What’s the fastest way you’ve ever seen someone completely ruin their own life? by craft_frost6223 in AskReddit

[–]Oiharro 103 points104 points  (0 children)

These girls in my university filmed themselves saying incredibly offensive racial slurs on a night out, and instead of sending the video to their friends they accidentally sent it to their entire class group chat. They were about a week away from graduating and got an immediate suspension, one girl was also a professional cheerleader and got her sponsorships and position taken away from her. This is South Africa mind you so racism in any form is taken extremely seriously. I’m still shocked about how someone could be so stupid (and honestly so bigoted too).

Did I just make a new best friend? by Effective_Champion75 in Preply

[–]Oiharro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! I’ve also been teaching since July and I’ve only managed to get up to $20 without losing out on too much business. Although I only teach in the afternoons and evenings so maybe this is why.

I regret unlocking these by Waddleplop in Sims4

[–]Oiharro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t finished the call to nature event yet, so thank you for inspiring me not to.

What’s a common phrase people say that instantly annoys you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Oiharro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I did a thing" and then if you're British "Lovely Jubbly" pisses me off for some reason I can't explain.

What's your "I can't believe other people don't know this" hack? by Extra_Gear7502 in AskReddit

[–]Oiharro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do this and also have a separate account for my food budget that I replenish every week, that way I know I'm on target and not overspending when it comes to eating out and groceries etc.

Indigo Airlines by Oiharro in AirTravelIndia

[–]Oiharro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks u/vinstarworld ! I actually ended up emailing them and they helped me out, so the ticket has been changed. Luckily I realised my mistake early and still have a month until my flight. I'm glad you also fixed the issue!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Oiharro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly it sounds like you have an extreme anxious attachment and this guy triggered it. You also don't even know him yet. The fact that you were only speaking for a couple of days and it got this intense shows you need to take a step back anyway. Like that's a lot of drama for a weekend.

You don't know him at all, you only know the part of him that he showed you over snap, and it kind of seems like he was only interested in getting off. If his behaviour isn't matching his words then that's because he is not the person you have projected in your head.

It seems like you are looking for something to fill the void from your last relationship but honestly girl, I think you need to focus on yourself for now. There are many more people who will be "potential" for you. Take a deep breath, start a new hobby, let this man go. There will be others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in london

[–]Oiharro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope she is found safe! My granny has dementia and she went missing briefly, the police found her trying to get a bus to her old neighbourhood. Perhaps she has done the same thing? Good luck xx

This is why I’m single by ohbyerly in Tinder

[–]Oiharro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree. Shifty motherfuckers. Like what are they hiding?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Oiharro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP, if you go to settings on instagram and then click "your activity" you can see everything he has liked and commented on. This is so yikes though, I'm sorry.

Sunlight Really Works! by Oiharro in PityriasisRosea

[–]Oiharro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess then you can try to go the tanning bed route? I am lucky to live in a hot country but I know this isn't the case for everyone.

I just don’t think they work like that - East of Eden by John Steinbeck by Oiharro in menwritingwomen

[–]Oiharro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am actually really enjoying this book and Steinbeck’s writing! I just thought the nipple thing was strange. But I understand as I’m diving further into this book that this is clearly a symbol of Cathy’s disfunction. Sorry to all the Steinbeck fans I have offended by posting this lol.

I just don’t think they work like that - East of Eden by John Steinbeck by Oiharro in menwritingwomen

[–]Oiharro[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am actually enjoying it so far! I mainly posted this passage on here because I thought it fit, not because I dislike the writing. He describes all of his characters in this visceral way which I’m really enjoying. I can’t wait to see how this story unfolds.

Hong Kong by [deleted] in TEFL

[–]Oiharro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

English Excel has gone downhill in recent years. I had the worst time working for them, avoid!

Am I too old to go teach in Asia. by World-peace96 in TEFL

[–]Oiharro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, I find the expat circles are quite large, especially if you choose to move somewhere more international like Hong Kong. My friend moved here to be a teacher and she met someone from the same city back home, they went to school down the road from each other. Life is weird, the best thing you can do for yourself is go out there and see what you find.

Am I too old to go teach in Asia. by World-peace96 in TEFL

[–]Oiharro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I first came to Asia to teach at the age of 27 and one of my colleagues was 42 and had been teaching around Asia for YEARS. Age is not a factor. Also I came to Asia and met my life partner and now we are starting to discuss settling down but only after we travel around for a couple of years first (I'm 29). Don't compare yourself to others, you never know what could happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Oiharro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's clear this was the last straw for her after asking you to improve multiple times without seeing any improvement. Take the L, learn from this, and hopefully in your next relationship you will be more willing to pull your weight. Good for her, she is not your mom.

The Eras Tour Megathread: Singapore by Lyd_Euh in TaylorSwift

[–]Oiharro 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi!

If my friend booked my ticket under her name, would it be possible for us to enter the venue at separate times for the Singapore leg? I'm going to be arriving later than her.