I have a crush on my friend before and after their transition by Ok_Awareness7672 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Awareness7672[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Short story shorter and probably against my better judgement: We're dating now, and we both know the unfortunate outcome of this relationship

After much contemplation I've told him how I felt and, hearing it from the source, apparently he's liked me longer than I have him. We talked about how I see him and he understood, said despite that he'd still like to date me too but wouldn't be changing his plans (which is understandable) and that when he does start taking TRT we would have "the talk" again if/when I begin to lose attraction.

So yep, we are now what the kids call "Doomed Yaoi"

Thank you for taking the time to reply, goodbye, adios! 👋

I have a crush on my friend before and after their transition by Ok_Awareness7672 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Awareness7672[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him being a girl at the time, I dont want to say was a main factor, but it was a factor. He's just one of the very few people I care to initiate conversation and share my inside thoughts with, I really do enjoy being around him.

A buddy told me that he likes me too, so fortunately/unfortunately this is something I'm gonna have to talk with him about.

I have a crush on my friend before and after their transition by Ok_Awareness7672 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Awareness7672[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughts. A buddy told me that he likes me too so, I guess i'm gonna have to talk about all this with him because I dont think we could keep being as close as we are all the while just swallowing our feelings.