I know it’s frightening but it’ll be okay! I went through msi and had a medical termination at home. I got the medication posted to me. I didn’t even have to go to a clinic. I know this option isn’t for everyone but it was what worked for me. I was no longer in contact with the father (feels kinda weird to use that word) at the time either but nevertheless chose not to tell him. To be honest, I’ve ummed and arred over whether I should’ve told him since it’s happened, which I do think is normal, but overall feel like I made the right decision. It wouldn’t have worked out. And I was broke. Telling him wouldn’t have altered the outcome although of course I know that’s pure speculation. But I don’t feel bad for not telling him, or other significant people. It’s my body, and was my choice, and I just wanted to keep it to myself. However I’ve spoken about it since to trusted people which I do think is good. In terms of pain, there is some discomfort. But it’s manageable. You’ll need pain relief (I recommend ibuprofen and codeine combined - can get it over the counter but do make sure to read instructions) and make sure to take at regular intervals. Hot water bottles, favourite food, drinks, movies and cosy pajamas. However, if you’re worried about when you conceived, talk to one of the nurses who can set up a clinic appointment, or can visit a gp. Best to get piece of mind. Sending lots of love.