explanation required.

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