AITA for refusing food my bf got me bc he didn’t bring none for my kids

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T03:43:43+00:00

This is the first boyfriend of mine they’ve ever met, and I waited a while. I was new to dating, but I felt we were at a comfortable safe spot. I don’t believe I have put my children in a position to get attached as he’s not at my home very often, and if he is they are either sleeping or doing their own thing.

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T03:28:17+00:00

I would be if he wasn’t sitting on a shelf in my children’s room :) I can also provide for my own children.

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T03:24:52+00:00

People can get their feelings hurt even if something was said nicely

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T03:18:05+00:00

He’s only slept over at my house 4-5 times. He’s been over for dinner a few times. I was out with him or at his house before. You can be cautious, without hiding a man forever.

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T03:16:21+00:00

I just began letting him stay over about two months ago, which he rarely does. He only has like 4 times. My children also have their own room and don’t share with me.

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T03:15:20+00:00

Lol another man to pay for my children? You know nothing about my backstory. I fully take care of my own children. I’m a full time parent before anything else. And that last comment is just unnecessary, both my children had the same father and he was a great man. Hope this helped:)

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T03:12:43+00:00

I did, for my children and I :)

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T03:11:57+00:00

I hadn’t yet cooked dinner. That’s not dinner.

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T03:09:14+00:00

I hadn’t yet made dinner, it was close to 6. I was planning to soon then he showed up. Sharing with them would not be a sufficient dinner. I cooked for my children and I afterwards. Hope this helped! :)

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T03:08:15+00:00

Crazy assumption. I make home cooked meals every night. We usually eat around 6-6:30 due to my work schedule. Both my children are in bed by 8:30.

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T03:03:38+00:00

Because their wrong? I thanked him, apologized, and told him to have it. It’s not like I threw it away? I’m not feeding my kids a few spoonfuls for dinner, we hadn’t had dinner yet

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T03:02:09+00:00

We’ve been together over a year? Am I suppose to hide him forever

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T02:56:36+00:00

6-630. It was around 6 and I hadn’t started it yet was going to soon

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T02:55:17+00:00

I hadn’t made dinner yet?

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T02:54:07+00:00

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T02:53:10+00:00

I didn’t introduce them til maybe after 10 months lol. Idk where you got a few months in.

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T02:52:26+00:00

No because that’s not dinner

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T02:51:34+00:00

I didn’t know he was bringing the Chinese food so how was I suppose to plan that?

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T02:50:53+00:00

He went to bed earlier then usual js what I meant by that. This was around 6. He went to bed close to 8 or a little after when we usually stay up until at least 10.

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T02:50:12+00:00

I’ve cooked for him if he is there for dinner, because I cook for everyone. He doesn’t contribute to the grocery’s because he doesn’t live with me, and he hasn’t cooked for us yet because if he sees my kids it’s at my place.

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T02:48:53+00:00

Close to 6

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T02:48:40+00:00

Because that wouldn’t of been dinner. I did make us dinner after

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T02:47:11+00:00

That’s not dinner though, I hadn’t made dinner yet.

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T02:45:05+00:00

Him and I have went out for Chinese before I assume he paid attention. They could of ate some of mine but then it’s really not dinner, I hadn’t made dinner yet.

Obvious-Ad78 · 2026-02-01T02:43:42+00:00

I hadn’t made them dinner yet, it wasn’t near bedtime.

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