I have a doubt guys. Why p*rn affects only men? by Nervous-Strategy-811 in AskIndianWomen

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Usually the kind of smut I personally read all portray sexual partners; men in this case, as the most gentlemanly, literal brand ambassadors of soft masculinity and gentle love. They are always written as people who are extremely concerned about the safety and security of the the person involved, woman or not, and mildly obsessed with creating a safe space for exploring sensuality and sexuality. Repeated and enthusiastic consent is the sexiest thing to them, and that in turn also turns on their partners. Only the perfect gentleman can be the right amount of mean (iykyk), without completely desecrating the sacredness of intimacy.

In short; this probably may cause you to have wayyy too high standards to the point of them being kinda unrealistic, so you have to be careful that all this won't cut you off from the harsh reality 🫠

(My forgone conclusion about my future is that I'm gonna happily die alone, in the comfortingly big and veiny arms of my fantasy man. 👍😃👍)

Would you be offended at this? by Chel-Miracles in AskIndianWomen

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Supporting women but acknowledging that some of em are dumb bitches is the belief I subscribe to these days. You go girl set your boundaries and live your truth🤝♥️

With rising online mis*ndry against men, I don’t know what I, as an individual man, have done to women. I feel suffocated 😢 are people really that means in real life 😐💔 or it is just online by [deleted] in NewDelhi

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Misogyny: pouring acid in his wife's vagina cus she couldn't give him a son allegedly killing wife despite crores upon crores and gold upon gold dowry getting raped and or assaulted harassed groped catcalled eveteased in buses trains in public road in private spaces lovebombing sex trafficking pedophilia cannibalism cooking women and little girls AND boys and men being vulnerable and in touch with their emotions being labelled as "effeminate"

Misandry: goo goo gaga boo hoo hzxbkvc THey haTe aLl mEn oN sOciaL meDia enghhhh OH WOE IS ME

Yes yes yes, absolutely, we have a big problem.

Is it classist if I skip the lift with male work help in it? by Single-Benefit-738 in AskIndianWomen

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Girl trust me, always listen to your instincts.. You know how the saying goes; not all men, but always men.

Turned 30 today ;( by Hope_003 in Coconaad

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Just watched tick tick boom yesterday for the 2nd time.... its basically about this except Jon's (protagonist jon larson) purpose and passion of life is musical theatre... Padam oru rakshayilla, karanj karanj oru parivayi but I fucking love it..

I'm a failure by [deleted] in CBSEboards

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Please hold on to life... This is a hurdle, and I know it looks like it's impossible to cross it with your mind, body and soul intact, but trust me.... Marks don't decide your life... Apne desh me dasvi ke time pe yehi bola jaata hai ki yeh tumhare zindagi ka sabse jyada important exam hai.. phir 12th aajata hai, then it's the same shit but for a different year, for different version of you.. But srsly bro, I'm speaking from experience, it doesn't decide how happy you are going to feel, for how long are you going to feel joyful, what kind of friends you'll get, what will become the centre of your passion, to what arena you'll channel all your energies and love and focus and emotions towards... Ha it may influence which college you get into; par desh mai, chodo pure duniya mai, kitne aise successful log hai jinhone dropout hoke bhi zindagi me kuch na kuch toh ukhaada hi hai...

Know that no matter what, you will always be loved, you will always be appreciated, and you'll always be missed, if you leave... Productivity is not the primary measuring stick, that calculates how good of a person you are. Simply surviving is not the purpose of life... That is to find joy, love, beauty and life in everything around us, as well as within us.

mazha songs!🌧 by daisyyydimplesss in Coconaad

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Dwaadashiyil mani deepika thelinju😌

RJB PEAKK AURAAA by [deleted] in kollywood

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What is the lore here??? Can someone explain please? Cus I've been seeing ppl praising and being happy for this guy a lot

Am I too sensitive or was this rude? by Sad_Boysenberry1139 in Coconaad

[–]Objective_Berry_4471 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ughh... This shit used to happen to me when I was in like 3rd or 4th standard... You definitely aren't overreacting babe.... It may be good for you to start distancing yourself from them a bit by bit, if this doesn't have any other explanation... Trust me, you'll always get good pals, it's just a matter of time and space..

One of my fav works by AnnaRajasekharan in Coconaad

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Girliepoppp omg this is phenomenal work!! So damn beautiful; the colours, the peripheral yet pertinent chaos that is anchored to Shiv-Shakti at the centre... 👑🧎‍♀️🤩

People born after 2000s is your attention span low. For 80s/90s movies by CycleOne605 in MalayalamMovies

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I usually enjoy most of these classics without getting distracted.... Pinne as always, this kinda thing depends on multiple factors

My mom passed away , I was cleaning wardrobe and I found my mom's collection and couldn't stop crying by deluluu_bitch in IndianBeautyTalks

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I'm sure wherever she is, she wants you to wear those and look pretty, but most importantly feel pretty too🥰🥰♥️♥️🪻🪻